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I've hidden my feelings for men my entire life (in 50's).  I want to have a first experience.  Are erotic massages the way to go.  Was looking to set an appt with messagemechanic in LA.  Or is what I'm looking for is an escort.  What is the best website for that.  Am I making the wrong move doing this with a professional first?  I'm not really looking for a massage.  I want to experience a man inside of me more than a massage.  I'd appreciate any advice for a newbie like me.  We all need a first time, embarrassed I waited so long.

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1 hour ago, JeffThom said:

I've hidden my feelings for men my entire life (in 50's).  I want to have a first experience.  Are erotic massages the way to go.  Was looking to set an appt with messagemechanic in LA.  Or is what I'm looking for is an escort.  What is the best website for that.  Am I making the wrong move doing this with a professional first?  I'm not really looking for a massage.  I want to experience a man inside of me more than a massage.  I'd appreciate any advice for a newbie like me.  We all need a first time, embarrassed I waited so long.

Sounds like you are looking for an escort and not a masseur. Skip the massage unless you want a bit of that as foreplay. Rentmen is the website with the most comprehensive list of escorts. There is a “position” menu where you can select that you want a “top” and it should narrow the field down to escorts that are into that.  Search this site for experience once you have a list. I usually recommend meeting in a public place (Starbucks etc) if it is the first time so you can get a feel for the guy before you spend time behind closed doors. Take it slow - find the right guy and then make sure you are prepared. Know your limits. Be safe out there young man! 🤓

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15 hours ago, JeffThom said:

I've hidden my feelings for men my entire life (in 50's).  I want to have a first experience.  Are erotic massages the way to go.  Was looking to set an appt with messagemechanic in LA.  Or is what I'm looking for is an escort.  What is the best website for that.  Am I making the wrong move doing this with a professional first?  I'm not really looking for a massage.  I want to experience a man inside of me more than a massage.  I'd appreciate any advice for a newbie like me.  We all need a first time, embarrassed I waited so long.

@JeffThom - With other things in life, do you jump into the deep end right away, or do you tend to take small steps?  I tend to be risk adverse.

When I decided to act on my attraction to men (at age 44), I started with an erotic massage as it felt that it would not be a big risk.  Back then advertisements on the massage sites were less restricted, and the guy I hired listed his services as 45 minutes of massage followed by 15 minutes of oral play.  I decided that was enough to dip my toe in the water.  For me, just having another naked man in the room who was touching me was wonderful.  And the oral play made it even better.

After that massage I was comfortable taking the next steps.

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My first time with a man was with an escort. Similar story, kept my attraction to men hidden. That first experience was a life changer. Before I even knew about Rentmen, I found www.canadianmale.com. I was heading to Toronto for work and contacted an escort for a meeting. It was super easy and when I met him, I told him that it was my first time. He was super sweet, understanding, and made it a great experience. Happy to discuss more via PM. 

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