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from history.com.....  (other sources suggest the tradition had roots in earlier gory pagan rituals and was cleaned up for Christianity)

On February 14, around the year 270 A.D., Valentine, a holy priest in Rome in the days of Emperor Claudius II, is said to have been executed.

Under the rule of Claudius the Cruel, Rome was involved in many unpopular and bloody campaigns. The emperor had to maintain a strong army, but was having a difficult time getting soldiers to join his military leagues. Claudius believed that Roman men were unwilling to join the army because of their strong attachment to their wives and families.

To get rid of the problem, Claudius banned all marriages and engagements in Rome. Valentine, realizing the injustice of the decree, defied Claudius and continued to perform marriages for young lovers in secret.

When Valentine’s actions were discovered, Claudius ordered that he be put to death. Valentine was arrested and dragged before the Prefect of Rome, who condemned him to be beaten to death with clubs and to have his head cut off. The sentence was carried out on February 14, on or about the year 270.

READ MORE: Who Was the Real St. Valentine?

Legend also has it that while in jail, St. Valentine left a farewell note for the jailer’s daughter, who had become his friend, and signed it “From Your Valentine.”

For his great service, Valentine was named a saint after his death.

In truth, the exact origins and identity of St. Valentine are unclear. According to the Catholic Encyclopedia, “At least three different Saint Valentines, all of them martyrs, are mentioned in the early martyrologies under the date of 14 February.” One was a priest in Rome, the second one was a bishop of Interamna (now Terni, Italy) and the third St. Valentine was a martyr in the Roman province of Africa.

Legends vary on how the martyr’s name became connected with romance. The date of his death may have become mingled with the Feast of Lupercalia, a pagan festival of love. On these occasions, the names of young women were placed in a box, from which they were drawn by the men as chance directed. In 496 A.D., Pope Gelasius decided to put an end to the Feast of Lupercalia, and he declared that February 14 be celebrated as St. Valentine’s Day.

Gradually, February 14 became a date for exchanging love messages, poems and simple gifts such as flowers.

 

READ MORE: 6 Surprising Facts About St. Valentine

 

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Here’s an idea…

Instead of having a holiday that commercializes unrealistic ideas about romantic love, how about we inculcate in people the spirit of Valentine’s Day any day of the year?

I despise Valentine’s Day. How it’s divorced from its history, how it commercializes relationships, and how it makes those who don’t have such relationships feel…

I’m sure someone here will be happily obliged to tell me why I’m off base with this feeling, though. 

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3 hours ago, xyz48B said:

Here’s an idea…

Instead of having a holiday that commercializes unrealistic ideas about romantic love, how about we inculcate in people the spirit of Valentine’s Day any day of the year?

I despise Valentine’s Day. How it’s divorced from its history, how it commercializes relationships, and how it makes those who don’t have such relationships feel…

I’m sure someone here will be happily obliged to tell me why I’m off base with this feeling, though. 

Spreading more cheer, aren’t you! 😉

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