When an escort denies me because I am Asian.

[Guest travisnyc]

Isn't it also discrimination when an escort/massuer says "in-shape only"???? They are accepting money. They are a business!!

[Guest EscortBizBoy]

OK Escorts, to protect ourselves legally I suggest we all put on our web sites that we reserve the right to refuse service to anyone LOL LOL LOL LOL!!!!!!!!

[Guest travisnyc]

Someone I know was refused "service" by a erotic massuer because he was not "in-shape". He is a lawyer. He did bring legal action against the massuer. The massuer settled out of court. Stranger things have happened.

[Guest EscortBizBoy]

I'm sorry guys but this thread has me in stitches. I haven't laughed so hard in I can't tell you how long! This isn't a message board its more like a crisis center. Keep up the good work boys, I find this TOO AMUSING!

[Guest MrB]

I agree. Can we really expect someone to have good sex with us -- even if it is for money -- and make us feel like they are enjoying it when they are not in the least bit attracted to us?

It's sad the escort in this case had to be so blunt. That's the mistake he made. He should have made excuses. However, how so many clients here expect guys to be able to perform regardless of the client's age, shape, age etc. is really beyond me. Escorts are human beings, not machines. The money does not change that. Happily, we can all find a guy to our liking anyway. BTW, personally, I am attracted to Asians :-) just allergic to flab :-(

[Guest travisnyc]

Almost as funny as suing a client for defamation of character or an escort for wiretapping.

[Guest Croix]

Hardly funny ... but don't get me started on that one~!

[Guest Alexander]

Thanks for all of your astute viewpoints. Needless to say, I moved on. I got an escort from the Miami/Ft Lauderdale area who I first saw when I was there for a business trip last week and flew him for the weekend to a midtown Manhattan hotel. No attitude, nice body, cultured, just very pleasant to talk to, had fun dining with him on consecutive nights at two TriBeca restaurants, and was certainly great in the hotel room.

BTW, the escort I was talking about, who selectively discards Asians from his Rolodex, is from Chicago. He purportedly accepts in-calls in his Gold Coast apartment. I was hoping I could hook up with him during the several days I went there for business, introducing myself as a local.

Again, thanks guys.

 

alexander

 

 

 

alexander_d_grt@yahoo.com

[Guest Starbuck999]

Along these lines, there is a black escort who advertises in Frontiers. I have called him twice, a year apart, because I liked his description. But, each time he cross-examined me so closely about what I was like and what I would like to do that I gave up and hung up. The last time his asked me how large my dick was. It became clear that he was primarily interested in his own enjoyment and very little interested in mine. He was looking to have fun with a hot young and hung guy and to get paid for it. Nice work if you can get. I have become very wary of escorts who ask too many questions, because I am forced to assume they will be very judgmental in person.

[Guest iamasiantoo]

Move on my friend, that's all I can say.

Unfortunately, in my case I do the denying, because I have

the dough. Not everyone prefers a certain race especially when

comes to sex: I don't hire blacks because I don't want to. I don't hire Latinos because I don't want to. I am asian and mighty proud of it! If you don't like what I look like or whatever it is that I say, so be it. After all, I still got the dough they need!!!

[Guest Alexander]

Fellow Asian: You may be missing the point of discussion here. It is not the dough, or else I would have stressed it, for I and I'm sure many readers here have the capability to easily dole out their "dough", be they Asian or whatever. As many of the fellow threaders here have mentioned, one should differentiate ones professionalism as an escort from the inherent bias that he has which can then affect his preformance. But then as a professional, he should have declined his services through some other way which would not have created this anger in me. But to me, that guy who's based in Chicago now has a red flag. And the incident is past.

 

Too bad, you yourself are biased. But your escorting is not the one being sought after. In a public forum like this, I hope the readers will realize that yours is only one viewpoint, for, I find attractive the individual's body and personality, and not the specific race.

 

Alex

 

 

alexander_d_grt@yahoo.com

[Guest curious]

That attitude is no better than the escort in question. When you make generalizations and sterotype as that, you show your true colors. Just as I dislike the attitude of an escort that thinks he is doing me a huge favor allowing me to be his client, I think the attitude that because you have money everyone needs to bow down before you-- equally stinks.

I've got news for you, at $300 per hour (tax free) many of these guys could buy and sell you in a heartbeat. While some may need the money, many others are doing it for many other reasons. I don't put escorts on pedestals, but I treat them just how I like to be treated- with kindness and respect.

[Guest Alexander]

ditto

[Guest pdxpigboy]

This is good old white American racism for certain! Fuck him! Move on to someone who will find you hot. I hate it when I find that white members of the gay community can be as racist as the rest of white America! You think that we white gays would get the point from the shit white and Christian racism has put us through. I am sorry for this insult to you and hope you find a nice guy to find satisfaction with!

 

tom portland, oregon