Escorts Responsibilities

[Guest N]

I just paid $1,200 for about 5 hours with a high profile escort. When setting up the appointment with the escort I was very clear about what I expected...nothing kinky. I was clear that kissing was a must.

 

My breath is clean, my body is clean and most people find me an agreeable personality. I am about 50 pounds overweight and had sent a photo to the escort.

 

He made no pretense of kissing and actually did nothing other than lie there and expected me to service him! At no time did he kiss me or any part of my body. It was as if he did not have a mouth, tongue or energy.

 

I wanted to tell him this just isn't working, but had trapped myself in a strange city with no transportation (he picked me up at the airport and took me to his place and then returned me to the airport after lunch and a city tour).

 

He was a nice guy, but the sex was TERRIBLE!!

 

He agreed to top me in our e-mails, and did - but it was a feeble "get it over with" performance that he bestowed as if he was doing me a favor.

 

I guess my point is that while the escorts keep talking about expecting respect from the clients, they seem to expect it as a right - whether they have earned it or not.

 

They are not doing us a favor. They are being paid to perform a service.

 

Say what you will about Sean (world escort) he does not cheat the client. Neither does Troy (NY), or Scott Matthews. They are professionals who are responsive to their responsibility to the client.

 

The same can not be said about (from my experience) MOST of the escorts out there.

 

I read wonderful reviews of escorts such as Steve Teron and Tony Cummings to name a couple...and find that the experience is nothing compared to what the reviews lead one to expect.

 

I, for one, have been hesitant to write negative reviews because I find that I don't want to hurt their feelings. I know this is "Pollyanna," but I have difficulty pointing a finger. I know that I do a dis-service to other clients and am going to try to harden myself and will begin to send in "tell it like it actually is" reviews. I hope that others will do the same.

 

Thanks for letting me vent.

 

N

[+ bigjoey]

you DO need to write a review. if there are good things (he is handsome and looks like his picture,he is a good companion, etc.)then list them as well as the reasons you were let down. let us all know so WE can make good choices and avoid you problem. thank you.

[+ bigjoey]

you DO need to write a review. if there are good things (he is handsome and looks like his picture,he is a good companion, etc.)then list them as well as the reasons you were let down. let us all know so WE can make good choices and avoid your problem. thank you.

[Guest Jake]

It is a difficult thing to write a negative review of a popular escort. I have attempted to be honest in my reviews and when I have expressed dissatisfaction in some areas, I have received whining, complaining emails from the escorts as well as negative comments from pleased customers. It's just part of the territory, I guess. I am sorry to hear of your disappointment with Steve Teron. I did a positive review of him last year while certainly expressing doubt about his stated age and pictures. However, the sex itself was great and all he promised. I suppose we have to take into account the "chemistry" business we hear so much about. Thanks for venting and I do hope you will publish a review.

[Guest Nice Guy]

N

You have every reason to expect some kind of warrenty for the products you aquire. Unfortunately it's hard to complain to the manufacturer after the fact if the warrenty is very limited. I agree with billy, say what's good and what you liked, but you have a responsibility to keep the manufacturer on his toes! I have submiited close to 20 reviews and only one was "a total waste". THe guy was everything he advertized physically, but didn't deliver what he promised. One other guy was the same and gave it the old college try, BUT I pay as promised.... they should perform as promised,

OR refund! I saw one guy and he just had an off night and in the morning lowered his fee. He appolized and I actually saw him again because of that. We never had another bad experience again.

So speak up in your reviews. The "pros" know exactly what they are doing and are or should be very honest about it. Read all the guys reviews and look for a consistant link. Ralph Nader where are you when we need you!!!!! In this case we, the clients should all be "Ralphs"! If the guy needs to be recalled, so be it.

NG

[Guest MrB]

LAST EDITED ON Aug-27-00 AT 01:04PM (EST)[p]There are lots of guys who promise the world and never deliver. No matter how good-looking they are, they need to be exposed if we don't want them to ruin the business for all escorts and clients. Which is what the reviews are for. Which is why you should write one. If you stick to the facts (I never like those negative reviews that amount to a lot of pointless whining), you're doing us all a service and noone can really blame you.

 

In the case of an escort with an excellent reputation who has an off day and disappoints you, if he doesn't want you to write a review, let him find a way to dissuade you from it.

 

Never let anyone get away with your money if they did not perform as agreed.

 

Never let anything get in the way of writing a factual review, good or bad. HooBoy put this on the home page for a reason--Honest in Judgement and Truthful in our Reporting.

[Guest red]

Months ago, when I first started checking out this board, someone wrote that before you see a guy overnight or for a weekend, you should first spend an hour or two with him. This allows you to learn whether there is any chemistry between you, and whether he is someone you want to be "trapped" with for an extended period of time. I think this is very good advice. I am truly sorry about N's sad experience, but if his first encounter with the escort had been a two-hour session, he would not have wasted much time and money. And, most importantly, would not have been subjected to what appears to have been a humiliating experience.

[ted]

I have posted the "spend an hour or two before committing for an extended period" advice several times here. I had a very similar experience to N's several years ago, major commitment of $$ and time for essentially no return. Escort initially even offered a free session, so he knew he wasn't up to par, however when I emailed him to take him up on it, he deleted the mails without reading them. Since then, no one gets an overnight or travel unless we have a previous meeting, I don't care how many good reviews they have.

[+ Charlie]

Escort responsibilities

 

Many years ago I made the mistake of flying across country primarily for a meeting with an escort whose ad was great and who sounded good on the phone. He turned out to look nothing like his advertised description of "handsome blond musclebuilder, 6'3", 30 yrs"; instead he was about 40, dark haired, maybe 6', with a wiry build that he wouldn't even reveal, and he was truly homely (even crossed eyes). He did want to do exactly what we had discussed, but I was so disappointed with his image that I couldn't enjoy it. Like you, I felt somewhat trapped because he lived in a rather isolated location and I had already committed so much money.

 

Sites like this didn't exist then (the internet didn't exist!), so I had no way to let others know about him; you do, and you should, in a review with his name. It may have been an isolated experience--we're all human and we don't know how he perceived it--but if he's a professional he should welcome the feedback, and others need to know so they can avoid making the mistake of investing so much in a one-shot encounter before they have a chance to form their own opinions of him.

[Guest cleverock]

Ted, Your advice about renting for an hourly appointment before taking a big plunge works in theory, but things are often different in practice. Some people (e.g., those who live far from the places where escorts usually live) don't have the option and for the rest of us....sometimes we have a need and the means to satisfy it. Also, some escorts are fine as a "one shot", but aren't good company for something longer (and vice versa). last year, I had a great couple hours with an escort, but he proved to be a dud when I hooked up with him for a weekend. recently, I had a very pleasant overnight with someone with whom it was initially difficult to click---an hour appointment would have been unpleasant for both of us.

[Guest N]

RE: Escort responsibilities

 

I want to thank everyone for taking this seriously. I appreciate everyone's comments and have decided to take the advice and do the review(s).

[Traveller]

RE: Escort responsibilities

 

N

 

Just back from the beach. Which galaxy do you hail from? $1200 for 5 hours before taking an hour test run? Dude, always kick the tires before buying the car.

 

Later.