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For me, @Boy4 the BFE is lots of physical attention, touching, kissing, extended foreplay leading up to passionate love-making. So it is very much the romanticized ideal rather than the reality r

lonely_john
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Once I asked for the BFE and this escort responded something in the line of: "BFE? Oh, so you want us to sit in your couch, "watching Netflix" but in reality just checking Grindr on our phones wi

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For me, the BFE enhances the sex.  I love intimacy more than anything.  When my regular and I have our “date nights” it’s all about taking our time, enjoying each other’s company, catching up, having

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2 hours ago, Boy4 said:

I guess it different for everybody. 

Sure. It is just another role play/fantasy scenario. The escort should treat you with special and affectionate deference, and should make you feel as he wants you. Those are the universals, then you add the personal specifications. A romantic diner? A date in the movie theater? Movie and pop corn at home? Serve yourself.

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Once I asked for the BFE and this escort responded something in the line of:

"BFE? Oh, so you want us to sit in your couch, "watching Netflix" but in reality just checking Grindr on our phones without talking to each other? I prefer to give you the (FBE) Fuck Boy Experience!"

OMG, I laughed so much! 🤣

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It is subjective and something you should talk about with the guy you're thinking of having the BFE with.

But to me, it's actually pretty specific and involves doing a "date-night" type activity. Maybe it's seeing a play, watching a movie, going to dinner, something like that. Usually this entails a longer session (3-4 hours typically for me) where we can really have a nice time together with conversation, mutually-enjoyable activities (when planning the date I always ask the guy for things he likes to do and find something we'll both enjoy) and then of course great sex. 

The sex itself doesn't really have much to do with a BFE for me. 

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5 hours ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

It means that I don't restrain you by keeping my bare foot on your neck while fucking you.

It could also mean that I end up baking you a dozen chocolate chip cookies at some point.

But you have such Pretty feet !  🥰     We can send out for the cookies, just keep FUCKING ...........😂

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43 minutes ago, thickornotatall said:

I had a great BFE with Franklin Acevedo in Barcelona.....Dinner....a nice walk after ..he held my hand and kissed my neck....Back home he undressed me....rubbed my back....kissed me,,,hugged me...then my turn!....afterward he washed me up....turned the lights down and left....Amazing man..

sounds like a lovely experience!

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5 minutes ago, Benjamin_Nicholas said:

I'd diagram it out, but my sketching skills are severely lacking. 

Let's just say it works well to have long body parts.

 

If only I could meet you, we could provide a photo of how it was done. That is, assuming it is possible, but even if it's not, trying to achieve it could be fun.

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13 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

The sex itself doesn't really have much to do with a BFE for me. 

For me, the BFE enhances the sex.  I love intimacy more than anything.  When my regular and I have our “date nights” it’s all about taking our time, enjoying each other’s company, catching up, having a glass of wine and a meal, making out (lots of making out), and cuddling while we sleep.  The sex is a big part of the experience, but it’s the cherry on the sundae.  

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On 5/27/2021 at 3:42 AM, MscleLovr said:

For me, @Boy4 the BFE is lots of physical attention, touching, kissing, extended foreplay leading up to passionate love-making.

So it is very much the romanticized ideal rather than the reality related by @lonely_john

That has always been my idea of a BFE.  Fortunately, I’ve meet three guys who in various ways, without asking for the BFE, were very attentive, affectionate, focused on me, and a pleasure to be with.

Ironically, the one and only time I actually told someone I was interested in a BFE, even asking if it would be better to book 60 or 90 minutes (he said 90, and a donation of $450), it was not at all what I would call a BFE.  That was several years ago, so water under the bridge.  He stopped advertising shortly after we met.  

As others have said, best to discuss expectations, which I failed to do.

Edit:  To be honest, I'm not sure I would want to have that much of a discussion.  It would be as if it was choreographed.   I like the element of surprise, and the thrill of their expertise.

 

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12 hours ago, thickornotatall said:

I had a great BFE with Franklin Acevedo in Barcelona.....Dinner....a nice walk after ..he held my hand and kissed my neck....Back home he undressed me....rubbed my back....kissed me,,,hugged me...then my turn!....afterward he washed me up....turned the lights down and left....Amazing man..

That is a definite BFE in my book.

 

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On 5/26/2021 at 7:25 PM, lonely_john said:

Once I asked for the BFE and this escort responded something in the line of:

"BFE? Oh, so you want us to sit in your couch, "watching Netflix" but in reality just checking Grindr on our phones without talking to each other? I prefer to give you the (FBE) Fuck Boy Experience!"

OMG, I laughed so much! 🤣

That's hilarious. Thanks for sharing. I hope you hired him and had a fun-filled time.

For me, the ability for a guy to make a joke and my ability to laugh at it (as opposed to getting offended that he is poking fun at my suggestion) is the start of a BFE.

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On 5/27/2021 at 12:24 PM, RJD said:

For me, the BFE enhances the sex.  I love intimacy more than anything.  When my regular and I have our “date nights” it’s all about taking our time, enjoying each other’s company, catching up, having a glass of wine and a meal, making out (lots of making out), and cuddling while we sleep.  The sex is a big part of the experience, but it’s the cherry on the sundae.  

Yes..I agree. I never initiate a BFE unless it's already with a provider I felt connected to already, so to me the date just deepens that more and makes it even more mutually enjoyable.  I do love to cuddle and make out as well and I think spending a lot of time together makes that feel even more special and connected. 

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11 hours ago, keroscenefire said:

Yes..I agree. I never initiate a BFE unless it's already with a provider I felt connected to already, so to me the date just deepens that more and makes it even more mutually enjoyable....

Your approach makes a lot of sense, @keroscenefire. Not sure how one could initiate the BFE with someone they don't know. Seems a bit unfair to expect an escort to do so.

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