Personality of Dancers

[Guest JustANametoPlay]

OK, this has nothing to do with an escort, but rather a dancer at Lord's in Ft. Laud.

 

I prefer going to Lords over the other local bar, Johnny's, as Johnny's tends to much more twinkish and boyish. Lord's has more "men" Anyway, Once in a while you find a real gem.

 

I am not naive. As with an escort/client, I know that for the most part a dancer/patron relationship is a buisness one. However, IMHO it shouldn't feel like one, There is nothing I HATE more than a dancer that has no personality, and gives you the "I'm here, I'm sexy, TIP ME NOW" kind of attitude. This seems to be more prevelant with more muscular dancers (maybe I am generalizing).

 

Anyway, this past weekend I met one of the nicest dancers I have ever had the pleasure of dealing with. His name is Patrick, and he is abot 6' and 215#. What a sweet man! And I do mean man! Now this may have all been a complete act on his part (although it didn't feel like the normal dancer BS niceness), but he was so pleasant and kind. We had a great conversationa bout many things. We even talked about weight loss. As part of this conversation I mentioned how in the past year I have lost over 60 pounds, with another 60 to go.

 

Part of my point in all this is that of course looks matter to me in a dancer, after all that is why I am there, BUT a large part of the attraction for me is the personality, and I tip accordingly. I have met many men that are equally attractive and built as Patrick, but the majoity did not have his charm, or kindness (again it may have all been an act), Although they may be attractive I usally give them a dollar and let them be on their way. With Patrick, I wnet through MANY dollars <g>

 

OK, just my rambling thoughts for today.