How Often Do You See Your Regulars?

[The Dude]

Do you see him once a week? Once a month? Just curious how long you go before hiring your favorite.

[Gymowner]

A true regular... once a week. Sometimes twice a week. It's usually someone that's under the radar. Most are not posted on the websites.

[DMICS]

My new and first true regular I see bi-weekly.

[Studsearcher]

It has varied but on average every two weeks. It’s enough time that I don’t get bored with them and still look forward to each meeting.

[StefonNYC]

It's pretty sporadic tbh. I haven't seen him in a bit, but we regularly message each other all the time.

[big-n-tall]

The guy I see the most, when he lived in my area 1 to 2 times a month, but it’s been for overnights or extended excursions (2 or more days). When he moved a way, probably sporadically but always an overnight or multi-day hires.

 

For years, visiting regulars I would see them about 3 times a year on average, but that has dramatically decreased even before the pandemic.

[xyz48B]

I say “regular,” when what I should probably say is “go-to.” I see my go-to a few times a year, although there’s nothing regular or periodic about when.

[+ Pensant]

One fairly regularly for weekends since December 2016; but sadly not since January of this year. He’s finishing up college in SoCal, so hopefully after he graduates. Another I see monthly. He just flew out for a few days and started out by buying me brunch in Seattle on the way to my place from the airport. Haven’t been interested in new providers since the pandemic. Neither advertises. There are a few promising ones on the list for later, though.

[KrisParr]

Pre-COVID, every 3 weeks or so. But it’s been a long, long dry spell.

[StefonNYC]

My guy didn't see anyone but me at the moment. Just because of the pandemic.

[queensboroboy]

I think I am getting bored of mine. Feels like we have a routine. How do you spice it up?

[KrisParr]

I think I am getting bored of mine. Feels like we have a routine. How do you spice it up?

My grandpa once said, “wives and mattresses are the same - when you get tired of one side, just flip ‘em over”. Oh grandpa, if you’d only lived long enough for me to come out.

[liubit]

Once a week at least, and I sometimes repeated the same guy. I also used to alternate one, two, or even three regulars during the week. Yes, I am (was) a slut, I know. ???‍♂️

[Luv2play]

My grandpa once said, “wives and mattresses are the same - when you get tired of one side, just flip ‘em over”. Oh grandpa, if you’d only lived long enough for me to come out.

Reminds me of the old joke Bette Miller would tell. Husband to wife: You’ve got a flat chest and a tight hole. Wife to husband: Get off my back!

[Luv2play]

I think I am getting bored of mine. Feels like we have a routine. How do you spice it up?

By communicating.

[+ WestGuy]

I think I am getting bored of mine. Feels like we have a routine. How do you spice it up?

By communicating.

 

I am pretty fortunate in that I have not gotten bored with my regular even though our sessions are for the most part the same every time. If I wanted to spice it up I would throw out some ideas or ask him to come up with something. But I think both of us are kind of satisfied with our “routine.”

[StefonNYC]

I think I am getting bored of mine. Feels like we have a routine. How do you spice it up?

It's all about the communication. My guy and I talk regularly about whatever, whenever. There are times when we are together that we just talk about TV and movies, or more personal information that I will not divulge into here. The sparks just fine naturally that way.

[Luv2play]

I am pretty fortunate in that I have not gotten bored with my regular even though our sessions are for the most part the same every time. If I wanted to spice it up I would throw out some ideas or ask him to come up with something. But I think both of us are kind of satisfied with our “routine.”

I have one regular with whom that is the case. Each time has been more or less the same and each time he blows my socks off. With another regular, we have travelled a journey and each time there has been a new element to spice things up. We do talk about what our interests are and he responds to my fantasies beautifully. Count me a happy boy For having these two guys.

[myophile]

I see my guy every two weeks, but pre-COVID would usually check out a new hire on my off weeks. My regular and I paused for a couple months after COVID hit, but continued to text each other a few times a week. When we got back together again for the first time in early May it was epic — not only had I never had sex like that before with him, I’d never had sex like that before with ANYBODY. And it has continued to be awesome. I’m uncomfortable these days hooking up with guys I don’t know well, and his out-of-town clientele has largely disappeared; consequently neither of us is getting as much action as in in the Before Time, so when we meet up these days both of us are focused, horny, and rarin’ to go.

Edited October 12, 2020 by myophile

[orville]

My regular is taking time off for himself and also because of COVID ? but we'd normally see each other several times over a year, every 1 or 2 months.

[BaronArtz]

I have a regular masseur - once a month. Then there are 2 escorts that I see - twice a month. I check out the talent on RM NYC regularly, but it is rare that I hire someone new. If I do, it typically is a visitor who is spectacular on all levels.

 

COVID has changed all that.

[Gymowner]

i am totally with you on that Baron

[+ keroscenefire]

Pretty sporadic. The regular I see the most often actually comes down to Denver about 7-8 times a year and I try to see him every time if I can (though I usually miss him a couple times). We usually make it a little more fun by doing dinner or seeing some life theater, though of course that hasn't happened the last few times because of COVID.

 

Otherwise I basically consider a "regular" to be anyone who I see more than once a year. In that case, I see maybe 4-5 guys more than once a year and it's usually only 2-3 times a year.

[LivingnLA]

I haven't hired since December. I had a few plans for weekends this year but all have been cancelled. Instead, I've invested the money and done very well in the market which hopefully means some fun in a year or two when life is approaching our new normal.

Edited October 13, 2020 by LivingnLA

[Emir]

I used to see my ex-regular once a week. Then he scammed me and dumped me.

 

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