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I'm guessing this has been discussed before. I sent a note to a guy on RM indicating that I was coming to town, liked his profile, and wanted to see if he was into the scene I was looking for. Without any other info or response to my message he simply replied "Do you have clear photos of yourself".

 

Now I have problem eventually providing a photo before I meet up with someone. But that this is his initial response completely put me off. I am hiring him, not the other way around. That is the end of it as far as I am concerned.

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I'm guessing this has been discussed before. I sent a note to a guy on RM indicating that I was coming to town, liked his profile, and wanted to see if he was into the scene I was looking for. Without any other info or response to my message he simply replied "Do you have clear photos of yourself".

 

Now I have problem eventually providing a photo before I meet up with someone. But that this is his initial response completely put me off. I am hiring him, not the other way around. That is the end of it as far as I am concerned.

 

Agreed.

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I'm guessing this has been discussed before. I sent a note to a guy on RM indicating that I was coming to town, liked his profile, and wanted to see if he was into the scene I was looking for. Without any other info or response to my message he simply replied "Do you have clear photos of yourself".

 

Now I have problem eventually providing a photo before I meet up with someone. But that this is his initial response completely put me off. I am hiring him, not the other way around. That is the end of it as far as I am concerned.

 

However, if he texts or emails an "are you interested?" note you can say you dont give out pics.

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Definitely thoroughly discussed. So, you should be able to find lots of feedback on this subject. Enough to keep you occupied for hours. (Kudos to @liubit for attaching a link to an active thread on the subject.) Synopsis: the majority of clients don't like it or resent it; and most established professional guys don't require it. The minority see some value in it for various reasons that are usually specific to an experience, limitation, circumstance, or potential insecurity.

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I'm guessing this has been discussed before. I sent a note to a guy on RM indicating that I was coming to town, liked his profile, and wanted to see if he was into the scene I was looking for. Without any other info or response to my message he simply replied "Do you have clear photos of yourself".

 

Now I have problem eventually providing a photo before I meet up with someone. But that this is his initial response completely put me off. I am hiring him, not the other way around. That is the end of it as far as I am concerned.

I have a profile on a dating site (adam4adam) with g-rated pics. If I am serious about meeting I will provide the link to that site. If he is not willing to visit the site for his own peace of mind, he is probably not serious about meeting.

 

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A couple of times I’ve had guys ask something like “would you be willing to share a picture of yourself, okay if not”. That’s an approach I don’t mind as it’s asking, not demanding. Whenever I can, I prefer to communicate using WhatsApp, and they can see my profile pic on there which I don’t mind sharing.

 

If it seems that the picture of yourself is to determine the escort’s level of interest, I would move on. It’s a paid transaction, not a Grindr hookup.

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I've had the experience that once things are set, a guy who I haven't met wants to see a pic for purposes of recognizing me when we meet in a public place. I'm generally reluctant to send anything identifying, but I am always torn about that in the moment. It's a game time decision for me.

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I'm guessing this has been discussed before. I sent a note to a guy on RM indicating that I was coming to town, liked his profile, and wanted to see if he was into the scene I was looking for. Without any other info or response to my message he simply replied "Do you have clear photos of yourself".

 

Now I have problem eventually providing a photo before I meet up with someone. But that this is his initial response completely put me off. I am hiring him, not the other way around. That is the end of it as far as I am concerned.

 

Reply with physical stats like age/race/height/weight/grooming style if you haven't done so already. Don't write him off just yet. The provider needs to know this to make sure how much viagra they need to take to get IT up for the session. Other than that ABSOLUTELY NO PIC (or bank account number or SSN or your REAL NAME)

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Reply with physical stats like age/race/height/weight/grooming style if you haven't done so already. Don't write him off just yet. The provider needs to know this to make sure how much viagra they need to take to get IT up for the session. Other than that ABSOLUTELY NO PIC (or bank account number or SSN or your REAL NAME)

 

The scene I requested actually does not require him to get it up...:)

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Maybe I am wrong. I prefer to WhatsApp than sending a message via Hunqz, Sleepyboy etc and waiting for a reply. Its direct, faster and non intrusive like a phone call.

Doesnt use of Whatsapp require you to share your actual cell phone number? Most folks here may not be comfortable doing that - they prefer using a google voice number or burner number to maintain privacy. ?

 

(From what I understand folks using google voice are not receiving the verification code to activate Whatsapp. My knowledge on this is a few years old...)

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I have a profile on a dating site (adam4adam) with g-rated pics. If I am serious about meeting I will provide the link to that site. If he is not willing to visit the site for his own peace of mind, he is probably not serious about meeting.

 

teeth-ball-dog-toy3.jpg

This is actually not a bad idea in my mind!

 

We also want to know how you manage to keep your pup’s teeth that white!! ??

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Doesnt use of Whatsapp require you to share your actual cell phone number? Most folks here may not be comfortable doing that - they prefer using a google voice number or burner number to maintain privacy. ?

 

(From what I understand folks using google voice are not receiving the verification code to activate Whatsapp. My knowledge on this is a few years old...)

I use my phone number on WhatsApp with my name and a clear face photo. I understand some people are concerned but this is 2021. Nobody cares.

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