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Do you think its rude or invasive if you ask your provider why he became an escort?

 

I would never ask. But a few have mentioned to me in conversation their reasons, motivations and what they hope or intend to do later. I've never responded to those comments, only acknowledge them and seem casually interested. I have never felt it's my place to ask or speculate much less give advice one way or another.

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I wouldn't mind if he ask me, everyone has their reasons mine its just for fun ?, don't need escorts but just a fun hobby time to time . You guys think everything need secrecy or too serious ?

 

It’s not that everything needs to be a secret. It’s just that everything doesn’t need to be asked.

 

I understand children asking a batter of “Why”, questions, but as adults, many things don’t require and inquiry, because it’s no one’s business; and the answer doesn’t have any impact on anyone else’s life anyway....

 

When people ask a lot of those type of “why” questions, I have a term for them:

 

“Intrusive Interrogators”

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I find the best small talk breaks the ice. Being too inquisitive builds mistrust.

 

I don’t care for escorts that ask too many personal questions, so I try not to be too inquisitive myself. I think it is better to talk about the weather, the town or other simple conversations.

 

Are you going to have a better time because you know their full history, or are going to have a better time if everyone is nice and relaxed?

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I find the best small talk breaks the ice. Being too inquisitive builds mistrust.

 

 

 

THIS!!!!

 

I think that a lot of people don’t know how to truly hold a conversation.

 

I can engage with a complete stranger without asking them one personal question, and through our conversation we can exchange commonalities, and share interests ORGANICALLY.

 

But the moment I encounter someone who just blasts me with a bunch of questions, I throw them in the “socially inept”, box, and further avoid them.

 

For me, the type of person who asks a bunch of intrusive questions seems inauthentic, and almost creepy. It’s like they’re trying to “figure you out”, evaluate you, and determine how they should judge you or utilize you...

 

The moment I get the battery of “what do you do?”, “where do you live?” type of questions (before even completing a proper introduction) , I’m immediately turned off....

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"Why" questions often get you easy rationalizations or vague responses. Lots of "decisions" are made w/o much deliberation. Many opportunities appear without much context or explanation. The reasons someone enters an occupation, escorting or otherwise often are different than the conditions that keep them in the job. I've always been interested in how people got to where they were in life. I also know that it's usually not a simple question and its often not the most appropriate first thing to ask.

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Lol most of the time true but wbout people that had great job and didn’t really need to

 

Yes, not all escorts do it out of necessity but I doubt they take a pay cut when they leave an office job or career for escorting.

 

I’m sure some do it because they prefer working one hour and making more than they would in eight hours of regular job or because they like to travel.

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THIS!!!!

 

I think that a lot of people don’t know how to truly hold a conversation.

 

I can engage with a complete stranger without asking them one personal question, and through our conversation we can exchange commonalities, and share interests ORGANICALLY.

 

But the moment I encounter someone who just blasts me with a bunch of questions, I throw them in the “socially inept”, box, and further avoid them.

 

For me, the type of person who asks a bunch of intrusive questions seems inauthentic, and almost creepy. It’s like they’re trying to “figure you out”, evaluate you, and determine how they should judge you or utilize you...

 

The moment I get the battery of “what do you do?”, “where do you live?” type of questions (before even completing a proper introduction) , I’m immediately turned off....

”Socially inept” sums it up!

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I understand what all of you is saying but my provider when we first met was an open book and he was the one that was asking me personal questions first and I was even surprised he did and even told me his name without me asking and it was a chill experience. Talking, getting know each other and also have a relaxed fun . If he wasn't open I would never asked . That's why I asked if one day in the future I could ask the question since if we continue to meet .

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I find the best small talk breaks the ice. Being too inquisitive builds mistrust.

 

I don’t care for escorts that ask too many personal questions, so I try not to be too inquisitive myself. I think it is better to talk about the weather, the town or other simple conversations.

 

Are you going to have a better time because you know their full history, or are going to have a better time if everyone is nice and relaxed?

I’m going to have a better time if they fuck me hard!

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This ? and the good ones also are horny dogs who love the thrill and convenience of making more money in a few hours than their regular jobs.

I've asked and they have replied, without being offended as others have suggested here.

A good escort is approachable as they don't want to project an image that they are arrogant or think too highly of themselves.

They don't make any DRAMA nor they make you feel like their privacy has been invaded. They can just make up an answer, period.

They want you to feel comfortable and come back, and won't make you feel "socially inept", even if you are, nor put you in any boxes.

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IMO, clients that I connect with the easiest/quickest (and vv) are the ones who are like me; free spirited, looking for a fun experience and don't need to spell out the why's to have fun. Sure, the monetary compensation for my time is also a nice thing, but it seems to work itself out once a connection/plans are made. So I guess, if a client is asking why, it's because they may not know enough about you and your personality. But those newer clients who may ask questions, I personally wouldn't dismiss them.

Inversely, if there are questions revolving around my personal life that I don't openly make available and these questions are asked repeatedly, I'll let the client know that I don't share those things.

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