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Not too long ago I scheduled a provider at my home. Knock, knock, he comes in and I ask 'May I get you something to drink?' He lands on red wine... I invite him to take a seat while I opened the wine. My reds run $50+ a bottle. A discussion of the wine and reds, in general, ensued. This transition took 20 minutes. We had our time together which took the hour or so... at checkout time, the fee was calculated from the knock, knock. I chuckled to myself as he poured a bit more wine 'for the road,' paid him and off he went. Was I penalized for hospitality? How do most clients handle the transition from the knock, knock to the bedroom? Do you anticipate hospitality? P.S. I liked the guy, he delivered in full but the precision of the clock-watching was a bit disappointing.

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Not too long ago I scheduled a provider at my home. Knock, knock, he comes in and I ask 'May I get you something to drink?' He lands on red wine... I invite him to take a seat while I opened the wine. My reds run $50+ a bottle. A discussion of the wine and reds, in general, ensued. This transition took 20 minutes. We had our time together which took the hour or so... at checkout time, the fee was calculated from the knock, knock. I chuckled to myself as he poured a bit more wine 'for the road,' paid him and off he went. Was I penalized for hospitality? How do most clients handle the transition from the knock, knock to the bedroom? Do you anticipate hospitality? P.S. I liked the guy, he delivered in full but the precision of the clock-watching was a bit disappointing.

I am not an escort and mainly hire for massage - which makes it easier to manage time on the clock, I think.

 

We all have our limits on what is reasonable. In your example I would be happy to pay for his time from the moment he walks in the door. But where do most guys draw the line? I know where I draw the line and let’s be honest, the tip I offer will reflect the overall experience.

 

A few minutes to sip wine? No problem. If I offer him dinner afterwards - I will gladly pay for the meal, but not for his time; everybody has to make time to eat. He can decline, of course. If he takes a quick shower after, no problem paying him for that time. If he wants to enjoy a long shower or a bath, I am not gonna pay him for that time.

 

Do what works for you - just be clear with the guy on what you are willing to pay for.

 

The next time you see him you will likely say: “let’s take our wine to the bedroom” after pouring and short circuit some of the...”non productive” time. (Or just offer water!)

 

The risk the provider runs is thay you are so put off by his “by the book, by the hour” approach that you won’t hire him again.

 

It is pretty easy to spot the keepers that I will hire again and again!;)

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Unless otherwise specified, you’re paying for his time. Period.

If you choose to spend that time sipping a nice glass of wine,

that’s your decision. Don’t like it? Next time don’t offer the wine.

 

I often invite escorts that I particularity like to have dinner with me

after we’re done, “off the clock”. The majority decline. A handful

of delightful gentlemen have accepted. Many of those have gone

“back on the clock” for a full overnight.

 

Everyone is different, but never forget it’s a business relationship

first. Be clear on the terms and no one will get their feelings hurt.

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my comment will most likely get a fair number of complaints. When I have work done on my house I don't offer the: plumber, electrician, landscaper a glass of wine. I do offer coffee, water, seltzer,etc. They are there to do a certain task. An escort is there to do a certain task. Now if after the task is complete, maybe a glass of wine on his time.

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Not too long ago I scheduled a provider at my home. Knock, knock, he comes in and I ask 'May I get you something to drink?' He lands on red wine... I invite him to take a seat while I opened the wine. My reds run $50+ a bottle. A discussion of the wine and reds, in general, ensued. This transition took 20 minutes. We had our time together which took the hour or so... at checkout time, the fee was calculated from the knock, knock. I chuckled to myself as he poured a bit more wine 'for the road,' paid him and off he went. Was I penalized for hospitality? How do most clients handle the transition from the knock, knock to the bedroom? Do you anticipate hospitality? P.S. I liked the guy, he delivered in full but the precision of the clock-watching was a bit disappointing.

 

I would consider it very poor form to stay past whatever time was booked and upcharge after-the-fact. Unless I'm misunderstanding the situation, didn't you book, say, an hour? I consider the onus on the escort to conclude festivities before the hour is up and make appropriate time for cuddling/showering, whatever. This is hard to do on the first meeting, as you don't know the likes/dislikes of the other party, but it's untoward for the provider to behave in the manner described.

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Not too long ago I scheduled a provider at my home. Knock, knock, he comes in and I ask 'May I get you something to drink?' He lands on red wine... I invite him to take a seat while I opened the wine. My reds run $50+ a bottle. A discussion of the wine and reds, in general, ensued. This transition took 20 minutes. We had our time together which took the hour or so... at checkout time, the fee was calculated from the knock, knock. I chuckled to myself as he poured a bit more wine 'for the road,' paid him and off he went. Was I penalized for hospitality? How do most clients handle the transition from the knock, knock to the bedroom? Do you anticipate hospitality? P.S. I liked the guy, he delivered in full but the precision of the clock-watching was a bit disappointing.

 

I've enjoyed everyone's perspective... thank you. And I agree... I contracted for his time which includes the hospitality. In fact, he's been back several times and I always seem to have his favorite red on-hand. Go figure.

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Perhaps poorly presented... the core of my question was the clock watching along with wondering how others handled hospitality. From the beginning nothing ran 'to the hour' with this guy, so he makes these calculations of time spent. It's humorous. Regardless, he's adorable and well compensated.

 

Lost? OK, but super lost?? Accept my apologies.

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That’s why I’ve never scheduled less than two hours. The chat with drinks beforehand lends a civilized ambience to the experience.

I’m the same. Rarely do less than 2 hours. That way there is time to socialize over a glass of wine or a beer if it is a new hire. If a repeat, a chat to get caught up on events since the last time. If I offer dinner after, I usually negotiate it beforehand and offer about $150 or roughly half the hourly rate on top of the two hour rate. And of course, a great meal at a fine restaurant. Most of those who accept actually drink very little at dinner and some only bottled water. These are guys who are watching their diet and fitness regimes, which of course I highly appreciate as the results show.

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I don’t think he was wrong to charge for the time you spent socializing. After all, escorts are paid for their time. It doesn’t matter what you are doing in that agreed upon time. He could’ve not charged you for it...sure! But he’s certainly not obligated to not charge you for that time.

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