Str8 men and nipples

[Guest]

So looking for some discussion around straight guys and how they feel about nipple play. I've run into several who have a huge aversion to having it done to them saying it makes them feel weird. First straight guy I played around with said it did nothing for him but he let me do it and he enjoyed doing it to me, something I've run into with a lot of gay men. But I ran into this one kid who up front told me not to go anywhere near his nipples and got angry talking about it. Just talked to a provider today and he said he'd done it once with another guy and it just made them both feel weird so he's not into it.

 

Thoughts? Is it a masculinity thing? Do they have sensations but it's new to them and they don't know how to process it?

[+ sniper]

People's idea about nipple play varies widely and there are inconsiderate assholes who bite hard because that's what they like, which then turns people off. First time someone just went for my nipple I nearly knocked his head off in response. Don't do something that's going to leave a mark without discussing it first.

[Guest]

People's idea about nipple play varies widely and there are inconsiderate assholes who bite hard because that's what they like, which then turns people off. First time someone just went for my nipple I nearly knocked his head off in response. Don't do something that's going to leave a mark without discussing it first.

 

Yeah there are guys out there who bite or who like to pull hard and twist which sucks! My nipples are wired so lots of wet tongue and sucking is great and that's all I do to other guys. But even then some get weird about it. Same thing goes for some gay guys who go to suck my nipples or lick and only do the tip or act like they're sucking out of a straw lol. Most straight guys, on the other hand, will lick the whole nipple/areola and pecs and get it all in their mouth. That feels amazing!

[Rudynate]

I have played with sort of bi guys who want nothing to do with nipple play. And I understand. I like nipple play but it has to be approached a certain way for me. I even like it kind of rough, but we have to work up to that. When a guy starts, it has to very gradual and gentle. Anything more feels like a massive intrusion and makes me angry.

[Guest]

I have played with sort of bi guys who want nothing to do with nipple play. And I understand. I like nipple play but it has to be approached a certain way for me. I even like it kind of rough, but we have to work up to that. When a guy starts, it has to very gradual and gentle. Anything more feels like a massive intrusion and makes me angry.

 

Have they ever explained what it was they didn't like? And yeah usually I like to start out gently brushing their nips while making out then kissing down and go from there. I've just always been into it and curious as to why the aversion. Even in gay porn it's rare to see and it seems to be certain performers that get into it.

[liubit]

You sound just like my kind of guy, @Woofiecmh. I get wildly turned on when my nipples are lovingly licked with a full tongue, or gently -oh, ever so gently- pinched while deep kissing. But then, disappointingly, few guys are into it: many are totally indifferent to my tongue on their nips and, when I bring up the subject, think that painfully squeezing or roughly biting mine is the way to get me started. Maybe straight guys get it better because female tits and nipples are a major sexual attraction to them, and many women are ultra responsive to nip play.

[orville]

Is it a masculinity thing? Do they have sensations but it's new to them and they don't know how to process it?

Yes, very fragile masculinity. Their defense mechanism is saying "It does nothing for me", or more stupidly "getting angry".

I still have to find a straight guy who doesn't like having his armpits profusely licked though ?

Edited October 5, 2020 by orville

[dcguy20]

I'm not sure it's a gay or straight issue. I don't like mine played with or licked. I'm gay.

[Eleven11]

I have a gay friend who loves his nipples played with. It's like they are wired directly to the pleasure centers in his brain. Mine? I am gay an I get nothing from it. Nothing really pleasurable at all...(and it's sad too given how I've seen many react to the pleasure it brings them).

[KrisParr]

I absolutely cannot stand to have mine touched. My whole life - just freaks me out - one time my doc placed his stethoscope about a half inch away and I almost lost it. Even I can’t touch them - must be some weird wiring deficiency or nerve issue. OTOH, I could suck/lick/chew on a hot guy’s for hours. I made a guy cum one time just by sucking on them. Interesting topic.

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

One of the first guys I hired said that his nips were "ultra sensitive" and he rarely lasted for a minute before shooting his load when someone did anything to his nips. So while he didn't dislike his nips being played with, he didn't like that he was done so quickly and we tended to stay away from them until just at the end.

 

Another guy simply stated they were off limits as he found most nipple play simply too painful.

[Tod Parker]

Used to be stripper. When I performed in gay clubs, guys would like to play with my nipples because my cock would get hard on in 25 seconds! I've worked with fellow bodybuilders and many couldn't get it up due to their roid use.

[Rudynate]

Have they ever explained what it was they didn't like? And yeah usually I like to start out gently brushing their nips while making out then kissing down and go from there. I've just always been into it and curious as to why the aversion. Even in gay porn it's rare to see and it seems to be certain performers that get into it.

 

 

If somebody tells me they don't like something - I accept it at face value. I wouldn't attempt to delve into it.

[Guest]

Thanks everyone for your comments and insights, it's all very interesting to me. I've been obsessed with men's torso's and nipples since I was a kid. I loved seeing guys shirtless and growing up in southern California that was a very common occurrence. My first sexual experience with a guy started out as just nipple play and we said we weren't going to do anything below the waist. Well that didn't last long, lol. I've also orgasmed just having my nipples licked and sucked on, it was pretty intense, and messy in my shorts lol.

[orville]

Thanks everyone for your comments and insights, it's all very interesting to me. I've been obsessed with men's torso's and nipples since I was a kid. I loved seeing guys shirtless and growing up in southern California that was a very common occurrence. My first sexual experience with a guy started out as just nipple play and we said we weren't going to do anything below the waist. Well that didn't last long, lol. I've also orgasmed just having my nipples licked and sucked on, it was pretty intense, and messy in my shorts lol.

What I can tell you is that the vast majority of gay men are just like us, with hard-wired nipples.

Even the "straight" men I've been with react positively to the stimulation.

But those who react negatively, or have to to say it: "it does nothing for me", or "stop it", are the insecure "straight".

I still remember one of my (real) straight lovers (married, 2 kids) would go crazy every time I jumped from his c*ck to suck his nipples, would finger me like a driller.

I honestly don't understand the gays who don't like their nipples played with. Thank God, just a statistical aberration/minority.

[+ sniper]

The issue is more that some people's idea of playing with nipples is doing to in such a way that they will be permanently altered. No thanks, I'm not into body modification.

[orville]

The issue is more that some people's idea of playing with nipples is doing to in such a way that they will be permanently altered. No thanks, I'm not into body modification.

100% agree. I'm completely against piercings and body modifications.

[Guest]

100% agree. I'm completely against piercings and body modifications.

 

nipples are best left natural. I did the piercing thing and so regretted it and I don't like playing with pierced nips. When the ex removed his they were much more fun to suck on.

[MikeBiDude]

FYI my “nips” are dead to the world, I sense near nothing sensual with them. I DO like when my partner gets excited when I stimulate their nipples.

[+ Reisr30]

I have really sensitive nipples and love them being played with gently. When I was younger I could cum hands free if a guy played with them in just the right way. I miss those days...

[+ sniper]

100% agree. I'm completely against piercings and body modifications.

I'm actually talking about people who chew and suck so hard the nipple actually gets deformed, but that too.

[+ Lucky]

Guys who don't like having their nipples played with are losing out on lots of pleasure. Same for guys not into anal sex or anal play. God gave those parts so many nerves because he wanted us to enhance our pleasure.

[marylander1940]

Guys who don't like having their nipples played with are losing out on lots of pleasure. Same for guys not into anal sex or anal play. God gave those parts so many nerves because he wanted us to enhance our pleasure.

 

Some just don't like what others do.

[orville]

people who chew and suck so hard the nipple actually gets deformed.

Ew, no.

[orville]

Some just don't like what others do.

In humans, everything comes down to the social construct, which I'm grateful for because I love total tops.

But below is a video of how E.V.E.R.Y. S.I.N.G.L.E. bull is milked for sperm collection.

They don't know what 'gay' or 'feminine' means, they just respond to the stimulus.

Their responses are based on their physiology and impact their entire species, period.