Advice for new(ish) clients?

[carp86]

Hey guys. I recently moved to the US from Europe, so still getting my head around how things work in the US. While living here, I discovered RentMasseur and MasseurFinder, and have been booking sessions with providers coming to my town (some really good, some quite disappointing...). The massage context is easy, as you arrive, you chat a little bit, you take your clothes off and lie down on the bed/massage table. If something happens, it arises naturally from the massage itself. But now I want to hire men just for the sex part, so unsure how does one proceed with that. 

How does it usually work with RentMen providers in the US? Do you agree beforehand what will happen? Do you discuss on arrival? Or you just see as things develop while on it? Since I am quite new with the the transactional nature of these kind of encounters (and also a bit shy), not sure what's the best way to make an encounter just for sex less awkward at the start. 

Also, I would appreciate some advice as to how to arrange a meeting. What do providers want to hear from clients, other than the requested date and time? Is it rude to ask for the rate in the first message (RentMen does not show that, unlike RentMasseur)? Should I mention my stats (age, height, weight, etc)? 

Any help greatly appreciated.

 

 

Edited August 22, 2021 by carp86

[Rod Hagen]

You can find out through reviews and such if what the escort likes is what you like.  Then, when you message him, tell him what you are interested in; he'll say, "me too!" or "not me!" or say nothing, and by then you've done all the pre-arranging you can do.  Then when you meet, assuming you've chosen an experienced escort and made it clear you're inexperience, he'll take the lead.

Good luck, Have fun!

 

[+ MysticMenace]

some sage newbie last year posted a thread about a similar topic:

 

[carp86]

6 hours ago, JoeMendoza said:

some sage newbie last year posted a thread about a similar topic:

 

Excellent advice, thanks!! 

[italianboyph]

Think it just all depends on what the two parties agree on. Some talk before hand on what’s expected sexually, rate, interests, etc; I usually talk to clients prior to meeting. An experienced provider also will always make you feel comfortable. Just have fun 😘

Edited August 24, 2021 by italianboyph

[pubic_assistance]

On 8/22/2021 at 3:44 PM, carp86 said:

How does it usually work with RentMen providers in the US? Do you agree beforehand what will happen? Do you discuss on arrival? Or you just see as things develop while on it?

The most important thing to know in the US is that you are paying this person for their company, not for sex. Since paying for sex is illegal in most states, your relationship above and beyond spending some time together is by law outside of any transactional negotiations. So in simple terms, asking someone to blow you for $200 is illegal. Asking someone if they enjoy a blowjob from an older man and then making a date is not.