Do Escorts Hire Other Escorts?

[Imathrill]

I’m very curious to hear from the the escorts on here...

[big-n-tall]

I’m very curious to hear from the the escorts on here...

 

Short answer is yes.

 

This exact topic was brought up last year and I’m sure previous years if you do a search,

Here is the link to last year’s discussion... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/do-escorts-hire-other-escorts.149706/#post-1735653

[Jarrod_Uncut]

The new trend lately: we can be open to meet other escorts for content creating for private video sites.

 

I haven’t hired before, because one I don’t have the discretionary income (imagine that I pay my ideal escort $300, then have an emergency I hadn’t saved for, 2 weeks later) But I’m also just a naturally do it myself kinda person. I detail my car, carry my own bags up, and I usually prefer getting to know someone instead of hookups in my personal lifestyle.

[xyz48B]

The new trend lately: we can be open to meet other escorts for content creating for private video sites.

 

I haven’t hired before, because one I don’t have the discretionary income (imagine that I pay my ideal escort $300, then have an emergency I hadn’t saved for, 2 weeks later) But I’m also just a naturally do it myself kinda person. I detail my car, carry my own bags up, and I usually prefer getting to know someone instead of hookups in my personal lifestyle.

Tell me. How do you live with the bifurcated personality who is you? On one hand, you expect clients to pony up with cash – a deposit having not even seen you – and if something – like an “emergency,” as you say – would mean they need to pay you a cancellation fee. Your hypocrisy is showing. You are oh-so poor, yet demand from someone else to be treated like a king. At least, that’s how your posts here read. I’m guessing, also, that carrying your own bags up is something that a lot of escorts and clients do for themselves. That trivializes the whole thing much like you *think* comparing escorting to, say, plumbing. It must be complicated being you keeping track of your multiple expectations…Perhaps if your expectations for clients and for yourself were more closely aligned, you wouldn’t have the issues with clients you do.

Edited October 9, 2020 by xyz48B

[Jarrod_Uncut]

Tell me. How do you live with the bifurcated personality who is you? On one hand, you expect clients to pony up with cash – a deposit having not even seen you – and if something – like an “emergency,” as you say – would mean they need to pay you a cancellation fee. Your hypocrisy is showing. You are oh-so poor, yet demand from someone else to be treated like a king. At least, that’s how your posts here read. I’m guessing, also, that carrying your own bags up is something that a lot of escorts and clients do for themselves. That trivializes the whole thing much like you *think* comparing escorting to, say, plumbing. It must be complicated being you keeping track of your multiple expectations…Perhaps if your expectations for clients and for yourself were more closely aligned, you wouldn’t have the issues with clients you do.

 

Oh Gawd, here you go again starting shit you were not invited to reply to ??‍♂️

 

For your information, I absolutely have no reason to be contradictory. I don’t hire other escorts. That’s what I said. What you’re talking about assumes I am actually contacting and suggesting plans with escorts (like some flake clients do), versus me just flat out saying without shame: I know I don’t have the discretionary funds to hire an escort, nor do I wish to imagine I do. Therefore you would never catch me going around making calls to do so. Unless it was for the mutual purpose of creating content which could help either earn additional funding/clients. Which is a new way working guys are connecting...versus just trying to get a free session off of someone just because “we’re both plumbers, so we should work each other’s pipes and plumbing”.

 

That’s a lot different than a client flaking out and having an emergency for a planned, paid arrangement, not reimbursing for hotel or travel cost or lost earnings, and then having it be a recurring event. Especially when they contacted me and initiated the encounter to begin with. Get your shit straight ✋?

Edited October 8, 2020 by Jarrod_Uncut

[xyz48B]

here you go again starting shit you were not invited to reply to

I have an open invitation to reply to anything in this forum. ??

[xyz48B]

versus just trying to get a free session off of someone just because “we’re both plumbers, so we should work each other’s pipes and plumbing”

You’re projecting. You’re assigning value to their motives without actually knowing. Get your shit straight. ??

[xyz48B]

That’s a lot different than a client flaking out and having an emergency for a planned, paid arrangement

And how do you determine that? How do you decide if you’re dropping your beloved cancellation fee?

[MikeBiDude]

Oh Gawd, here you go again starting shit you were not invited to reply to ??‍♂️

Since when do we need an “invitation” to reply to posts?

[former lurker]

Since when do we need an “invitation” to reply to posts?

 

You're right, of course.

 

But in reading back through the thread I'm struck by how differently I think than either of the posters involved in this spat. Both seem to be instinctively suspicious of their counterparts (the client is suspicious of escorts' motives, the escort of clients' motives). I see the competing views as an opportunity to gain some insight into the way others think, even if the particular posters seem not so interested in that but in taking a side and defending it.

[xyz48B]

@former lurker – I’m going to assume I’m one of the “posters involved in this spat” you’re talking about. Let me patently clear: my suspicion isn’t with *escorts* across the board. Most of my interactions have been nothing but positive. But as the saying goes, “One rotten apple spoils the bunch.”

 

As for the other poster “involved in this spat” – I have consistently pointed out his hypocrisy as far as provider expectations vs. client expectations. The whole notion of Jarrod’s comment complaining about my comment, saying I don’t have an “invitation,” while he waxes ad nauseam about his own woe, is the very nature of the hypocrisy I despise.

[Kris Parkes]

absolutely!!

[sincitymix]

After reading Jarrods post, I think you misunderstood what he was saying.. he wasn’t saying he would cancel on an escort if an emergency came up.. but rather he Is supposing what if he paid his ideal escort 300 and then had an emergency come up.. but then he wouldn’t have the money to pay for the emergency because he spent it on the escort.

 

Which is why he said in the beginning that he doesn’t hire and here is his reasoning.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

After reading Jarrods post, I think you misunderstood what he was saying.. he wasn’t saying he would cancel on an escort if an emergency came up.. but rather he Is supposing what if he paid his ideal escort 300 and then had an emergency come up.. but then he wouldn’t have the money to pay for the emergency because he spent it on the escort.

 

Which is why he said in the beginning that he doesn’t hire and here is his reasoning.

 

THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING AND CLARIFYING!!!

 

I just walked away from this thread because an innocent comment was misconstrued and taken FAR out of context. But, I can’t help myself to peek sometimes to see where it ended up.

 

That’s exactly what I meant. If someone is going to ask, “if escorts hire other escorts”, be prepared to hear the answer. I don't hire other escorts because my income as an escort is not comparable to that of a client. And I’m talking $250/hr guys. Not $40 guys looking for dope. No diss or offense (and my 1st and only time paying for it was unintendedly with my X boyfriend 15 years ago, for $40 for dope ? I knew he needed it to make him “horny”) but just speaking as it pertains to this discussion. Many clients I have known over the years, get hotels paid for, food stipends, and salaries. We on the other hand, have to pay to work: hotels, ads, grooming, transportation etc.

 

I would even burst the bubble and say, most escorts likely don’t hire other escorts because they can’t afford it. If you’re having s*x for money, you’re probably not trying to pay for it in exchange. If an escort can hire another escort, more power to them. But that’s not the majority. And my experience is, most escorts who have contacted me... even ones doing better than me financially, offered to meet WITHOUT PAY. And unless it’s an offer to make a just for fans video, I usually don’t accept because...they don’t offer anything of value (support, networking, dinner, etc), they just want a freebie.

 

And to get even deeper: people need to understand clients and escorts are 2 different breeds. Even though we transact with one another intimately, the goals are not the same. That’s what I been learning as I’ve developed closer relationships with clients. Some of them see sex as a prize or a treat for themselves. I see sex as either something I can support myself off of, or something I do when I’m wanting to take it to the next level with someone, or can relate to outside of the bedroom. Outside of escorting, if I can’t relate to someone outside of the bedroom, or they don’t have any interest to meet outside of the bedroom, they’ll likely just be a 1 time thing...if we ever even get to the first time. That’s why I don’t really seek out hookups either.

 

Because the agendas are so different, me paying a guy is not conducive to what I’m looking for. I’m not making money fucking him, and he’s not going to be my boyfriend by me paying him. Therefore, there’s no need for me to spend my money on the encounter. Point blank, period.

 

There’s a (Rather cute) guy now who started as a client, but we been “seeing” each other. I’m close to telling him, I don’t see a point in us fucking anymore. It’s feeling like we’re just fucking, just to fuck. He’s not helping me with my video platforms, he’s not paying me...at this point I feel like there’s not much point in us having sex anymore. I’m not some insatiably horny guy who NEEDS a designated sex partner. I recently went 2 weeks without sex or jerking off, and was okay with it. I wasn’t going to give it up for free or find someone to pay, to satisfy my urge. I just waited my turn for someone who could buy.

[jeezifonly]

THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING AND CLARIFYING!!!

 

I just walked away from this thread because an innocent comment was misconstrued and taken FAR out of context. But, I can’t help myself to peek sometimes to see where it ended up.

 

That’s exactly what I meant. If someone is going to ask, “if escorts hire other escorts”, be prepared to hear the answer. I don't hire other escorts because my income as an escort is not comparable to that of a client. And I’m talking $250/hr guys. Not $40 guys looking for dope. No diss or offense (and my 1st and only time paying for it was unintendedly with my X boyfriend 15 years ago, for $40 for dope ? I knew he needed it to make him “horny”) but just speaking as it pertains to this discussion. Many clients I have known over the years, get hotels paid for, food stipends, and salaries. We on the other hand, have to pay to work: hotels, ads, grooming, transportation etc.

 

I would even burst the bubble and say, most escorts likely don’t hire other escorts because they can’t afford it. If you’re having s*x for money, you’re probably not trying to pay for it in exchange. If an escort can hire another escort, more power to them. But that’s not the majority. And my experience is, most escorts who have contacted me... even ones doing better than me financially, offered to meet WITHOUT PAY. And unless it’s an offer to make a just for fans video, I usually don’t accept because...they don’t offer anything of value (support, networking, dinner, etc), they just want a freebie.

 

And to get even deeper: people need to understand clients and escorts are 2 different breeds. Even though we transact with one another intimately, the goals are not the same. That’s what I been learning as I’ve developed closer relationships with clients. Some of them see sex as a prize or a treat for themselves. I see sex as either something I can support myself off of, or something I do when I’m wanting to take it to the next level with someone, or can relate to outside of the bedroom. Outside of escorting, if I can’t relate to someone outside of the bedroom, or they don’t have any interest to meet outside of the bedroom, they’ll likely just be a 1 time thing...if we ever even get to the first time. That’s why I don’t really seek out hookups either.

 

Because the agendas are so different, me paying a guy is not conducive to what I’m looking for. I’m not making money fucking him, and he’s not going to be my boyfriend by me paying him. Therefore, there’s no need for me to spend my money on the encounter. Point blank, period.

 

There’s a (Rather cute) guy now who started as a client, but we been “seeing” each other. I’m close to telling him, I don’t see a point in us fucking anymore. It’s feeling like we’re just fucking, just to fuck. He’s not helping me with my video platforms, he’s not paying me...at this point I feel like there’s not much point in us having sex anymore. I’m not some insatiably horny guy who NEEDS a designated sex partner. I recently went 2 weeks without sex or jerking off, and was okay with it. I wasn’t going to give it up for free or find someone to pay, to satisfy my urge. I just waited my turn for someone who could buy.

Mazel tov @Jarrod_Uncut ! Such happiness, you may have found Mr Right!

[PetetKsfo]

Yes - more so masseurs, but escorts too.

 

For two reasons:

* sometimes I just want to be the one to be on the table and relax and have someone take care of me

* I also want to see what other guys are doing and get new ideas for techniques.

 

Sometimes I'll tell the provider that I also am a masseur but sometimes I don't.

Edited December 6, 2020 by PeterMxM

[endorphinfun]

One of my fave 'scorts of all time told me he spent most of the money he made 'scorting on parties where he'd hire the biggest, thickest-cocked escorts in the city to run train on him, rough as they could with no safeword. (As I recall all his normal living expenses were covered by his quite wealthy family; he was also going to college at the time.) This could of course just be some hot-ass BS he told clients, but I did get to know him somewhat over time, pretty sure he wasn't lying. Interestingly, as a hired escort, he only topped. His opinion was it was far less stressful and more time-efficient to 'scort and then pay 'scorts than to deal with finding hookups, with the attendant drama, flakiness and people who lie about their cock size.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

One of my fave 'scorts of all time told me he spent most of the money he made 'scorting on parties where he'd hire the biggest, thickest-cocked escorts in the city to run train on him, rough as they could with no safeword. (As I recall all his normal living expenses were covered by his quite wealthy family; he was also going to college at the time.) This could of course just be some hot-ass BS he told clients, but I did get to know him somewhat over time, pretty sure he wasn't lying. Interestingly, as a hired escort, he only topped. His opinion was it was far less stressful and more time-efficient to 'scort and then pay 'scorts than to deal with finding hookups, with the attendant drama, flakiness and people who lie about their cock size.

 

This sounds like something you'd spin to a client in the heat of the moment to get him to blow a load.

[Luv2play]

THANK YOU FOR UNDERSTANDING AND CLARIFYING!!!

 

I just walked away from this thread because an innocent comment was misconstrued and taken FAR out of context. But, I can’t help myself to peek sometimes to see where it ended up.

 

That’s exactly what I meant. If someone is going to ask, “if escorts hire other escorts”, be prepared to hear the answer. I don't hire other escorts because my income as an escort is not comparable to that of a client. And I’m talking $250/hr guys. Not $40 guys looking for dope. No diss or offense (and my 1st and only time paying for it was unintendedly with my X boyfriend 15 years ago, for $40 for dope ? I knew he needed it to make him “horny”) but just speaking as it pertains to this discussion. Many clients I have known over the years, get hotels paid for, food stipends, and salaries. We on the other hand, have to pay to work: hotels, ads, grooming, transportation etc.

 

I would even burst the bubble and say, most escorts likely don’t hire other escorts because they can’t afford it. If you’re having s*x for money, you’re probably not trying to pay for it in exchange. If an escort can hire another escort, more power to them. But that’s not the majority. And my experience is, most escorts who have contacted me... even ones doing better than me financially, offered to meet WITHOUT PAY. And unless it’s an offer to make a just for fans video, I usually don’t accept because...they don’t offer anything of value (support, networking, dinner, etc), they just want a freebie.

 

And to get even deeper: people need to understand clients and escorts are 2 different breeds. Even though we transact with one another intimately, the goals are not the same. That’s what I been learning as I’ve developed closer relationships with clients. Some of them see sex as a prize or a treat for themselves. I see sex as either something I can support myself off of, or something I do when I’m wanting to take it to the next level with someone, or can relate to outside of the bedroom. Outside of escorting, if I can’t relate to someone outside of the bedroom, or they don’t have any interest to meet outside of the bedroom, they’ll likely just be a 1 time thing...if we ever even get to the first time. That’s why I don’t really seek out hookups either.

 

Because the agendas are so different, me paying a guy is not conducive to what I’m looking for. I’m not making money fucking him, and he’s not going to be my boyfriend by me paying him. Therefore, there’s no need for me to spend my money on the encounter. Point blank, period.

 

There’s a (Rather cute) guy now who started as a client, but we been “seeing” each other. I’m close to telling him, I don’t see a point in us fucking anymore. It’s feeling like we’re just fucking, just to fuck. He’s not helping me with my video platforms, he’s not paying me...at this point I feel like there’s not much point in us having sex anymore. I’m not some insatiably horny guy who NEEDS a designated sex partner. I recently went 2 weeks without sex or jerking off, and was okay with it. I wasn’t going to give it up for free or find someone to pay, to satisfy my urge. I just waited my turn for someone who could buy.

Oh boy, a two week’s supply of cum. I would have enjoyed meeting you after that period.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

Oh boy, a two week’s supply of cum. I would have enjoyed meeting you after that period.

 

...but of course one need not wait that long to get some decent spunk ?

 

In other news: I recently “hired” another “provider” for a 3 way session with a client/friend of mine. However, this was done differently: we had met 1 on 1 previously without payment exchange (and it was ? lol. But we had suggested to one another the possibility of doing a 4 hands massage if a client was interested.

 

I didn’t actually pay him, but my date was open to the idea. So I was more of the “realtor” in the situation. Even though the whole thing was my idea from the start lol. I had just suggested to my friend that we add in someone else to spice up our regular encounters, which I admitted...were becoming boring. Not because the sex was boring, or that routine sex is boring...but the “freak” factor just wasn’t there.

 

It turned out to be a hot scene and we all got along, and I think the guy might of even found himself a new “massage“ client...but I’m not intimidated because our connection has been solid enough, but for me...it seems the 1 on 1 encounters with my regular have run their course, for now at least. So I’m willing to be a team player.

 

That’s why I was telling @keroscenefire, other escorts shouldn’t shy away from being proactive when it comes down to sharing or doing gigs with other providers/clients. If we all just worked together, it could help open doors in other ways. Of course, that’s fantasy but if 2 guys can click, and a client is open to experience both, why not.

[Jarrod_Uncut]

One of my fave 'scorts of all time told me he spent most of the money he made 'scorting on parties where he'd hire the biggest, thickest-cocked escorts in the city to run train on him

 

I came across an escort who sounds like that in Kansas City. But I wasn’t convinced that he was offering payment. It was more like, come and fuck him raw... with no real purpose. Then he was like extra bossy with it at that. Ushering me to come at his command. I finally told him, dude go ? yourself

 

I had to tell one of my little bottom fuck buddys today: I’m not the one to be bossed around. Better fix that quick, because that’s the quickest way to turn me off ???

[+ Charlie]

Years ago, I was friendly with an escort who admitted he had hired some of the same escorts whom I had hired, and who asked my advice about a few he was interested in hiring.

[orville]

I swear to God, this forum is sometimes so entertaining.

 

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[+ poolboy48220]

I hired a travelling guy who said he'd look at escort ads in cities he was visiting to check out the competition. He'd try to get 'free professional exchange' sessions. I don't remember if he said that worked or not :-)