When You're Judged for Being an Escort ... ?

[orville]

 

Question for Escorts:

When you HAD TO disclose, or it was accidentally discovered, that you are an escort and they started giving you the lecture in morals...

What's been your best answer?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I wouldn't answer. I'd just walk away.

 

I don't have the time to listen to lecturing and posturing from foolish people.

[thedanNYC]

I'm not an escort, but I would hope the answer is along the lines of:

 

[loremipsum]

“Why would you do that? You actually have a mind! I’m not judging you, but...” (proceeds to speak quite judgmentally)

[asianmusclebttm]

@thedanNYC too funny ?

 

I’m a loud and proud XXXXX so I haven’t encountered anything like that. If I did... I don’t live in a small enough town for that!

 

We don't use that word on the message-forum.

Edited October 8, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

I'm not an escort, but I would hope the answer is along the lines of:

 

 

There's truly a NeNe Leakes GIF for every occasion

[+ sync]

I'm not a provider, but for the "moralists:"

 

Matt. 7. [1] Judge not, that ye be not judged. [2] For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

I wouldn't answer. I'd just walk away.

 

I don't have the time to listen to lecturing and posturing from foolish people.

 

same here. I used to sit around and argue and explain and let them know I was fine. But now I’m quick to just say, let’s just end it here... And if I’m entertaining him as a guest:

 

Edited October 8, 2020 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Daverwr]

Same with being a client. I have occasionally been called out for my use. I usually ignore it.

[+ StLouisOct]

If an escort is inclined to discuss it, I hope all would remember to emphasize that their services (both physical and therapeutic) are really appreciated by, and helpful to, a great many people.

[marylander1940]

 

Question for Escorts:

 

When you HAD TO disclose, or it was accidentally discovered, that you are an escort and they started giving you the lecture in morals...

 

What's been your best answer?

 

maybe they are just envyous because they don't have the looks to get paid.

Edited October 8, 2020 by marylander1940

[Jarrod_Uncut]

maybe they are just envyous because they don't have the looks to get paid.

 

You’d be surprised. Some of the more judgmental guys I’ve met, were rather attractive types.

[CuriousByNature]

I'm not a provider, but for the "moralists:"

 

Matt. 7. [1] Judge not, that ye be not judged. [2] For with what judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged: and with what measure ye mete, it shall be measured to you again.

This.

 

And I also like the verse telling us to take the plank from our own eye before pointing out the tiny speck in someone else's.

[+ Pensant]

Among younger escorts who I know, it‘s no big deal. Absolutely no big deal.

[Kevin Slater]

Among younger escorts who I know, it‘s no big deal. Absolutely no big deal.

 

Us old fucks, however...

 

Kevin Slater

[Bargara Leatherboy]

We are all judged, by others every day. It might be our gender, our sexual preference, our race, our politics, our religious views, or it could be our looks, our fashion choices, our food choices etc.

 

i judge others by how they treat me. I treat everyone I meet as worthy until they prove otherwise

[Jarrod_Uncut]

Among younger escorts who I know, it‘s no big deal. Absolutely no big deal.

 

yeah I think the most judgmental ness comes from the attractive business age/career types in early-mid 30s (like me) It’s almost like guys of this age seem like, once you get to a certain age/point, you’re supposed to have your shit together and “be career minded”, not out “turning tricks”.

 

lately I’ve not come across it much because I have started to be open to friendships with clients more so than the routine scene queens. But, I know the best way to avoid the conversation is to always pretend everything is perfect, thus avoiding any, “maybe it’s time to...”

 

But at the end of the day, I think it also goes to show that there’s people who judge us (escorts) and them (clients) for the same reasons. Why judge each other.

Edited October 9, 2020 by Jarrod_Uncut

[Walker1]

Judgement is part of life. I have been judged on how I had kids, depriving them of a mother blah, blah, blah. Life is full of judgements. I have learnt to let it roll of my back-unless you can go to jail or be seriously impacted financially, loss of job etc-why bother even responding. Shoo go away a little pest is what I am thinking while I smile and move on. Not worth to even give those types even a little of your energy and thoughts. Why even engage and be bothered by such types-if they don't get a reaction they go on to their NeXT target.

[Monarchy79]

I once had a coworker, who found out that a new hire who joined the organization, had a past in porn.

He was shocked, as if to “clutch his pearls.”

 

When I reminded him that he has probably spent more time on his hands and knees (with his pants down to his ankles, in THIS OFFICE BUILDING), than the former porn actor has probably spent on film, he quickly adjusted his “judgments”.

 

I told him this: “If you mention this guy’s past career to anyone, I’ll mention your past indiscretions, which involved sexual activities with your subordinates AND contractors.”

 

Beware of those who are extremely judgmental and present a “high”’moral compass. Those are the ones with the most skeletons in their closets.

[marylander1940]

I once had a coworker, who found out that a new hire who joined the organization, had a past in porn.

He was shocked, as if to “clutch his pearls.”

 

When I reminded him that he has probably spent more time on his hands and knees (with his pants down to his ankles, in THIS OFFICE BUILDING), than the former porn actor has probably spent on film, he quickly adjusted his “judgments”.

 

I told him this: “If you mention this guy’s past career to anyone, I’ll mention your past indiscretions, which involved sexual activities with your subordinates AND contractors.”

 

Beware of those who are extremely judgmental and present a “high”’moral compass. Those are the ones with the most skeletons in their closets.

 

That's how to deal with hypocrites including Sen. Graham!

 

Admin Warning: No politics in this Forum.

Edited October 14, 2020 by Cooper

[Monarchy79]

The same “associate”, of mine used to workout together at a very “gay”, gym.

 

One of the guys who would take this indoor cycling class every week, was very friendly, but my friend found out he was an escort.

 

When he showed me the guy’s Rentmen profile, as if to judge him...

 

I explained to him that he probably does more in the gym steam-room FOR FREE, than the escort gets paid TOP DOLLAR to do...

 

He never mentioned that escort again.

[orville]

I explained to him that he probably does more in the gym steam-room FOR FREE, than the escort gets paid TOP DOLLAR to do...

You are probably right. I suppose hidden part of the judgment is that providers CAN get it hard at will, or at the sight of dollars.

And they also get paid for doing things that others can't, or just do for free after looking for a lot. Providers are "looked for".

[desertguy1954]

First of all how did they find out the person was an escort? There should be no reason why a person has to defend what they do. I wold hope that the escort would just give that look of its really none of your fucking business and walk away

[+ Pensant]

That's how to deal with hypocrites including Sen. Graham!

Hopefully Lady G will be dealt with on November 3, when SC will have two African-American US Senators!

 

Admin Warning: No politics in this Forum.

Edited October 14, 2020 by Cooper

[Monarchy79]

Same with being a client. I have occasionally been called out for my use. I usually ignore it.

Really?

I find it ironic how a guy can judge you for hiring, when there are so many guys out here, in “relationships”, having guys basically living off of them, and aren’t even getting sex!!!