Who's working here anyway?

[Guest Nice Guy]

I only do overnight and multipule nights. That's what I like. I have a couple of regular guys I see a lot of. But I also see others for a little varity. My question is, after the first encounter it seems like the guy thinks his job is done, sometimes, and I have to do all the "work" to get the fire started again. What happened to the aggressive guy I meet the first night? I like to be pampered,made to feel attractive and sexy and wanted. It seems I am doing all the work and I should get paid for waiting on them hand and foot. What am I missing here gentlemen?

Not to drop names, but Mike Grey and Brett Silvers who I have seen dozens of time always make me feel attractive and lusted after. Mike Grey especially. Is it just their personalities or their professionalism? Would love to hear other experiences. Take care NG

[Guest MrB]

I'm jealous of your spending power :-) but you're right, you're absolutely entitled to being treated the way you like--not just when it's a first encounter, but even more so for subsequent sessions.

In fact, if you do overnights or longer only, any escort would be a fool not to treat you right. If there's nothing wrong with your money, there should be nothing wrong with their service either.

 

Thanks for the tip about Mike Grey. I'll have to check him out

[Guest Steelydan]

<<My question is, after the first encounter it seems like the guy thinks his job is done, sometimes, and I have to do all the "work"

to get the fire started again. What happened to

the aggressive guy I meet the first night?>>

 

Maybe it's an off night for the escort or perhaps he was just hired by the man of his dreams (many escorts are searching for soulmates too) but if it isn't a fullfilling time move on to a new guy. There are plenty of great escorts out there!

 

<<I like to be pampered,made to feel attractive and sexy and wanted. It seems I am doing all the work and I should get paid for waiting on them hand and foot. What am I missing here gentlemen?

Is it just their personalities or their professionalism? Would love to hear other experiences.>>

 

I agree. Pampered, made to feel attractive, sexy, and wanted (do we all have self esteem issues?

You and I are on the same page. But judging by the reviews, lots of guys do not care about these issues. Some want just raw sex. Others want to worship a muscled body.

 

I once hired a guy who was very well reviewed. I am not into quickies and want at least 3 hrs. w/ a guy or an overnight. The guy was a great top but the experience was too raw for me. I need intimacy and romance in addition to hot passionate sex. It couldn't end quickly enough. But the error was mine. I didn't ask enough of the right questions. So I learned and moved on.

 

Chemistry also plays a very important role in how clients and escorts connect. For me a great escort fills a hole in my life. For an evening or a night or even a couple of days this guy becomes my partner/lover/soulmate. I always want the whole package. After I get to know an escort we begin to trust each other. And I'm convinced that trust is the key to having a fullfilling experience. I want our experience to be as real as possible. I don't want a guy who blindly agrees w/ everything I say. I need his views, feelings, and emotions to complete my experience. Once I quietly cried myself to sleep next to an escort due to my own insecurities but it was part of my growing and learning experience. While the escort didn't intrude into my space at the time he did touch me and ask if I was OK. A month or 2 later we spent a couple of nights together and while he never brought the subject up, when I touched on it he remembered all the details and was very sweet. You can bet I will see him again. (you know who you are Mister G.M.- Who is this Mr. Richard Zilla imposter

 

All the escort I hire as repeats are great guys. And there are a lot of great guys out there. So happy hunting!!

 

Steelydan

[Guest Nice Guy]

Steely, not only are we on the same page, but i think we co-wrote the book!

And another point, because I seem to see a lot of the really nice ones, I probably tend not to be as pushy as I might. They are comforable in the situation... It is that just once in awhile I would like them to take the lead. Just makes me feel special. I forgot to include Matt in my list, an oversight on my part. But a little nudging once in awhile can't hurt. The last thing I want is to have it seem that they ARE working! Usually that doesn't happen as we get to know each other and hit a comfort level. Who is your GM??? share please

NG

[Matt_Vancouver]

Nice Gut, hmmm a slight oversight,eh?? WEll I never: )

I would like to pipe in about Brett Silvers...YUMMY! definatly a must see for anyone in the LA area! Sexy, funny, nice big fat hard as a rock cock! great top, super hot ass, woof, guess I enjoyed myself: )

 

Nice guy, do you really want to know who GM is?? ask youself, do you really wanna know: )

hey Steely how are you? Who's a bad boy? huhuh? you never call you never write, and then all ofa sudden you appear out of the wookwork, talking about Richard Zilla?

leave him out of this: )

matt

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Guest Steelydan]

>Steely, not only are we on

>the same page, but i

>think we co-wrote the book!

>

Mr. Guy:

 

I'll leave the book writing to Aaron

 

 

> Who is your GM???

>share please

 

>NG

While I refuse to share, methinks I'm a bit too late. I suspect your Mister Richard Zilla is my Mister Girth Monster. And he has at least one evil twin I'm aware of :-)

 

S. Dan

[Guest allansmith63]

I think you're bang on, Steely.

 

I've also heard a reference "King of the Girth" - I believe that it has more names than you can shake your stick (or dick) at!! :-) I think he should get another tattoo - guess where - with all of the names listed on it. There's lots of room!!

 

A.

[Guest Nice Guy]

Be careful who's calling who "gut" Oh and thanks for letting everyone know about Brett, did you really have to get that graphic? I believe I had to find out most of the things I know about you from a first hand visit. And I thought it was "special" for you!!! Speaking of which, see you next week, Mister GM

NG aka Cottage cheese "something"