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I'm curious if anyone's gaydar pings around certain nationalities or types of guys. My bf is restoring an old pick-up truck and the garage that's helping him is run by an extended Lebanese family. Some combination of looks, accents and friendliness induces speculation. Undoubtedly, baseless speculation.

 

Something similar occurred a few years ago in Turkey. Shaved eyebrows, warm smiles and lots of touching could have led to a lot of misunderstanding.

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I'm curious if anyone's gaydar pings around certain nationalities or types of guys. My bf is restoring an old pick-up truck and the garage that's helping him is run by an extended Lebanese family. Some combination of looks, accents and friendliness induces speculation. Undoubtedly, baseless speculation.

 

Something similar occurred a few years ago in Turkey. Shaved eyebrows, warm smiles and lots of touching could have led to a lot of misunderstanding.

 

They're touchy people.

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That has happened to me in the Mediterranean, Middle East, and Latin America. It’s not unusual in Italy and Greece to see pairs of adult, even elderly, men walking hand in hand or with their arms around each other.

I would say that even if definitely in Italy (mostly in the South) men are touchy, that they kiss each other on cheeks if they meet after some time, that sometimes they would walk with arms on each other's shoulder or arm in arm...... if you see two men walking hand in hand (like you would see in India and in some Middle Eastern Country), people around would definitely think they are gay, and 99% of the times they are!

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These guys are so friendly! Was talking with them the other day about food and two of the cousins said they'd cook us a traditional meal with lamb. Before my fantasies get carried away I have to remember that they are just being friendly, are straight and may not even realize we're gay.

 

Maybe we'll take them up when the weather is warmer if they wear tank tops!

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Several years ago, my niece married a hot young man from Brazil - he was an exchange student. A large number of his family came up for the wedding. Among them was an equally hot older male sibling who I was immediately attracted to. After dinner one night, along with a lot of alcohol, we found ourselves alone. One thing led to another, and it was a mutually satisfying encounter. The next day, he called me and wanted to “clear the air” - said that he had a steady girlfriend and wasn’t gay (sure could have fooled me) but that he liked to fuck around now and then with guys and in his homeland, screwing guys was not all that uncommon.. He hoped I was “okay”, said he had a great time, and invited me to come visit. I guess it was his c’est la vie approach to life that I found very intriguing. Never saw him again.

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Several years ago, my niece married a hot young man from Brazil - he was an exchange student. A large number of his family came up for the wedding. Among them was an equally hot older male sibling who I was immediately attracted to. After dinner one night, along with a lot of alcohol, we found ourselves alone. One thing led to another, and it was a mutually satisfying encounter. The next day, he called me and wanted to “clear the air” - said that he had a steady girlfriend and wasn’t gay (sure could have fooled me) but that he liked to fuck around now and then with guys and in his homeland, screwing guys was not all that uncommon.. He hoped I was “okay”, said he had a great time, and invited me to come visit. I guess it was his c’est la vie approach to life that I found very intriguing. Never saw him again.

 

Which decade?

 

I think he was just in denial.

 

@Snbrd in DC town everybody is gay till proven the opposite therefore gaydar is useless.

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Several years ago, my niece married a hot young man from Brazil - he was an exchange student. A large number of his family came up for the wedding. Among them was an equally hot older male sibling who I was immediately attracted to. After dinner one night, along with a lot of alcohol, we found ourselves alone. One thing led to another, and it was a mutually satisfying encounter. The next day, he called me and wanted to “clear the air” - said that he had a steady girlfriend and wasn’t gay (sure could have fooled me) but that he liked to fuck around now and then with guys and in his homeland, screwing guys was not all that uncommon.. He hoped I was “okay”, said he had a great time, and invited me to come visit. I guess it was his c’est la vie approach to life that I found very intriguing. Never saw him again.

This is everyone's fantasy! Congrats for living and sharing it

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Having sex with a guy who is denial and the next day claims he's not gay to reclaim moral superiority is certainly NOT my fantasy. I'm glad @KrisParr he didn't turn violent with you

For sure, afterwards I realized that the encounter could have been a disaster. And as I recall, that’s about the time I got a handle on my liquor intake limits.

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Having sex with a guy who is denial and the next day claims he's not gay to reclaim moral superiority is certainly NOT my fantasy. I'm glad @KrisParr he didn't turn violent with you

 

There really ARE guys who are primarily attracted to woman but like to mess around with guys from time to time. You don't have to rush to judgement and assume they are gay and in denial. Not everybody conforms to nice, neat sexual orientation classifications.

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There really ARE guys who are primarily attracted to woman but like to mess around with guys from time to time. You don't have to rush to judgement and assume they are gay and in denial. Not everybody conforms to nice, neat sexual orientation classifications.

 

maybe he was BI or bicurious.

 

Is that a better way to say it?

 

Nice, neat... naughty?

 

For sure, afterwards I realized that the encounter could have been a disaster. And as I recall, that’s about the time I got a handle on my liquor intake limits.

 

exactly... but you had fun this time.

 

When I served in the Navy I sucked off SO MANY straight guys... I met their wives and gf later on and some of them seemed embarrassed about me being in their presence. Not my proudest moment but I would do it all over again. Now I'm all into the BFE.

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he liked to fuck around now and then with guys and in his homeland, screwing guys was not all that uncommon.

Not only in Brazil.

Latin culture is similar

Yes, all Latin America.

Sometimes, they really are bi ... full of guys who were gay for pay.

Haha, you just described Latin America, my favourite part of the world for sex travels.

With the right amount of alcohol and persuasion, you can get hot (non-escorts) men to your bed.

Turkey and Lebanon supposedly are also that way.

Interestingly, Brazil and other Latin American countries received a high influx of Turkish and Lebanese Immigrants before the 60s.

No wonder about the great looks in some hairy Latin men with thick eyebrows, beards and c*cks.

Middle Eastern men can have sex with, but straight guys hung up on religion might become aggressive just out of the proposition.

Their cousins in Latin America, won't mind giving you a good f*ck, and if it's not their thing they'll just go away. Aggressive only if you're pushy.

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Not only in Brazil.

 

Yes, all Latin America.

 

Haha, you just described Latin America, my favourite part of the world for sex travels.

With the right amount of alcohol and persuasion, you can get hot (non-escorts) men to your bed.

 

Interestingly, Brazil and other Latin American countries received a high influx of Turkish and Lebanese Immigrants before the 60s.

No wonder about the great looks in some hairy Latin men with thick eyebrows, beards and c*cks.

Middle Eastern men can have sex with, but straight guys hung up on religion might become aggressive just out of the proposition.

Their cousins in Latin America, won't mind giving you a good f*ck, and if it's not their thing they'll just go away. Aggressive only if you're pushy.

 

 

The first time I visited Greece was in the early 70s during the Papadopulous regime. The entire country was thick with heavily-armed police and soldiers. In Athens, you saw them on nearly every street corner. There were lots of gay bars in Plaka - the old section of Athens. There was a hustler bar called the VO Club where you could pick up stunning Greek men for almost nothing - 30.00 or so. For Greece, at the time, that was a lot of money, but it was peanuts to the middle-aged western tourists who hung out there. What was interesting is that soldiers would go in there in uniform in full daylight to pick up tricks. The fact that they might be seen didn't seem to bother them at all.

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