dylanklm Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Hi, Very new to this - only place I ever hired was legally, in Tokyo. There, you can go to a brothel/escort service and choose from dozens of 18-21 year-olds. Some of them are muscular guys and advertise as tops, but most of them are slim little twinks, many of whom are absolutely adorable. So I was checking out the NYC scene - I am stranded there for the time being. There is certainly no shortage of choices on any of the sites I've found (besides RM, Mintboys and Friendboy - big city, hundreds of escorts. But it certainly seems that the main market here is for top cock - it's all about size and "endurance." The number of young, slim, non-hairy (possibly Asian) escorts is close to zero. Am I missing something? I know there is a market for this type of escort - am I looking in the wrong places? I have no idea if I will actually hire here and if I do it will be a very limited thing - maybe even just one guy if he's worth returning to. I am still getting it for free here and there, I'm a nice guy (I wouldn't treat an escort any different than a date), and I am squeaky clean and want to stay that way. But I could be tempted by the right guy, especially if he was in Queens and could host. Any and all advice welcome, here or in PM. And no need to ask: yes, when the pandemic is truly over, you really must visit Tokyo. 😉 It's 10 out of 10 (or perhaps better). Lazarus 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 I disagree strongly on Tokyo. I wouldn't go back. + glutes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanklm Posted July 16, 2021 Author Share Posted July 16, 2021 15 minutes ago, Lucky said: I disagree strongly on Tokyo. I wouldn't go back. I had this guy come to my hotel room once and it was literally one of the best experiences of my life, not just paid. Sorry you had a bad experience. Wanderoz 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadioRob Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Check out @Pnklemonade... he has posted here on this forum a few times recently. https://rent.men/pnklemonade I've also had a good time with Boymadrid while in New York a few years back. https://rent.men/Boymadrid Wanderoz, cany10011, + FrankR and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ FrankR Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 34 minutes ago, dylanklm said: Hi, Very new to this - only place I ever hired was legally, in Tokyo. There, you can go to a brothel/escort service and choose from dozens of 18-21 year-olds. Some of them are muscular guys and advertise as tops, but most of them are slim little twinks, many of whom are absolutely adorable. So I was checking out the NYC scene - I am stranded there for the time being. There is certainly no shortage of choices on any of the sites I've found (besides RM, Mintboys and Friendboy - big city, hundreds of escorts. But it certainly seems that the main market here is for top cock - it's all about size and "endurance." The number of young, slim, non-hairy (possibly Asian) escorts is close to zero. Am I missing something? I know there is a market for this type of escort - am I looking in the wrong places? I have no idea if I will actually hire here and if I do it will be a very limited thing - maybe even just one guy if he's worth returning to. I am still getting it for free here and there, I'm a nice guy (I wouldn't treat an escort any different than a date), and I am squeaky clean and want to stay that way. But I could be tempted by the right guy, especially if he was in Queens and could host. Any and all advice welcome, here or in PM. And no need to ask: yes, when the pandemic is truly over, you really must visit Tokyo. 😉 It's 10 out of 10 (or perhaps better). Your note contains so much I want to comment on. Let me start by saying you could definitely find a twink of the bottom persuasion in NYC (reading between the lines, that is what you appear to be looking for). Just take a look at Rentmen, apply the age filter and the position filter. A friend of mine had great luck on Adam4Adam and Seeking in finding young Asian and Latin college age guys. You seem to imply that the guys you can find available on rentmen etc may not be disease free...I am not sure I agree with that statement. In my experience the guys that frequent those sites take extra precautions and get tested far more frequently than a guy you will hook up with on Grindr. 🤓 BonVivant and diehard_002 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanklm Posted July 16, 2021 Author Share Posted July 16, 2021 15 minutes ago, FrankR said: Your note contains so much I want to comment on. Let me start by saying you could definitely find a twink of the bottom persuasion in NYC (reading between the lines, that is what you appear to be looking for). Just take a look at Rentmen, apply the age filter and the position filter. A friend of mine had great luck on Adam4Adam and Seeking in finding young Asian and Latin college age guys. You seem to imply that the guys you can find available on rentmen etc may not be disease free...I am not sure I agree with that statement. In my experience the guys that frequent those sites take extra precautions and get tested far more frequently than a guy you will hook up with on Grindr. 🤓 Thanks for the advice and info. I didn't mean to imply anything about disease (or rather, about the relative likelihood of catching it various place) and in fact I agree that the true pros are probably more careful than the mystery men on Grindr. I do dislike tattoos and facial hair, though a little wouldn't be a deal killer. I did what you suggested and searched RM for NYC, Bottom or bot/vers, under 5'10" and under 160 pounds (in other words, up to my size). I get five results: one is a trans, and two are mixed-race guys with moustaches that do not appeal. That leaves two: one 24 year old white guy with a massive tattoo across his chest (who still is pretty attractive) and one other 20 year-old that looks really hot. Not one Asian and only two that remotely fit the "smooth twink" phenotype. That in a metro area of 22 million. There are over 1,000,000 Asians in Queens alone, plus an almost equal number of Latinos and quite a few white guys and immigrants from various places. Well over 2 million people in both Queens and Brooklyn. Surely I'm missing something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanklm Posted July 16, 2021 Author Share Posted July 16, 2021 29 minutes ago, RadioRob said: Check out @Pnklemonade... he has posted here on this forum a few times recently. https://rent.men/pnklemonade I've also had a good time with Boymadrid while in New York a few years back. https://rent.men/Boymadrid Thanks! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trick Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 Does twink only apply to body type or does it include personality and position as well? Most providers I see advertising as twinks are on the effeminate side, mostly bottoms Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanklm Posted July 16, 2021 Author Share Posted July 16, 2021 Fem can be cool, boyish and masculine is good. I am vers but with a younger "twink" type I'd be looking to top. So I guess I'm looking for more of those ads you are seeing. I did figure out one error I was - I was searching for bot and bot/vers but it was not finding the guys who listed themselves as versatile and didn't check the other boxes. I did manage to find a few more that way. But still not many. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RadioRob Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 I would most likely not filter on top/bottom. Those fields are not always set at all or sometimes inaccurate. In my experience, it has been better to take that filter off and for the ones that I liked and reach out to confirm preference. + mature_guy and Wanderoz 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
topunderachiever Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 43 minutes ago, dylanklm said: That in a metro area of 22 million. There are over 1,000,000 Asians in Queens alone, plus an almost equal number of Latinos and quite a few white guys and immigrants from various places. Well over 2 million people in both Queens and Brooklyn. Surely I'm missing something. Well with that demographic, I'd very discretely indicate on Grindr you can help with "tuition" and see what transpires. pubic_assistance 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wanderoz Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 28 minutes ago, topunderachiever said: Well with that demographic, I'd very discretely indicate on Grindr you can help with "tuition" and see what transpires. Say you're "generous" and twinks, including Asians, will be all over you, looking to please Sugar Daddy. pubic_assistance and caliguy 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 1 hour ago, Wanderoz said: Say you're "generous" and twinks, including Asians, will be all over you, looking to please Sugar Daddy. Such a rude remark. A reminder on why we need a dislike icon. pubic_assistance, lonely_john and NYXboy 1 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 3 hours ago, dylanklm said: I had this guy come to my hotel room once and it was literally one of the best experiences of my life, not just paid. Sorry you had a bad experience. You are defining a visit to Tokyo by a sexual encounter? That's sad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chance Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 (edited) Grindr with filters seeking arrangement with filters you’ll find PLENTY Former more tricky as to their interest latter - that’s what they’re there for good luck Edited July 23, 2021 by Chance pubic_assistance, tsgarp and lonely_john 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
caliguy Posted July 16, 2021 Share Posted July 16, 2021 (edited) 4 hours ago, Lucky said: Such a rude remark. A reminder on why we need a dislike icon. How is that rude? Advertising "generous" seems to be common advice here. Edited July 16, 2021 by caliguy lonely_john and pubic_assistance 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanklm Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 (edited) 6 hours ago, Lucky said: You are defining a visit to Tokyo by a sexual encounter? That's sad. By experiences I meant "gay hookups" not overall life experiences. I would tell you what I was doing in Tokyo other than that particular night and the importance of it (not to mention the life experiences I've had there) but I don't think you (or anyone else) are interested. This forum seems to have a pretty specific purpose. Thanks for all of the advice from everyone! Edited July 17, 2021 by dylanklm Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Lucky Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 3 hours ago, caliguy said: How is that rude? Advertising "generous" seems to be common advice here. He is slamming Asians as money grubbers. lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dylanklm Posted July 17, 2021 Author Share Posted July 17, 2021 No, he isn't. In fact he said "twinks, including Asians" will be all over it. Nothing about that statement even implies that all twinks are like this, and stating that "twinks" includes some Asians is just a statement of fact. pubic_assistance and lonely_john 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pubic_assistance Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 16 hours ago, Lucky said: Such a rude remark. A reminder on why we need a dislike icon. "Rude" ?? What was rude about that ? Perfectly accurate. Is this more of that Cancel Culture attitude where you act offended by facts that make you uncomfortable for some random reason ? lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chance Posted July 17, 2021 Share Posted July 17, 2021 48 minutes ago, pubic_assistance said: "Rude" ?? What was rude about that ? Perfectly accurate. Is this more of that Cancel Culture attitude where you act offended by facts that make you uncomfortable for some random reason ? Lol “perfectly” ref makes me think of Trump its certainly not perfect but I don’t think it’s racist necessarily Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wanderoz Posted July 19, 2021 Share Posted July 19, 2021 On 7/16/2021 at 3:00 PM, Lucky said: Such a rude remark. A reminder on why we need a dislike icon. The original poster was seeking twinks and especially Asian twinks. Learn to read and read what you are reading in context. lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tsgarp Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 Would be nice to refocus this conversation... lonely_john and Luv2play 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chance Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 Met a twink on Grindr - led to his insta - which led to snap convo - he felt most comfortable talking there. We hooked up last night after back forth on snap. that “formula” is not difficult download snap if you haven’t - that seems to be the way younger guys wanna communicate tsgarp 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kaboom35 Posted July 21, 2021 Share Posted July 21, 2021 1 hour ago, Chance said: Met a twink on Grindr - led to his insta - which led to snap convo - he felt most comfortable talking there. We hooked up last night after back forth on snap. that “formula” is not difficult download snap if you haven’t - that seems to be the way younger guys wanna communicate how did you know he was seeking out "generous" people? curious Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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