Escort Talking in his Sleep

[Luv2play]

Have you ever had an escort for a sleepover and wakened in the night by his talking in his sleep? It happened to me once, over a year ago and it was slightly unnerving but I brushed it aside at the time.

Thinking back, it wouldn't have bothered me normally since I have been known to do the same and I have experienced it before with lovers.

This time the thing that startled me was the violence of his language. It was only a short verbal ejaculation but violent in tone, as if he were really pissed off. I forget the exact words but there were a few expletives.

I went back to sleep after a while and didn't mention it in the morning. He's contacted me recently but I demurred. Couldn't quite get over the experience.

Just wondering if it has happened to others.

[RadioRob]

I have not had this happen with an escort, but it has happened with friends. 

My friend did not even remember the dream and it was not something that fit his normal personality. 

I would encourage you to remember we don’t control our dreams (or for that case nightmares). They might not have been having a good experience during that dream. At the end of the day, you need to look out for yourself but if you enjoyed your time with that person I would personally not quit seeing them over something they could not necessarily control or potentially even be aware of. 

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Just out of college, I traveled frequently with a group of friends and often four of us would share a hotel room to save on the budget (too many weddings the first two years out of school.)  One of the fiends often talked in his sleep, using language that was unexpected coming from him.  Turns out, he was often quoting movie lines - or that was his claim.

We learned to ignore his sleep talk - and I decided I wouldn't watch movies this friend recommended.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

 

[MikeBiDude]

My college roommate was a Norwegian soccer player on scholarship. He would talk (loudly) in his native language at night. Scared me! Alas, I never heard my name mentioned.

[big-n-tall]

One particular escort I used to have overnights with for a time would carry on full conversations with myself (before I knew he was still sleeping) and other people in his dreams. He no longer does it (FYI, I don't seem him for escorting but we occasionally go on trips and share rooms). I chalk up the sleep talking to the heighten stress he was going through during med school. Now that he's out of school, the sleep talking has stopped. He still occasionally makes sexual noises in his sleep though.