Where To Find Providers

[Imathrill]

I’ve noticed that a lot of guys here mention their providers don’t advertise. How did you find them? I’d like to find a provider that has a smaller circle of clients.

[big-n-tall]

I’ve noticed that a lot of guys here mention their providers don’t advertise. How did you find them? I’d like to find a provider that has a smaller circle of clients.

 

Some meet through other avenues like seekingarrangements.com (there is a multi-page thread about it), Instagram (and other similar social media sites), references from other escorts, and sometimes the escort did advertise at one point and either retired from escorting full-time or only needs to advertise sporadically or at all.

 

I'm sure there is a multitude of ways I'm leaving out.

 

In my case, I met a guy through pornhub (although he did advertise at one point). Although we haven't done anything physically, I have met in person and carry on a friendship with a few webcam performers. A few guys I met, off of RB, RM, and other escort sites, who no longer advertise (because they retired and generally stopped escorting) but I still see sexually or purely platonically.

Edited October 12, 2020 by big-n-tall

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

There's also always libraries and churches

[+ azdr0710]

Make sure your doctor is "in network". Some providers won't accept your insurance

[KrisParr]

A few years ago, I was in a chat room (which I hadn’t done in years) and met a guy. After some private chat, it turned out that he had a “stable” of college-age athletes who were gay-for-pay if I had any interest. Did I ever! It took quite a while to get through all the hoops of setting up the first date, but was well worth it. The first “jock” was experienced but had limitations - he was open to accepting oral and that was it. The second hottie was more inclined to versatility shall we say, but shy. The third, and final date, was by far the best - fantasy come true - the dude was model quality and very skilled. Found out later that he had made a couple of soft-porn videos. Alas, I moved away and within a year or so, the “stable” entrepreneur vanished. Great memories. I’m sure there are others out there, it’s just a matter of finding them.

[xyz48B]

I still to have luck contacting guys on IG let alone asking if they’re providers...That is a skill that no one here has adequately laid out for my understanding. Some of you must just be lucky! ?

[orville]

I still to have luck contacting guys on IG let alone asking if they’re providers...That is a skill that no one here has adequately laid out for my understanding. Some of you must just be lucky! ?

I will never approach anyone on IG who is not on RM because I won't be overcharged out of looks for an unknown performance.

But if I did, I would have at least 5 suggesting pics and hashtags on my IG profile before sending a message.

Pics and hashtags that would send the message of who you are and that you are interested in hiring a young man.

I remember a friend who'd blatantly post photos of his car, boat, expensive watches, etc along with #sugar, #daddy, or #sugardaddy.

Some IG muscle guys here in Toronto have on their IG some pics at the gym, and other pics in DIFFERENT living rooms, and no gf pics.

To me, that's a clear sign that one can message and eventually ask for something specific, but one must be prepared to be overcharged because they are "instafamous", and without a guarantee about what you'll get as performance because after all, they are "straight" or "influencers", and "not an escort". That's the advantage one gets with RM where there are at least some ratings based on the performance of the provider with other clients.

Edited October 13, 2020 by orville

[xyz48B]

All those damn hashtags... ?