Enjoying masturbation more than actually real life sex

[thetruth]

I had a friend who is in his mid 30s and he still hasn't had a full orgasm as a result of penetration. He actually enjoys more porn and masturbation than actual sex face-to-face. Does anybody here has experimented this? What are your thoughts about it?

[big-n-tall]

Sounds like he's conditioned himself to porn over human contact. If he's happy... more power to him. However, if he ever wants to get in a relationship he can try to recondition his body to get aroused other ways. It's not impossible but it takes practice.

 

One escort I saw said he has a hard time getting hard during sex, but if he was in a long make out session or dildoed himself while he was face down ass up, it was the only way to get him to cum fairly consistently. I told him he should try different positions to expand the way he gets off when he dildos himself.

 

He never got hard when he bottomed for me. However, if I Iaid next to him and just kissed him deeply he got rock hard and he always orgasmed that way.

[+ Yellowrod]

I had a roommate in college preferred to read explicit stories and j/o to them. He didn't really like sex - never had a boyfriend or sex partner that I know of, even though he was damned hot and had guys falling all over for him. He didn't care for visual porn either. He would pick up a porno magazine only to read (and cum) to the literature. At the time, I thought it was complete narcissism. Now, decades later, not so sure.

[+ sync]

I can see some positives:

• the partner of one's own imagination
  
• no scheduling conflicts
  
• no rejection anxieties
  
• no travel arrangements
  
• no fee negotiations
  
• no time restrictions (other than your own)
  

Hmmmmmm. ?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Human contact is healthy and normal. COVID is turning an already socially gun-shy young generation into something even more awkward.

 

Conditioning yourself to only porn is problematic over time, especially when attempting to find a relationship or trying to have a normal, functional, healthy sex life. I have had several clients who have come to me to help them break the habit and get back into the swing of things in a non-judgemental, low-stress sexual environment.

 

Jacking off is just one tool in the box, not the entire box.

[Maxl]

I had a roommate in college preferred to read explicit stories and j/o to them. He didn't really like sex - never had a boyfriend or sex partner that I know of, even though he was damned hot and had guys falling all over for him. He didn't care for visual porn either. He would pick up a porno magazine only to read (and cum) to the literature. At the time, I thought it was complete narcissism. Now, decades later, not so sure.

I know your roommate's feeling.

[KrisParr]

I have masturbated more in the past 6 months than all my teen/college years put together. It does make me wonder about my performance once this damn thing is over.

[BabyBoomer]

It does make me wonder about my performance once this damn thing is over.

 

Hopefully, it will be above Parr.

 

~Boomer~

[rustyrex]

Human contact is healthy and normal. COVID is turning an already socially gun-shy young generation into something even more awkward.

 

Conditioning yourself to only porn is problematic over time, especially when attempting to find a relationship or trying to have a normal, functional, healthy sex life. I have had several clients who have come to me to help them break the habit and get back into the swing of things in a non-judgemental, low-stress sexual environment.

 

Jacking off is just one tool in the box, not the entire box.

If I'm ever in Dallas, which I am at least once a year...I'll have to contact you. I'm curious what you do to break the cycle.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

If I'm ever in Dallas, which I am at least once a year...I'll have to contact you. I'm curious what you do to break the cycle.

 

Mostly light flogging, CBT, glue traps and a brief glimpse of pre-80s Jane Fonda films.

[RealAvalon]

I have masturbated more in the past 6 months than all my teen/college years put together. It does make me wonder about my performance once this damn thing is over.

You'll be concert ready on the skin flute

[+ Hoover42]

Google tells me that this is not uncommon, and that it is often associated with something called Death-grip Syndrome. Ouch.

 

The good news is that there is a treatment that can help achieve a more normative sexual response given determination and practice.

[KrisParr]

You'll be concert ready on the skin flute

 

I’m not too worried about my embouchure- at least I’ve never had any complaints.

[RealAvalon]

I’m not too worried about my embouchure- at least I’ve never had any complaints.

you and @Hoover42

[+ Lucky]

I have masturbated more in the past 6 months than all my teen/college years put together. It does make me wonder about my performance once this damn thing is over.

It seems that I rarely hear a guy mention his own masturbation habits, so kudos to you!

[marylander1940]

I had a friend who is in his mid 30s and he still hasn't had a full orgasm as a result of penetration. He actually enjoys more porn and masturbation than actual sex face-to-face. Does anybody here has experimented this? What are your thoughts about it?

 

Is he watching porno?

 

How handsome is he?

 

Where does he live?

 

Is he keeping himself from engaging in sex because of Covid-19?

 

It seems that I rarely hear a guy mention his own masturbation habits, so kudos to you!

 

or whether they hire or not among other things we usually keep private.

[KrisParr]

We all make choices on what we share here. Some are very open, naming names and details. Others are more private, sure. I am appreciative of the support, kindness, advice and humor that participants freely post. This forum is a breath of fresh air these days. Applause to the admins and those who put so much effort in keeping it alive.

[Walker1]

Well this guy too-he seems to enjoy it!

https://www.xvideos.com/video5059208/watch_horny_jock_jack_off