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There is a masseur that I had originally seen in 2017. At the time he was just starting out in the US. He had been imported from the Dominican Republic and was working out of a shared house space in the MD burbs that was run by a handler. He English was very limited...and we communicated mostly with hand signals (envision your hand signal for release. lol). He was tall, good looking, thick body with a juicy booty. I was infactuated and tried over several sessions to push his boundaries. He was very guarded because of the handler and would always give the the SHH hand signal and point to the ceiling. He then disappeared along with the other folks being advertised out of that shared space. Seemed that they had moved on to another suburb.

 

Fast forward 4 years. I see that he is traveling and headed back to DC. I wondered how a session would be now with 4 years under his belt. I reached out last night, as he was to arrive in DC today. I reminded him of our previous sessions. I told him that I was happy to see his ad and that he had Erotic as an option. He quoted me a price of $200. I asked if it was on a table or bed. He said bed. I then told him that I would pass as I hate massage sessions on a bed. However, I thought about it (I looked over his pics again. I also noticed that he had a rentmen ad as well). I called him back to book and confirm a time. Throughout the communication, I noticed that he still struggled with English...even after 4 years.

 

I arrived at his room and he greeted me like an old friend. He looked better than I remembered. His body was tighter, but that juicy ass was still there. He told me to get naked and pointed to where I was to lay on the bed. His English had improved some, but he still struggled. I undressed. He didn't. He was still in Jeans and a tshirt. He began the massage by squirting baby oil all over my back. After a couple mins, I tugged at his jeans and asked if he was getting nude. He removed his jeans but had on boxer briefs. I asked if those were coming off and he said "take them off"...so I pulled them down and he stepped out of them. I tugged at his shirt and he said that he wanted to keep it on. OK. He continued with the massage. My hands roamed a little.

 

He worked on me for another few minutes and then told me to flip over. He squirted baby oil on my dick and started stroking me. I felt like I was in one of the massage porn movies. 5 minutes of fake massage and then onto the action. He told me to look at his face. He then dribble spit from his mouth onto my dick, continued to stroked me, and moaned like a pornstar. I am laying there excited and frustrated at the same time. He then says to cum is extra. That ended it for me. It had checked too many of the "bad" boxes: (1) Massage on a bed (although I already knew that), (2) Used cheap baby oil and squirted it directly on me, (3) I had to work to get him naked [for an erotic massage],(4) Tried to get me off and out early, (5) bad porn acting, and then (6) the dreaded upsell.

 

I told him that this isn't what I wanted and I was ending the session. He said "What baby? I thought that this is what you wanted. "I remember from before you wanted more and now I was going to give it to you". He said "I finish you and then we do massage". I said "It's not good to start stroking me 10 mins into the session"...and then you try to get more money from me. He said no..only more money if you want me to cum. I told him that I was done. The vibe was ruined and the session was over. He said...OK...I give you massage and then we do this. I told him that I was no longer in the mood. Session over. I gave him $80. He complained. He said that he passed up other clients to take me. I said...you just made $80 for 10mins of a bad massage session. Consider yourself lucky.

 

Thinking back on it, I may have overreacted. There was definitely some miscommunication and then I was out of the mood.

 

Was I wrong? What would you have done?

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This doesn’t sound like a porn, this sounds like 2 people were misguided on what the other wanted...and it just ended up as a shit show.

 

One thing I have noticed that clients need to stop doing: is walking out of a session. I’ve seen this twice last week. One I was able to keep it going and it ended well because I was the only person, and it was more of a case of the client being a little nervous and not communicating.

 

However, one ended bad because the client wanted more than the other escort in a 3 way was willing to do. But it was the client who ended things, so he technically forfeited his session. I was trying to tell him to just stick around and let things continue because I was going to make sure he got what he wanted... but he had already made up his mind that he was done. And I don’t blame him because the other escort had did him wrong, and the setup of the massage was horrible, no ambience, and rushed.

 

That said in your particular case, I think the communication could have been better (care to massage me longer, please?) and you should have not made a fuss and left. But also, look at the facts: He’s a foreigner, y’all haven’t met in 4 years, and I’m not sure what you refer to as “handler”, but sounds like a Pimp. It’s just not a good situation.

 

I won’t say you’re wrong because clearly the other guy had an intent to get you in and then out, but it could have been handled better. I do most all of my rubs on a bed, but I never get any complaints. But not every bed massage is the same. I have no desire to travel from City to city, hotel to hotel with a massage table. If a client wishes to have a massage table massage, they are welcome to provide one and I’ll go to their place. But if someone has an issue with a bed massage, then I wouldn’t want them to come with a chip right off the bat.

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There is a masseur that I had originally seen in 2017. At the time he was just starting out in the US. He had been imported from the Dominican Republic and was working out of a shared house space in the MD burbs that was run by a handler. He English was very limited...and we communicated mostly with hand signals (envision your hand signal for release. lol). He was tall, good looking, thick body with a juicy booty. I was infactuated and tried over several sessions to push his boundaries. He was very guarded because of the handler and would always give the the SHH hand signal and point to the ceiling. He then disappeared along with the other folks being advertised out of that shared space. Seemed that they had moved on to another suburb.

 

Fast forward 4 years. I see that he is traveling and headed back to DC. I wondered how a session would be now with 4 years under his belt. I reached out last night, as he was to arrive in DC today. I reminded him of our previous sessions. I told him that I was happy to see his ad and that he had Erotic as an option. He quoted me a price of $200. I asked if it was on a table or bed. He said bed. I then told him that I would pass as I hate massage sessions on a bed. However, I thought about it (I looked over his pics again. I also noticed that he a rentmen ad as well). I called him back to book and confirm a time. Throughout the communication, I noticed that he still struggled with English...even after 4 years.

 

I arrived at his room and he greeted me like an old friend. He looked better than I remembered. His body was tighter, but that juicy ass was still there. He told me to get naked and pointed to where I was to lay on the bed. His English had improved some, but he still struggled. I undressed. He didn't. He was still in Jeans and a tshirt. He began the massage by squirting baby oil all over my back. After a couple mins, I tugged at his jeans and asked if he was getting nude. He removed his jeans but had on boxer briefs. I asked if those were coming off and he said "take them off"...so I pulled them down and he stepped out of them. I tugged at his shirt and he said that he wanted to keep it on. OK. He continued with the massage. My hands roamed a little.

 

He worked on me for another few minutes and then told me to flip over. He squirted baby oil on my dick and started stroking me. I felt like I was in one of the massage porn movies. 5 minutes of fake massage and then onto the action. He told me to look at his face. He then dribble spit from his mouth onto my dick, continued to stroked me, and moaned like a pornstar. I am laying there excited and frustrated at the same time. He then says to cum is extra. That ended it for me. It had checked too many of the "bad" boxes: (1) Massage on a bed (although I already knew that), (2) Used cheap baby oil and squirted it directly on me, (3) I had to work to get him naked [for an erotic massage],(4) Tried to get me off and out early, (5) bad porn acting, and then (6) the dreaded upsell.

 

I told him that this isn't what I wanted and I was ending the session. He said "What baby? I thought that this is what you wanted. "I remember from before you wanted more and now I was going to give it to you". He said "I finish you and then we do massage". I said "It's not good to start stroking me 10 mins into the session"...and then you try to get more money from me. He said no..only more money if you want me to cum. I told him that I was done. The vibe was ruined and the session was over. He said...OK...I give you massage and then we do this. I told him that I was no longer in the mood. Session over. I gave him $80. He complained. He said that he passed up other clients to take me. I said...you just made $80 for 10mins of a bad massage session. Consider yourself lucky.

 

Thinking back on it, I may have overreacted. There was definitely some miscommunication and then I was out of the mood.

 

Was I wrong? What would you have done?

You did the right thing. Things didn't start off well and it seemed it was downhill from there. You had high expectations and you were looking forward to seeing him after 4 years. You did say that he greeted you like an old friend but then it didn't seem as if he was aiming to please you. A rushed not so happy ending at the beginning is not my idea of an enjoyable massage session. Take your hard earned $$$ elsewhere.

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There is a masseur that I had originally seen in 2017. At the time he was just starting out in the US. He had been imported from the Dominican Republic and was working out of a shared house space in the MD burbs that was run by a handler. He English was very limited...and we communicated mostly with hand signals (envision your hand signal for release. lol). He was tall, good looking, thick body with a juicy booty. I was infactuated and tried over several sessions to push his boundaries. He was very guarded because of the handler and would always give the the SHH hand signal and point to the ceiling. He then disappeared along with the other folks being advertised out of that shared space. Seemed that they had moved on to another suburb.

 

Fast forward 4 years. I see that he is traveling and headed back to DC. I wondered how a session would be now with 4 years under his belt. I reached out last night, as he was to arrive in DC today. I reminded him of our previous sessions. I told him that I was happy to see his ad and that he had Erotic as an option. He quoted me a price of $200. I asked if it was on a table or bed. He said bed. I then told him that I would pass as I hate massage sessions on a bed. However, I thought about it (I looked over his pics again. I also noticed that he a rentmen ad as well). I called him back to book and confirm a time. Throughout the communication, I noticed that he still struggled with English...even after 4 years.

 

I arrived at his room and he greeted me like an old friend. He looked better than I remembered. His body was tighter, but that juicy ass was still there. He told me to get naked and pointed to where I was to lay on the bed. His English had improved some, but he still struggled. I undressed. He didn't. He was still in Jeans and a tshirt. He began the massage by squirting baby oil all over my back. After a couple mins, I tugged at his jeans and asked if he was getting nude. He removed his jeans but had on boxer briefs. I asked if those were coming off and he said "take them off"...so I pulled them down and he stepped out of them. I tugged at his shirt and he said that he wanted to keep it on. OK. He continued with the massage. My hands roamed a little.

 

He worked on me for another few minutes and then told me to flip over. He squirted baby oil on my dick and started stroking me. I felt like I was in one of the massage porn movies. 5 minutes of fake massage and then onto the action. He told me to look at his face. He then dribble spit from his mouth onto my dick, continued to stroked me, and moaned like a pornstar. I am laying there excited and frustrated at the same time. He then says to cum is extra. That ended it for me. It had checked too many of the "bad" boxes: (1) Massage on a bed (although I already knew that), (2) Used cheap baby oil and squirted it directly on me, (3) I had to work to get him naked [for an erotic massage],(4) Tried to get me off and out early, (5) bad porn acting, and then (6) the dreaded upsell.

 

I told him that this isn't what I wanted and I was ending the session. He said "What baby? I thought that this is what you wanted. "I remember from before you wanted more and now I was going to give it to you". He said "I finish you and then we do massage". I said "It's not good to start stroking me 10 mins into the session"...and then you try to get more money from me. He said no..only more money if you want me to cum. I told him that I was done. The vibe was ruined and the session was over. He said...OK...I give you massage and then we do this. I told him that I was no longer in the mood. Session over. I gave him $80. He complained. He said that he passed up other clients to take me. I said...you just made $80 for 10mins of a bad massage session. Consider yourself lucky.

 

Thinking back on it, I may have overreacted. There was definitely some miscommunication and then I was out of the mood.

 

Was I wrong? What would you have done?

In my (ever so humble) opinion you took the wrong approach here, and it got exacerbated by a lack of communication. ? Reading between the lines, you tried to "get the milk for free" when you should have rented the cow! ?

 

It sounds like you wanted more than just a massage and a happy ending. So in your shoes I would have approached him by saying I saw his Rentmen ad and asking for the escort service. You can then add that you would like a 40 minute massage ending with a 20 minute boyfriend experience. ☺ You would be out of pocket a higher fee than just a massage but you are also likely to get to spend the time the way you wanted.

 

Learn from the experience and move on! ?

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...It sounds like you wanted more than just a massage and a happy ending...

 

Thanks for the input. I was not expecting anything more than just a massage with a happy ending. I would have been glad if it included more, but would not have been upset if it didn't happen. However, I did book for an erotic session. I would assume that the basics of an erotic session (and given the rate) would include mutual nude, mutual touch, and release (of me).

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