Question for masseurs

[DJinthevalley]

I’ve been a connoisseur of gay massages for many years. I’ve always wondered how much you infer from new clients based on the initial text exchange. Can you figure out what type of client they will be based on what they do or don’t say or by what questions they have or if they have none at all? When I book with a new masseur my text is always “Hi ----. My name is-----. I saw your ad on Rentmasseur. Would you be free for a 90 minute massage on such and such a date?” And if they’re available I say great and have no further questions. I’ve usually had great experiences. Are there things a potential client can say that are red flags. Just curious.

[Smurof]

You're accidently asking escorts, not masseurs. Try the spa section of the forum for an answer or two. The way you're going about it seems pretty normal without needing to be concerned of raising any red flags. Flooding someone with constant questions or getting too detailed of your sexual desires are two major no-nos for both, and a sure fire way to not be seen by anyone.

[DJinthevalley]

You're accidently asking escorts, not masseurs. Try the spa section of the forum for an answer or two. The way you're going about it seems pretty normal without needing to be concerned of raising any red flags. Flooding someone with constant questions or getting too detailed of your sexual desires are two major no-nos for both, and a sure fire way to not be seen by anyone.

I realized my question should have been in the spa section after I posted it but couldn't figure out how to delete it.

[Jamie21]

I’m a masseur (and I’ve done some escorting). Your approach is excellent. It’s exactly what a masseur would prefer to hear. It shows you’ve read their bio, you’ve made your decision and you provide all the information the masseur needs to confirm the booking.

 

I like requests such as yours. If I get requests that start “hi” or “how much do you charge?” or worst of all...a dick pic, then I’m almost certain they’ll never book. Those are red flags. They just ask lots of questions or want to engage in sex chat. You quickly get used to who the time wasters are.

[edgerm4mnyc]

I'm a masseur not an escort. I offer therapeutic, sensual, erotic massages. The word "Erotic" here has different meaning for every guy and on the rentmasseur website, it is explained explicitly, most guys don't read that. So when I offer erotic, they expect full service like an escort. So some red flags for me, would be:

- I can't see your dick pic, can you send me?

- Are you a bottom?

- Are you a top?

- Calling me when I wrote no phone calls (so they don't read my ad entirely or just skipping to the parts that they want to read). Annoying when I'm with a client and I forgot to turn on "do not disturb".

 

P.S. I like your text. That's what I want in a new client.