Your enjoyment?

[Guest leftbench23]

What happens when the client is having a great time but not so much for the escort? I know that we hire you guys for our pleasure, but how important is your pleasure and enjoyment in a session?

[cany10011]

This is a great question. I think I saw a video about brothels in India and it was subtitled...your pleasure... our misery. Interesting to hear what some escorts have to say about their experiences of pleasure during a session.

[xyz48B]

When I’m communicating with a prospective provider, I lay out what I’m looking for and then I ask him if it’s something he thinks he can genuinely enjoy. If I get the sense that he isn’t going to genuinely enjoy it, I let him know. Because it just bleeds into the rest of the experience, and feels inauthentic. It’s better if I can tell he’s enjoying it so that I can enjoy it. He can get paid and still objectively enjoy what we’re doing. I enjoy my job, and I still get paid for it. But there are definitely some providers who I can tell don’t relish the idea of getting together after I’ve explained what I’m looking for. I’ve had providers also clearly not enjoy it while we’re together even though they told me they were going to beforehand. There’s just something about it that you can tell.

[+ StLouisOct]

I ask escorts about their likes and dislikes. For instance, if their nips aren‘t sensitive I want to know. No sense wasting my time and theirs while they fake enjoyment or don’t react. One of my favorites didn’t like his balls sucked. Good to know! For me, knowing such things increases the overall enjoyment.

[tenderloin]

Agree with both xyz48B and StLouisOct above. There are few things that kill my boner faster than the realization that the guy I am with is genuinely not enjoying himself (over the years, I've sent a few 'scorts packing when it was clear that they didn't want to be there). Although some providers find it annoying, I am definitely one for up-front transparency: "this is who I am (age, weight, height, looks) and this is what I like to do. Is that something you can get into?"

[xyz48B]

Agree with both xyz48B and StLouisOct above. There are few things that kill my boner faster than the realization that the guy I am with is genuinely not enjoying himself (over the years, I've sent a few 'scorts packing when it was clear that they didn't want to be there). Although some providers find it annoying, I am definitely one for up-front transparency: "this is who I am (age, weight, height, looks) and this is what I like to do. Is that something you can get into?"

I don’t expect every escort to like it either. But if he tells me early on he does and then down the road in the course of the conversation he starts saying “I don’t do X,” “I don’t do Y,” “I don’t fell comfortable doing A,” “C, B, and D aren’t really my thing,” then he wasted both his time and mine. And he was just looking to make a buck and didn’t give to flying fucks about my “enjoyment.” When I read on an ad “I’m happy to do almost anything,” I’m almost tempted to move on. Too often that’s NOT true. I’ve had more open-minded experiences with escorts who don’t say that in their ads than those who do. Although I can’t say every provider who’s “open to almost anything” has been disappointing. That’s where reviews and feedback come in handy before reaching out.

[marylander1940]

What happens when the client is having a great time but not so much for the escort? I know that we hire you guys for our pleasure, but how important is your pleasure and enjoyment in a session?

 

They act, no doubt but they also get into it or they wouldn't be able to get it up and keep it.

 

I don't like so many posters bragging about their hires mandatory orgasm or else... I've posted about it before.

[+ Lucky]

They act, no doubt but they also get into it or they wouldn't be able to get it up and keep it.

 

I don't like so many posters bragging about their hires mandatory orgasm or else... I've posted about it before.

Don't you think that posters should post freely as long as they are within the guidelines? Who are we to say how someone else should post or about what? Once they have, we can comment, but we don't want to set limits, do we? Why someone then might suggest that posting should be limited to 12 or so posts a day. Horrors, huh?

[+ Lucky]

Okay, so a hot guy was massaging me when his butt hovered over my face. I moved in and chowed down for about ten minutes. When he pulled away, he said "Never do that again!"

So I didn't until the next time when he put that hole right in front of my mouth and it was quite clear what he wanted. He said nothing this time! I was only pursuing his enjoyment! Simply delicious.

[marylander1940]

Don't you think that posters should post freely as long as they are within the guidelines? Who are we to say how someone else should post or about what? Once they have, we can comment, but we don't want to set limits, do we? Why someone then might suggest that posting should be limited to 12 or so posts a day. Horrors, huh?

 

They can post whatever they want.... I would suggest they also tip if they want the escort to cum.

 

You missed my point... it's not that they post about it, it's the idea of escorting bordering slavery and the escort MUST cum with someone he's not attracted too and possibly missing new potential clients the same day.

 

I have quoted them plenty of times. Hopefully they'll read this and comment too if they want to.

 

You're free to suggest whatever you want! ? ? ?

[D21howie]

When I look for an escort I will love to know their likes and dislikes. I also like to talk to them via text to see if this is something I will pursue

[marylander1940]

Okay, so a hot guy was massaging me when his butt hovered over my face. I moved in and chowed down for about ten minutes. When he pulled away, he said "Never do that again!"

So I didn't until the next time when he put that hole right in front of my mouth and it was quite clear what he wanted. He said nothing this time! I was only pursuing his enjoyment! Simply delicious.

 

Calling Dr. Freud... you rimmed him for 10 mins, complained after, you hired him again and he loved it the 2nd time I guess for more than 10 mins.

[+ Lucky]

Calling Dr. Freud... you rimmed him for 10 mins, complained after, you hired him again and he loved it the 2nd time I guess for more than 10 mins.

Were you trying to make a point or just didn't like the way I post?

[marylander1940]

Were you trying to make a point or just didn't like the way I post?

 

I wouldn't repeat on someone who allows me to do X for 10 mins and later says "don't ever do that again". I would have moved on... My opinion!

 

I'm glad he liked it the 2nd time and didn't complain after.

 

 

I'm off to superb (they're W.A.S.P. and use that word) with friends I'll get back at you later.

[xyz48B]

it's not that they post about it, it's the idea of escorting bordering slavery and the escort MUST cum with someone he's not attracted too and possibly missing new potential clients the same day

It seems to me that the OP is concerned about the provider’s pleasure and making sure it happens. So I’m doubtful the concern should that a provider is being mistreated. Really the concern is if the provider is going to be up front if they’re not enjoying it.

[xyz48B]

When I look for an escort I will love to know their likes and dislikes. I also like to talk to them via text to see if this is something I will pursue

Precisely. And this is why communication beforehand isn’t a waste of time. Especially for longer engagements like overnights or weekends.

[+ Lucky]

I wouldn't repeat on someone who allows me to do X for 10 mins and later says "don't ever do that again". I would have moved on... My opinion!

 

I'm glad he liked it the 2nd time and didn't complain after.

 

 

I'm off to superb (they're W.A.S.P. and use that word) with friends I'll get back at you later.

First of all, if he didn't like it why let it go on for ten minutes? And, if I hadn't hired him again, I wouldn't have been able to confirm that he liked it, nor would I have enjoyed it again!

How was superb with your WASP friends? Short?

[marylander1940]

First of all, if he didn't like it why let it go on for ten minutes? And, if I hadn't hired him again, I wouldn't have been able to confirm that he liked it, nor would I have enjoyed it again!

How was superb with your WASP friends? Short?

 

You’re showing your true colors and it’s not pretty!

[jeezifonly]

Were you trying to make a point or just didn't like the way I post?

It is a bit like the woman going on and on to her friends about a restaurant she didn’t like - “the chef needs to learn how to cook, I mean really, it tasted not just bland, but awful. I’ll never go again - the food is absolute poison!! And the portions are so small...”

[+ Lucky]

You’re showing your true colors and it’s not pretty!

You haven't the slightest idea what my true colors are. And yes, I knew you didn't go out to "superb" since you are here 24 hours a day. God forbid that someone else might start a thread.

[marylander1940]

You haven't the slightest idea what my true colors are. And yes, I knew you didn't go out to "superb" since you are here 24 hours a day. God forbid that someone else might start a thread.

 

I have this site on my background.

 

The fact that I start too many threads was your talking point when you hijacked the thread about Ginsburg's death and our concerns about a SCJ controlled by conservatives for a generation. Very classy!

 

Every now and then you engage with me this way. I guess it's official I live rent free in your head.

 

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Hillary posted this a couple of times. Go figure!

[xyz48B]

All I can say is I want the escort to have fun too. Genuinely.

[+ Lucky]

I have this site on my background.

 

The fact that I start too many threads was your talking point when you hijacked the thread about Ginsburg's death and our concerns about a SCJ controlled by conservatives for a generation. Very classy!

 

Every now and then you engage with me this way. I guess it's official I live rent free in your head.

The rent eventually comes with a price, but I think you misunderstand. You seem capable of great kindness so it catches my attention when you are mean. I only want you to be the best poster that you can be. Yes, you start too many threads, but if no one minds, what's the problem? Especially since you are aware of the issue. That's a step forward for which I commend you. And it was nice of you to yield to sync. Everyone should have a chance to start threads, don't you agree? You keep moving forward, and I like that. Have a good night. See you in the morning.

[xyz48B]

I feel like there are two very different discussions happening here ? ?

[marylander1940]

The rent eventually comes with a price, but I think you misunderstand. You seem capable of great kindness so it catches my attention when you are mean. I only want you to be the best poster that you can be. Yes, you start too many threads, but if no one minds, what's the problem? Especially since you are aware of the issue. That's a step forward for which I commend you. And it was nice of you to yield to sync. Everyone should have a chance to start threads, don't you agree? You keep moving forward, and I like that. Have a good night. See you in the morning.

 

Sarcasm isn't nice, and please quote @sync when you mention him.

 

I feel like there are two very different discussions happening here ? ?

 

Someone is trying to hijack a thread to unnecessarily empower himself as psychologist. He also took over another thread on the death of Justice Ginsburg. Take a look!

Edited September 20, 2020 by marylander1940