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Hello, guys! Hope everyone is doing well. So for the first time a client is flying me in for a weekend in Chicago. I am a little anxious because it will be our first meet. If we had met before, I would know what he would expect from me, etc. Just asking for some ideas/suggestions for my first flight/weekend out.

Thank you!

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Hello, guys! Hope everyone is doing well. So for the first time a client is flying me in for a weekend in Chicago. I am a little anxious because it will be our first meet. If we had met before, I would know what he would expect from me, etc. Just asking for some ideas/suggestions for my first flight/weekend out.

Thank you!

 

Did he book your flight or did he send you the money for you to do it yourself?

 

As long as you guys have talked about your sexual interest and he sounded polite there's nothing to be nervous about. I'm sure you both will have a good time.

 

Btw: Where are you based?

 

Would you like add a link to your advertisement in your signature?

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Did he book your flight or did he send you the money for you to do it yourself?

 

As long as you guys have talked about your sexual interest and he sounded polite there's nothing to be nervous about. I'm sure you both will have a good time.

 

Btw: Where are you based?

 

Would you like add a link to your advertisement in your signature?

Sounding polite on the phone is easy, but spending a weekend together may be a different matter. Hope I did not discourage what should be a great time. It wasn't my intention

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Did he book your flight or did he send you the money for you to do it yourself?

 

As long as you guys have talked about your sexual interest and he sounded polite there's nothing to be nervous about. I'm sure you both will have a good time.

 

Btw: Where are you based?

 

Would you like add a link to your advertisement in your signature?

 

Hello! Thank you for your response. He did ask for my info and booked the flight. I alreadyhave the confirmation and everything with me. He sounds very polite and caring. He did not ask me for anything sexually. He said that he liked my profile, etc. He asked me for things I like to do for fun.

I am based in North Carolina.

Do you mean adding the link of my profile?

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Do you mean adding the link of my profile?

If you're an escort, it might be a good idea to have a link in your profile on how to get a hold of you. It would be a good way to drum up business. So if you have an ad on RentMen, or your own website, etc. I'm not sure what you're asking, but are you asking what an interesting thing to do would be for your first time in Chicago? If he asks you what you might want to do, I'd say if I could only pick one thing it might be one of those boat tours in which you're partly in the lake/high speed, then go up the river looking at the architecture. If you're an art fan, the Art Institute is one of the finest museums on the planet. The nearby Russian Tea Time restaurant is one of my favorite Russian restaurants anywhere.

 

https://www.getyourguide.com/chicago-l225/chicago-architecture-cruise-on-seadog-t65241/

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I hope the weekend goes well for you @WolfCompanion

 

You say you’re a “little anxious” and you may want to confide that to him. He may also be nervous. What may help you is if you say what matters to you - I’m thinking of a range of things such as I like to eat healthy food, I need at least 7 hours sleep a night, I’d like to have some personal time each day - and perhaps you can ask if he has made plans for you both.

 

And to get it out of the way, perhaps you should ask for half your fee on meeting as it is your first time with him.

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Many times. It's OK to ask him how you can make his weekend the best possible experience, e.g. public outings and private time. And it's proper to expect a reasonable amount of sleep each night, and some quiet time each day to check your messages, texts and emails. If you keep the phone time to modest use, focus on creating a satisfying encounter for both of you, and communicate (speak and listen well) with your client, you will exceed the expectations of most clients and will likely create a win-win meeting for both of you.

 

Best wishes and have fun!

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If you're an escort, it might be a good idea to have a link in your profile on how to get a hold of you. It would be a good way to drum up business. So if you have an ad on RentMen, or your own website, etc. I'm not sure what you're asking, but are you asking what an interesting thing to do would be for your first time in Chicago? If he asks you what you might want to do, I'd say if I could only pick one thing it might be one of those boat tours in which you're partly in the lake/high speed, then go up the river looking at the architecture. If you're an art fan, the Art Institute is one of the finest museums on the planet. The nearby Russian Tea Time restaurant is one of my favorite Russian restaurants anywhere.

 

https://www.getyourguide.com/chicago-l225/chicago-architecture-cruise-on-seadog-t65241/

Thank you for your advise. I just added my RM profile link to this one. I do also appreciate the recommendations. :)

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I hope the weekend goes well for you @WolfCompanion

 

You say you’re a “little anxious” and you may want to confide that to him. He may also be nervous. What may help you is if you say what matters to you - I’m thinking of a range of things such as I like to eat healthy food, I need at least 7 hours sleep a night, I’d like to have some personal time each day - and perhaps you can ask if he has made plans for you both.

 

And to get it out of the way, perhaps you should ask for half your fee on meeting as it is your first time with him.

Thank you! Those are good things to talk about. I am not really concerned about meeting him. I am more concerned if he does not think I am what he expected. I do appreciate your response. :)

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Many times. It's OK to ask him how you can make his weekend the best possible experience, e.g. public outings and private time. And it's proper to expect a reasonable amount of sleep each night, and some quiet time each day to check your messages, texts and emails. If you keep the phone time to modest use, focus on creating a satisfying encounter for both of you, and communicate (speak and listen well) with your client, you will exceed the expectations of most clients and will likely create a win-win meeting for both of you.

 

Best wishes and have fun!

OMG! Thank you so much for your response and suggestions. I will definitely bring some of them up. :)

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Sounding polite on the phone is easy, but spending a weekend together may be a different matter. Hope I did not discourage what should be a great time. It wasn't my intention

 

I know but it's a start.

 

 

OMG! Thank you so much for your response and suggestions. I will definitely bring some of them up. :)

 

Does he agree on "safe only" as stated in your profile in RM? in the age of PrEP for some clients but a huge turn off.

 

Hello! Thank you for your response. He did ask for my info and booked the flight. I alreadyhave the confirmation and everything with me. He sounds very polite and caring. He did not ask me for anything sexually. He said that he liked my profile, etc. He asked me for things I like to do for fun.

I am based in North Carolina.

Do you mean adding the link of my profile?

 

If you go to your account and click in account details scroll down and you'll read "About you:" you can write there a link to your ad that will appear in all of your posts just like the small print under all my posts that you can see below the line. It's a great way to advertise in this forum.

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I know but it's a start.

 

 

 

 

Does he agree on "safe only" as stated in your profile in RM? in the age of PrEP for some clients but a huge turn off.

 

He did not talk anything about sex. He only mentioned about having a good time, enjoying each other's company, and cuddling. I do not that sex will come up at some point. He told me that he read my profile a few times. So I do believe he knows how I feel about safe sex.

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I know but it's a start.

 

 

 

 

Does he agree on "safe only" as stated in your profile in RM? in the age of PrEP for some clients but a huge turn off.

 

 

 

If you go to your account and click in account details scroll down and you'll read "About you:" you can write there a link to your ad that will appear in all of your posts just like the small print under all my posts that you can see below the line. It's a great way to advertise in this forum.

and thank you for your help with adding my ad to this profile. :)

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I have had a number of times when I paid an escort to visit me in my home which was a train ride, a car ride or a flight away from where they lived. Sometimes it was a first date and other times I had met with them in their home towns. Of course I am coming at this from the client's perspective but I don't think it's unreasonable for him to expect that you might want to do the things he enjoys doing. After all, you are the escort and he is seeking someone to accompany him for the weekend.

 

Therefore I think it appropriate for you to ask him what it is in Chicago he would like to show you since it is your first visit there. Or if he is a homebody and likes to cook, for instance, tell him what you like to eat and see if there is something he can do in that line. If you can cook, doing it together is really fun as I discovered with one escort who was really good at it.

 

Last year I had an escort visit me for the weekend and knew he was an artist, as I am, so I told him to bring any materials he wanted and I would also have mine available. As it turned out the weather was not great so we spent Saturday afternoon drawing, me him and him me. I still treasure his portrait of me.

 

Take some clothes appropriate to dining out if he invites you to a nice restaurant. I had one escort in New York, who wasn't from there, who showed up in cut off jean shorts and a tee shirt when he knew I was taking him to a nice restaurant. We were actually staying together later that night and the next night at my hotel and I knew him from a date in Montreal. Anyway, it turned out fine because the waiters were all over him although they did seat us in a dark corner.

 

I think the most satisfying weekends are those where there is some common ground outside the bedroom, but of course the latter is what makes the weekend extra special for a client.

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He did not talk anything about sex. He only mentioned about having a good time, enjoying each other's company, and cuddling. I do not that sex will come up at some point. He told me that he read my profile a few times. So I do believe he knows how I feel about safe sex.

 

Good, I'm sure you'll have a good time.

 

btw, has he published reviews about other escorts in RM? Do you know his real name? Does he use a regular number or a texting app? the fact that he got your ticket is the main thing and sign of commitment. You can also texting from your airport "I'm on my way" and share your location with him.

 

I'm sure you'll have a great time, besides weekends/overnights are the best way to get to know someone and disconnect from folks texting you daily.

 

If you edit your profile and type "unavailable during X to X" he might read it and find it classy! Also locals will think about hiring you before your trip!

 

Enjoy!

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I have had a number of times when I paid an escort to visit me in my home which was a train ride, a car ride or a flight away from where they lived. Sometimes it was a first date and other times I had met with them in their home towns. Of course I am coming at this from the client's perspective but I don't think it's unreasonable for him to expect that you might want to do the things he enjoys doing. After all, you are the escort and he is seeking someone to accompany him for the weekend.

 

Therefore I think it appropriate for you to ask him what it is in Chicago he would like to show you since it is your first visit there. Or if he is a homebody and likes to cook, for instance, tell him what you like to eat and see if there is something he can do in that line. If you can cook, doing it together is really fun as I discovered with one escort who was really good at it.

 

Last year I had an escort visit me for the weekend and knew he was an artist, as I am, so I told him to bring any materials he wanted and I would also have mine available. As it turned out the weather was not great so we spent Saturday afternoon drawing, me him and him me. I still treasure his portrait of me.

 

Take some clothes appropriate to dining out if he invites you to a nice restaurant. I had one escort in New York, who wasn't from there, who showed up in cut off jean shorts and a tee shirt when he knew I was taking him to a nice restaurant. We were actually staying together later that night and the next night at my hotel and I knew him from a date in Montreal. Anyway, it turned out fine because the waiters were all over him although they did seat us in a dark corner.

 

I think the most satisfying weekends are those where there is some common ground outside the bedroom, but of course the latter is what makes the weekend extra special for a client.

I do appreciate your response. You have definitely helped me a lot. I know sometimes it can sounds dumb but I am also very new to this. I will definitely bring up some of the suggestions you gave me. He is investing in my time and I really want to give him a great time. Again, I do appreciate you taking your time to respond my thread. :)

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Good, I'm sure you'll have a good time.

 

btw, has he published reviews about other escorts in RM? Do you know his real name? Does he use a regular number or a texting app? the fact that he got your ticket is the main thing and sign of commitment. You can also texting from your airport "I'm on my way" and share your location with him.

 

I'm sure you'll have a great time, besides weekends/overnights are the best way to get to know someone and disconnect from folks texting you daily.

 

If you edit your profile and type "unavailable during X to X" he might read it and find it classy! Also locals will think about hiring you before your trip!

 

Enjoy!

You're so nice! I do appreciate your help a lot. No, he has not published any reviews but I understand because he is very discreet and I am here to make sure he keeps this way. He did give me his name and phone number. They seem legit. I am not really afraid or anything about him. It's more like I do want to make sure he will have a great time. If he does have a great time, I will consequently have a great time as well. Oh I do like the idea of updating my profile with "unavailable dates."

THANK YOU!!! :)

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I do appreciate your response. You have definitely helped me a lot. I know sometimes it can sounds dumb but I am also very new to this. I will definitely bring up some of the suggestions you gave me. He is investing in my time and I really want to give him a great time. Again, I do appreciate you taking your time to respond my thread. :)

I wish you the best of luck. It's exciting to meet new people and at some time, we were all new to this hobby.

 

If any of my advice is useful to you, that's great. Just remember, it's free advice so no warranty is either implied or extended. LOL.

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I wish you the best of luck. It's exciting to meet new people and at some time, we were all new to this hobby.

 

If any of my advice is useful to you, that's great. Just remember, it's free advice so no warranty is either implied or extended. LOL.

Thank you again! Yes, I am always excited to meet new people and hopefully I have only met nice guys so far. Very excited for my first "weekend" with someone.

Haha really? No warranty at all? I thought it would come with some "bumper-to-bumper" warranty! lol ?

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I flew a provider to me last year. It was the first time doing that for both of us. We were both a little anxious, but it turned out to be one of the best weekends ever. I booked and paid for his flight the day we agreed on our weekend which was four weeks away. He accepted that as my "deposit" and an indication I was serious. We had a few phone conversations to exchange pleasantries and talk about things easier discussed verbally rather than several texts. We also texted frequently, just to get to know each other's personalities. That weekend flew by. Like your situation, we discussed the same basics, He knew what I was into. I also like to cuddle and enjoy getting to know someone, especially when our personalities click. Ours did, big time. It was like hanging with a friend. We watched a couple movies. I finally convinced him to watch Silence of the Lambs while here. I made sure I had things he liked to eat, which I found out through our conversations and texts. It's been almost 8 months since our weekend and we still text each other frequently just to say hi and see how the other is doing.

 

My advice: communicate with him to find things in which you may have a mutual interest. See if he'd prefer a more structured weekend where you plan activities or if he'd rather let things happen organically as you're there. I asked my provider if there was anything he wanted to do or see while here. He was looking forward to just chilling out and relaxing, so we did. I may be the client but I want my guests to enjoy themselves.

 

The fact that you're asking about this and want to make sure your client has an enjoyable weekend speaks volumes about you. You've shown yourself to be thoughtful and engaging in this thread, which I'm sure is indicative of your personality. Just be yourself and you'll do fine.

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Thank you again! Yes, I am always excited to meet new people and hopefully I have only met nice guys so far. Very excited for my first "weekend" with someone.

Haha really? No warranty at all? I thought it would come with some "bumper-to-bumper" warranty! lol ?

Yeah, well you have to pay for those.

 

My advice is based on trial and error. I tried to learn from my mistakes.

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