Budgeting for an Orgy

[+ keroscenefire]

 

Hey guys,

I am strongly considering living out a fantasy, which is basically to be a part of a really hot group scene. I've actually had some experiences with this and find group scenes really fun so I think I would enjoy it, but I want to do a fantasy where I have really hot providers in the orgy. 

I am just curious to hear if anyone has done something like this before and what kind of budget should I expect for this kind of thing. I'm thinking of having four providers for this and am kinda thinking it would be a multi-hour affair but maybe not a full overnight. 

Also any suggestions to avoid pitfalls for this would be appreciated. I assume also that if they say "group" in their into suggestion that's a good place to start, but if anyone has any other ideas of what to look for to find a guy willing to do this kind of group thing, that would be useful too.

Thanks for any advice gentlemen. 

[+ Bryan Dube]

have always wanted to do this too. but i feel like many guys (at least that i've reached out to) are not always open to bringing in a third, much less a fourth or fifth.

[Epigonos]

I have never done an orgy -- It takes all my strength just to make it thought a 3-way.  For someone, your age the idea sounds very appealing.  I would suggest that you start by working with a regular you know well and REALLY enjoy.  Discuss with him what you would like to do and select TOGETHER the rest of the guys, picking escorts who appeal to both of you.  I would also suggest that you work with your regular to choreograph how you want things to proceed.  If you go in blind without a plan, things might collapse and not turn out the way you would like

[Milo Farnsworth]

Can I watch?

[Trick]

The closest I got to being in an orgy was at the Attack Club in Madrid.  Unfortunately, I was largely ignored by the crowd.  It was fun to watch though.

[+ JEC]

The closest I have cum is having 2 escorts (husbands Seth & Chris Knight) as guests at a group party with other non-escorts.  The party was super hot and everyone had a good time.  In part, I used the Knights as a marketing tool to attract other hot guys (it worked!).  I think what's most important is that the providers all be good with the arrangement if you want good energy.  Ideally, they have worked together before.   So, maybe find someone who can recommend 2-3 others they have worked with before and have good energy together.   

If you plan this for NYC, or maybe LA, I suspect you would find plenty of guys who have worked together before. 

BTW, if you are "in" for this idea, consider cross-posting in the "ask an escort" thread to get the provider perspective.

In terms of budget, I'd say $500-1000 per provider assuming you want them for a few hours.

Can I come?  😝

Jack

PS I saw Jay Dymel a few years ago in Boston.   He told me that the night before a wealthy client hired 10 guys to come take turns on him while he watched.   He said it cost the client $10k, or $1000/provider for a few hours each.

[jjkrkwood]

How big a group are you considering ?    Someone once told me IF you have to budget for something, YOU CANT AFFORD IT,  and that put things in perspective for me...

Make sure you do your research on the guys, and maybe even try them out individually first or pick one and ask them what other escorts are available they might have chemistry with...  Any one guy not having a good time or fitting in can bring the whole party DOWN......

Its alot of money to spend, and you DONT want buyers regret ........    

[Islesguy]

There was a guy who used to post reviews on the review site of orgies with providers he had. I think he lives in Oklahoma or maybe that's just where he held court. I don't know what happened to him.

[+ Coolwave35]

I play this scene out monthly. Your welcome to join if you’re ever in New York. It’s a lot of fun. Next weekend I have 12 providers spending the night at my house. I enjoy the scene and recommend every single one of them. Also, I got consent from all 12 to film so I’ll share that with you as well. 
 

it takes A LOT of work to find the right mix of guys comfortable with groups. Some of my favorite one on one guys are terrible in the group setting. 
 

if you’re going to do it, take your time planning. 
 

below are the boys participating next weekend. 

[+ DrownedBoy]

1 hour ago, jjkrkwood said:

Someone once told me IF you have to budget for something, YOU CANT AFFORD IT

No....any financially prudent person budgets. Even when you make 6 figures, you can't throw your money around without paying attention to how much you're spending. 

My budget has a line item for (ahem) adult entertainment.  It's in the "luxury" category,  and can be adjusted if needed.

I never met a self-made wealthy person who didn't budget...

[cany10011]

26 minutes ago, Coolwave35 said:

I play this scene out monthly. Your welcome to join if you’re ever in New York. It’s a lot of fun. Next weekend I have 12 providers spending the night at my house. I enjoy the scene and recommend every single one of them. Also, I got consent from all 12 to film so I’ll share that with you as well. 
 

it takes A LOT of work to find the right mix of guys comfortable with groups. Some of my favorite one on one guys are terrible in the group setting. 
 

if you’re going to do it, take your time planning. 
 

below are the boys participating next weekend. 

You live the fantasy! I'm salivating at your choices. Have you seen Nico? He seems like someone fun for a group setting  

[+ Coolwave35]

15 minutes ago, cany10011 said:

You live the fantasy! I'm salivating at your choices. Have you seen Nico? He seems like someone fun for a group setting  

Nico the new Greek guy? 

[Luv2play]

1 hour ago, Coolwave35 said:

I play this scene out monthly. Your welcome to join if you’re ever in New York. It’s a lot of fun. Next weekend I have 12 providers spending the night at my house. I enjoy the scene and recommend every single one of them. Also, I got consent from all 12 to film so I’ll share that with you as well. 
 

it takes A LOT of work to find the right mix of guys comfortable with groups. Some of my favorite one on one guys are terrible in the group setting. 
 

if you’re going to do it, take your time planning. 
 

below are the boys participating next weekend. 

By the night I take it everyone is there for a sleepover. Does any sleep actually occur?

Personally, I would find that scenario exhausting. I would only hire 4 max and for four or five hours, say 7 to midnight.

Someone mentioned the late Jay Dymel and I had him and Ryan Stone, his bf, for 3 hours and that was plenty. Both had such big cocks that this bottom had plenty!

When I was in my early 30s, I attended a couple of orgies in Toronto and they lasted all night. But that was then.😅

[MikeBiDude]

2 hours ago, Islesguy said:

There was a guy who used to post reviews on the review site of orgies with providers he had. I think he lives in Oklahoma or maybe that's just where he held court. I don't know what happened to him.

@Okliehomo I believe?

[+ Charlie]

If it is possible to do so, I would start by reading some of the reviews Okliehomo submitted to Daddy's site over the years. He has not posted here for three months, so I don't know if he would respond to a conversation.

Edited July 9, 2021 by Charlie
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[+ keroscenefire]

7 hours ago, jjkrkwood said:

How big a group are you considering ?    Someone once told me IF you have to budget for something, YOU CANT AFFORD IT,  and that put things in perspective for me...

Make sure you do your research on the guys, and maybe even try them out individually first or pick one and ask them what other escorts are available they might have chemistry with...  Any one guy not having a good time or fitting in can bring the whole party DOWN......

Its alot of money to spend, and you DONT want buyers regret ........    

 

I'm thinking four guys total...five including myself. I have no problem with them having sex with each other as long as I get a bit of a turn with all of them and of course would love to do DP and other fun stuff like that. 

[+ keroscenefire]

Thanks for the responses guys...Sorry I had to work earlier. But I am thinking:

• 4 guys total (five including me)
• Using a regular I like (and says he is into group scenes) as kind of my anchor. I do like the idea of having him help choose the other guys.
• I think I could put in $5000 for this pretty easily..is that enough do you guys think?
• What about setting? I was thinking maybe like a La Quinta. There's one not far from Downtown Denver that has doors open to the outside. I'm kind of thinking this might be good so it doesn't seem weird that I have like 5 guys in fancy hotel. But maybe I'm overthinking that and should get someplace nicer.

Thanks so much for the advice. I came into some money recently and really would like to spend some of it this way. I'm really hoping it'll work out well. 

[GTMike]

17 minutes ago, keroscenefire said:

Thanks for the responses guys...Sorry I had to work earlier. But I am thinking:

• 4 guys total (five including me)
• Using a regular I like (and says he is into group scenes) as kind of my anchor. I do like the idea of having him help choose the other guys.
• I think I could put in $5000 for this pretty easily..is that enough do you guys think?
• What about setting? I was thinking maybe like a La Quinta. There's one not far from Downtown Denver that has doors open to the outside. I'm kind of thinking this might be good so it doesn't seem weird that I have like 5 guys in fancy hotel. But maybe I'm overthinking that and should get someplace nicer.

Thanks so much for the advice. I came into some money recently and really would like to spend some of it this way. I'm really hoping it'll work out well. 

Congrats. Be safe and have fun!!

[Prime38]

6 hours ago, Coolwave35 said:

I play this scene out monthly. Your welcome to join if you’re ever in New York. It’s a lot of fun. Next weekend I have 12 providers spending the night at my house. I enjoy the scene and recommend every single one of them. Also, I got consent from all 12 to film so I’ll share that with you as well. 
 

it takes A LOT of work to find the right mix of guys comfortable with groups. Some of my favorite one on one guys are terrible in the group setting. 
 

if you’re going to do it, take your time planning. 
 

below are the boys participating next weekend. 

You have great taste, may I add. Having gotten dances and 1 on 1s from the majority of these guys I can say this is a stellar line-up to have for an orgy or play. I can not wait to see this video. 

[Prime38]

22 minutes ago, keroscenefire said:

Thanks for the responses guys...Sorry I had to work earlier. But I am thinking:

• 4 guys total (five including me)
• Using a regular I like (and says he is into group scenes) as kind of my anchor. I do like the idea of having him help choose the other guys.
• I think I could put in $5000 for this pretty easily..is that enough do you guys think?
• What about setting? I was thinking maybe like a La Quinta. There's one not far from Downtown Denver that has doors open to the outside. I'm kind of thinking this might be good so it doesn't seem weird that I have like 5 guys in fancy hotel. But maybe I'm overthinking that and should get someplace nicer.

Thanks so much for the advice. I came into some money recently and really would like to spend some of it this way. I'm really hoping it'll work out well. 

Wishing the best for this. Sounds like fun!!

[+ MysticMenace]

6 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

It's in the "luxury" category

lol, I have it under 'miscellany' to be a bit more discreet. hahaha

[Kevin Slater]

I arrange these frequently (see my twitter, linked below).  Sum of each guy's hourly rate x the number of hours you want him.  If you want one of the guys to do the arranging, pay him an extra hour for that as well.

If you want to stretch your budget, maybe stagger the arrival times by 30 minutes and book each guy for two hours instead of four, perhaps keeping the guy who did the arranging for the whole period.

Kevin Slater

Edited July 10, 2021 by Kevin Slater
clarification

[+ azdr0710]

one quick comment:  I'm wondering if a huge, busy, corporate, multi-story hotel with a huge lobby might be better for this type of scene......the guys could come and go with near-anonymity amid the crowds rather than at an exterior corridor La Quinta where things just seem so....close.....with people constantly walking right outside and the desk clerk possibly noticing lots of cars and people coming to that one room......

of course, you might need to check on keycard elevator access at that big hotel......

otherwise, make sure everybody knows the deal and what you hope to have happen.....specify no drugs (if that's important).....be honest with everybody......there won't be any cheesy porn music wafting down from the heavens (like in the movies), so you might want to set some kind of music or video up on the TV or a laptop.......have some cold water or sodas available......bring extra towels so a request to housekeeping doesn't look too suspicious??!!.......and leave a tip for the housekeeping staff, regardless of requests!......

Edited July 10, 2021 by azdr0710
keyboard has a mind of its own

[Luv2play]

4 hours ago, Kevin Slater said:

I arrange these frequently (see my twitter, linked below).  Sum of each guy's hourly rate x the number of hours you want him.  If you want one of the guys to do the arranging, pay him an extra hour for that as well.

If you want to stretch your budget, maybe stagger the arrival times by 30 minutes and book each guy for two hours instead of four, perhaps keeping the guy who did the arranging for the whole period.

Kevin Slater

Staggering the timing works for me even with threesomes. I'll have one guy for four hours and the other for two. Or three hours and one. 

That way I get to play with each and they get to play with each other. It adds a great dynamic.

[Luv2play]

4 hours ago, azdr0710 said:

one quick comment:  I'm wondering if a huge, busy, corporate, multi-story hotel with a huge lobby might be better for this type of scene......the guys could come and go with near-anonymity amid the crowds rather than at an exterior corridor La Quinta where things just seem so....close.....with people constantly walking right outside and the desk clerk possibly noticing lots of cars and people coming to that one room......

of course, you might need to check on keycard elevator access at that big hotel......

otherwise, make sure everybody knows the deal and what you hope to have happen.....specify no drugs (if that's important).....be honest with everybody......there won't be any cheesy porn music wafting down from the heavens (like in the movies), so you might want to set some kind of music or video up on the TV or a laptop.......have some cold water or sodas available......bring extra towels so a request to housekeeping doesn't look too suspicious??!!.......and leave a tip for the housekeeping staff, regardless of requests!......

Yeah, towels are important. Bring a suitcase full