Quincy_7 Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 An escort I met two years ago has transitioned and is now a woman. I support her decision obviously. She lives in another city so it's not like I could meet her anyway but I'm just curious if any of you would consider doing a repeat with an escort who was male when you saw them but is now female-identifying? Would you think about it for at least a few seconds or is it a hard pass? MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 I have experienced the same…and met multiple times before the transition and a few times after. I’ve haven’t seen this friend in about two years but I’m actually reaching out again to potentially meet. + WilliamM and marylander1940 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 (edited) I hired this gorgeous escort years ago who told me he was considering transitioning. I was horrified at the thought. To answer your question: Now hooking up with someone who's gone female to male, that's a hard YES! Edited June 10, 2021 by Unicorn Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 (edited) WOW @Quincy_7 and @MikeBiDude you two certainly have the power to "change" men. Edited June 10, 2021 by lonely_john + WilliamM, + nycman, Quincy_7 and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kingsley88 Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 I never had this happen to me but I would be curious whether a kiss from that escort as a guy would feel the same as a woman. As for the other parts below the belt, I'd skip it since I'm not into women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quincy_7 Posted June 10, 2021 Author Share Posted June 10, 2021 1 hour ago, kingsley88 said: I never had this happen to me but I would be curious whether a kiss from that escort as a guy would feel the same as a woman. As for the other parts below the belt, I'd skip it since I'm not into women. She kept the penis. lonely_john and MikeBiDude 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 (edited) 58 minutes ago, Quincy_7 said: She kept the penis. Please excuse me if I'm wrong but then he didn't transition. I understand transitioning as the person having surgery for their sexual organs to resemble those of the opposite sex. In this case he became a Trans woman, known by most people as a She-male. What I would like to know is if someone born male, who later in life identifies as a female - no surgery, can actually change their gender in their ID, Passport, and other legal documents. I know that in some countries this is only possible after sex reassignment surgery. Edited June 10, 2021 by lonely_john Luv2play 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MikeBiDude Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 32 minutes ago, lonely_john said: Please excuse me if I'm wrong but then he didn't transition. I understand transitioning as the person having surgery for their sexual organs to resemble those of the opposite sex. In this case he became a Trans woman, known by most people as a She-male. Wow….tread VERY carefully with what you’re saying. I assume you’ve not met or chatted with a lot of transgendered from what you’re stating here? I’ve learned a lot along the way. lonely_john, rvwnsd, + Pensant and 2 others 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted June 10, 2021 Share Posted June 10, 2021 (edited) 49 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said: Wow….tread VERY carefully with what you’re saying. I assume you’ve not met or chatted with a lot of transgendered from what you’re stating here? I’ve learned a lot along the way. There is a lot of grey areas and new knowledge being constantly generated in the topic of Gender Transitioning but I think I'm mostly right. Here's an excerpt of Wikipedia, which might not be the most accurate but it's by all means a decent source of information: "For transgender and transsexual people, this process commonly involves reassignment therapy (which may include hormone replacement therapy and sex reassignment surgery), with their gender identity being opposite that of their birth-assigned sex and gender." Edited June 10, 2021 by lonely_john Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ sniper Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 Note that it says "May include." The terminology has been evolving over the last couple of decades. I'd say transitioning now means identifying as the new gender and the extent to which that has been backed up with physical modification is all over the map. Myself being a Kinsey 6 I don't think I'd have any interest in them after transitioning. If I were bi it would be a different story; I think I'd be fascinated and have to try it. MikeBiDude 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 5 hours ago, lonely_john said: Please excuse me if I'm wrong but then he didn't transition. I understand transitioning as the person having surgery for their sexual organs to resemble those of the opposite sex. Without any judgement, I think it's worth being made aware that this is not the understanding of transitioning that most people who transition have. The change in identification, both in terms of "coming out" to friends and family, and in terms of changing gender on your passport, is at the discretion of the transitioner. Often the timing of it coincides with changes in presentation, gender-affirming surgery, and hormones, but it doesn't have to. In fact, "bottom surgery", or surgery for sexual organs, as you call it, remains very rare. 5 hours ago, lonely_john said: What I would like to know is if someone born male, who later in life identifies as a female - no surgery, can actually change their gender in their ID, Passport, and other legal documents. Yes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ nycman Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 Hard pass. It’s cool if you identify as a woman. I identify as a faggot…which means I like fucking men. We’re not a match. BSR 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 11 hours ago, Quincy_7 said: would consider doing a repeat with an escort who was male when you saw them but is now female-identifying? Would you think about it for at least a few seconds or is it a hard pass? 9 minutes ago, nycman said: Hard pass. It’s cool if you identify as a woman. I identify as a faggot…which means I like fucking men. We’re not a match. I agree. Most clients won't express any interest. A few very horny and kinky clients might want to do it but certainly a minority. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 52 minutes ago, nycman said: I identify as a faggot… I'm gonna need a form of federal ID that states this explicitly. And then, I'm gonna need one for myself. mike carey, + Pensant, MikeBiDude and 4 others 3 1 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maninsoma Posted June 11, 2021 Share Posted June 11, 2021 Given that "transitioned" can mean different things, it's not possible to give a single answer to the question. I would potentially hire a gender fluid or non-binary or gender non-confirming escort who had a penis. I would not hire a person who had surgery that removed their penis since having a penis is a very important part of what makes someone sexually attractive to me. MikeBiDude, + Pensant, + nycman and 1 other 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quincy_7 Posted June 12, 2021 Author Share Posted June 12, 2021 On 6/11/2021 at 12:50 AM, Benjamin_Nicholas said: I'm gonna need a form of federal ID that states this explicitly. And then, I'm gonna need one for myself. I've heard you can get great discounts with the faggot card. + BenjaminNicholas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted June 13, 2021 Share Posted June 13, 2021 1 hour ago, Quincy_7 said: I've heard you can get great discounts with the faggot card. Even better than AARP and AAA? + robear 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
urbanfetish Posted June 13, 2021 Share Posted June 13, 2021 It's pretty simple for me. I'm gay. I like men. I like dick. I fully support anyone who transitions but sexually, I'm not interested in women. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alrajee Posted June 15, 2021 Share Posted June 15, 2021 What an interesting situation. Personally, I would be interested in it, but only if she has completely transitioned, i.e. she has a vagina. lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Walker1 Posted June 16, 2021 Share Posted June 16, 2021 I always had a fascination with those Thai lady boys. If I ever visit Thailand, i would love to experiment wish them. In a lot of cultures, transgenders have always been part of the culture . lonely_john and MikeBiDude 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quincy_7 Posted June 17, 2021 Author Share Posted June 17, 2021 On 6/15/2021 at 12:17 AM, alrajee said: What an interesting situation. Personally, I would be interested in it, but only if she has completely transitioned, i.e. she has a vagina. Interesting. Why that specific preference? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alrajee Posted June 17, 2021 Share Posted June 17, 2021 6 hours ago, Quincy_7 said: Interesting. Why that specific preference? I guess it's because I associate one's sexual characteristics with their gender identity. lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Luv2play Posted June 17, 2021 Share Posted June 17, 2021 On 6/10/2021 at 5:54 PM, lonely_john said: Please excuse me if I'm wrong but then he didn't transition. I understand transitioning as the person having surgery for their sexual organs to resemble those of the opposite sex. In this case he became a Trans woman, known by most people as a She-male. What I would like to know is if someone born male, who later in life identifies as a female - no surgery, can actually change their gender in their ID, Passport, and other legal documents. I know that in some countries this is only possible after sex reassignment surgery. I'm hardly the person to judge these questions as I have only met one transgendered person and that was in the 1970's. He went from being Stephen to Stephanie and had a sex reassignment which removed his penis and gave him a vagina. Like Christine Jorgenson a decade earlier, if anyone here remembers her. I consider these people as having fully transitioned from one sex to the other. And the other way around if it is a woman who acquires a penis in the process of sex reassignment. lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lonely_john Posted June 17, 2021 Share Posted June 17, 2021 1 hour ago, alrajee said: I guess it's because I associate one's sexual characteristics with their gender identity. So, no women with surprise/antenna for you. 😝 alrajee 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alrajee Posted June 18, 2021 Share Posted June 18, 2021 2 hours ago, lonely_john said: So, no women with surprise/antenna for you. 😝 Also, no men with two places down there where I can put my penis into. lonely_john 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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