Completely out there profile - mintboys

[+ Reisr30]

“Looking for couples groups or anyone interested in taboo family fun bestiality or has fetishes they wouldn't tell anyone I promise I'm have the sickest fantasies. Ur get ur money worth”

 

Is it me or is this not a completely insane profile?

[rvwnsd]

I agree with you. I'd also report the ad to Mintboys using the "Report a Problem With This Escort" link. Cruelty to animals is illegal in most jurisdictions. The escort could be using this profile as a means to blackmail people. Yes, I agree it sounds like a stretch, but so did the little episode between the brother of a former Treasury secretary and a certain escort whose initials are the same as the abbreviation for bullshit.

Edited October 21, 2020 by rvwnsd

[+ MysticMenace]

Interestingly enough, I got to chat with this no-profile pic guy on Grindr and mentioned he was into family fun (has had fun with his biological mom and older brother for years, separately and the three of them together) and K9 sex as a bottom. I had no idea how the latter worked (or even what K9 meant) so I looked it up and was, uhmmm, actually I did not or do not know what to think or feel about it yet. As the dogs were doing the topping it did not appear that they were treated cruelly. And who knows, maybe that guy on Grindr might just be outright lying, but it gave me pause and thought that there could be people out there that are really into these things. So the question if the profile is completely insane? It definitely is to me and potentially to a lot more people, but to each its own, and there are probably certain individuals or groups that are or could get into this stuff.

[tenderloin]

"I did not or do not know what to think or feel about it yet"

 

I don't like it when folks get judgmental on this site, and have pretty wide-ranging tastes myself that some others might find off-putting. But here I gotta draw the line: Bestiality is right alongside incest and pedophelia. An inclination toward any of them indicates a need for significant psych help. The only way to "feel about it" is "NO"

[gallahadesquire]

De gustibus non disputandum est. But: agreed. The are limits. There are things up with which I shall not put.

[+ MysticMenace]

"I did not or do not know what to think or feel about it yet"

 

I don't like it when folks get judgmental on this site, and have pretty wide-ranging tastes myself that some others might find off-putting. But here I gotta draw the line: Bestiality is right alongside incest and pedophelia. An inclination toward any of them indicates a need for significant psych help. The only way to "feel about it" is "NO"

 

Personally, I agree. My moral convictions dictate that the activities this provider were suggesting, to me, are not right and even illegal in some or most areas. While I and probably a lot of us share this conviction, my hesitance was not directed at this one provider, the Grindr chat, or my own convictions. What I do not know about yet are (a) how certain individuals develop their morality to warrant acceptance or inclination to activities a lot of people consider taboo and illegal and (b) if there are societal constructs right now or back then that would affirm and embrace such moral choices and how certain groups did or could unite on those ethics.

[+ sync]

The intimacies with the biological mother and sibling suggest contributing generational child abuse and environmental factors. I don't have the credentials to render the judgement of insanity, but I'm certain the situation is in dire need of attention from competent mental hygiene specialist. The content of the profile really saddens me.

[maninsoma]

I hired a guy once who apparently had serious incest fantasies, though they weren't mentioned in his ad. In person, however, once we got going he started talking about daddy/son stuff in explicit detail. I told him to stop because the more he got into it the less turned on I was.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I think the real discussion here is sexual fantasy v reality.

 

Do you judge people's fantasies if they don't actually follow through on them in reality?

 

Where's the line?

[+ MysticMenace]

I think the real discussion here is sexual fantasy v reality.

 

Do you judge people's fantasies if they don't actually follow through on them in reality?

 

Where's the line?

 

Based on the quote that @@Reisr30 included, it does appear that the provider is looking for individuals to follow through on those activities or on fantasies he is soliciting the clients to provide. Unless the quote was perhaps contextualized in a role-play setting.

[tenderloin]

I think the real discussion here is sexual fantasy v reality.

 

Do you judge people's fantasies if they don't actually follow through on them in reality?

 

Where's the line?

I am not interested in policing peoples' fantasies. But JoeMendoza wrote above: "has had fun with his biological mom and older brother for years, separately and the three of them together and K9 sex as a bottom. " That seems somewhat unambiguous to me.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Unless the quote was perhaps contextualized in a role-play setting.

 

And therein lies the rub... We don't know for sure.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I am not interested in policing peoples' fantasies. But JoeMendoza wrote above: "has had fun with his biological mom and older brother for years, separately and the three of them together and K9 sex as a bottom. " That seems somewhat unambiguous to me.

 

I was more referring to the OP, but agree with your comment on the follow-up.

[+ Reisr30]

I was more referring to the OP, but agree with your comment on the follow-up.

The word insane I agree is probably coming off as judgmental. The more appropriate word and what I should have used was “unacceptable”.

Edited October 21, 2020 by Reisr30

[+ Reisr30]

I agree with you. I'd also report the ad to Mintboys using the "Report a Problem With This Escort" link. Cruelty to animals is illegal in most jurisdictions. The escort could be using this profile as a means to blackmail people. Yes, I agree it sounds like a stretch, but so did the little episode between the brother of a former Treasury secretary and a certain escort whose initials are the same as the abbreviation for bullshit.

 

I did consider the report link but it requests name and email address and I don’t feel comfortable submitting my personal info to MB.

[guru68]

I'm surprised such a profile would stay up for any length of time. That said, I don't really know anything about how Mintboy polices (or doesn't) their site.

[tenderloin]

....What I do not know about yet are (a) how certain individuals develop their morality to warrant acceptance or inclination to activities a lot of people consider taboo and illegal and (b) if there are societal constructs right now or back then that would affirm and embrace such moral choices and how certain groups did or could unite on those ethics.

 

I am not particularly deep when it comes to philosophy, but I think that, "ick factor" aside, most societies have united around the concept of "consent" with regard to sex. That is, neither a child nor an animal is capable of giving meaningful consent to their engaging in sexual activities. Some make the mistake of blurring the appearance of enjoyment or pleasure with "consent." When I was young I discovered the pleasures of onanism, but I was still incapable of consenting to a relationship with an adult.

 

I am aware that this string is probably veering close to the lines of acceptable discussion, so I will leave it there.

[+ Reisr30]

I regret having started this thread and did not mean it to veer into unacceptable territory.

 

Perhaps @Guy Fawkes or one of the administrators can delete or lock it.