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Jarrod, I read a lot of what you post and I am truly sorry for all the troubles you have. I, myself, would never flake or ghost someone I hire as an escort. I have too much experience with that in my non-hiring life and it fucking sucks. I am lucky that I have never once had to cancel an appointment especially less than 24 hours prior. One time I was close to doing so when I knew I was at the beginning of a cold and couldn't get ahold of the guy to ask him if he would still be comfortable seeing me. Since I couldn't reach him, I toughed it out and went. I am so glad I did because it was one of my best experiences.

People, as a species imo, seem to be terrible at courtesy and respect. Maybe selfishness is an evolutionary trait only few humans are able to overcome? Maybe it's the time we are living in that is making people, especially US based people, more selfish. I honestly don't know.

 

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On 5/30/2021 at 10:07 AM, Islesguy said:

Jarrod, I read a lot of what you post and I am truly sorry for all the troubles you have. I, myself, would never flake or ghost someone I hire as an escort. I have too much experience with that in my non-hiring life and it fucking sucks. I am lucky that I have never once had to cancel an appointment especially less than 24 hours prior. One time I was close to doing so when I knew I was at the beginning of a cold and couldn't get ahold of the guy to ask him if he would still be comfortable seeing me. Since I couldn't reach him, I toughed it out and went. I am so glad I did because it was one of my best experiences.

People, as a species imo, seem to be terrible at courtesy and respect. Maybe selfishness is an evolutionary trait only few humans are able to overcome? Maybe it's the time we are living in that is making people, especially US based people, more selfish. I honestly don't know.

 

Just noticed this message, must have missed it in between replying to the previous one.

But yes, you are spot on! People, especially “gay guys” (I know it’s Pride Month, but considering the level of overblown egos and general self serving mentality that seem to frequent the gay community, I think it’s time to start calling it something different...maybe “National LGBTQ ACCEPTANCE Month”

Anyhow though, yeah it is sad that people who book us can be wishy washy. And I totally get it. Clients have told me how nervous and difficult it was to make the move to hire. However, I still have to treat things matter of factly. And hosting without a deposit in the way I host, is out of the question.

Since the update, I have noticed only slightly fewer requests for incalls... but that’s alright by me because I’m not catering to the “can I come over right now” brigade. Which is not an issue either, long as they do the deposit. But when I’m home, it’s hard for me to do last minute appointments so I miss a good chunk of weekday lunch hour business.

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