Why are there so many tops only?

[Enronnja]

I know its a persons right to to be who they are sexually. But, my concern is, there seems to be a glut of tops on RM most recently. You can go through pages upon pages and you will see the rare verse top. I have even seen guys who were previously verse now exclusively Tops.

 

Yes, I am a top only, but I just can’t picture myself giving away Benjamins just to get on all fours. A dildo and some free porn would be more cost effective. Why I say this too, those who are saying they are top only, come across as potentially the the bare minimum type: no actual interaction with the client, probably texting his next bottom client while screwing you.

[Gymowner]

Most escorts on rent men are straight. They use their baseball bats.... not their dugouts for the game.

[handiacefailure]

I have the opposite problem, seems to be mainly bottoms and not enough tops

[orville]

I know its a persons right to to be who they are sexually. But, my concern is, there seems to be a glut of tops on RM most recently. You can go through pages upon pages and you will see the rare verse top. I have even seen guys who were previously verse now exclusively Tops.

 

Yes, I am a top only, but I just can’t picture myself giving away Benjamins just to get on all fours. A dildo and some free porn would be more cost effective. Why I say this too, those who are saying they are top only, come across as potentially the the bare minimum type: no actual interaction with the client, probably texting his next bottom client while screwing you.

Hi, In what parallel universe do you live?! Sorry, I meant, what city do you live in? I might consider to move there ?

[orville]

Most escorts on rent men are straight. They use their baseball bats.... not their dugouts for the game.

Not sure if you're being sarcastic or making a joke over a fact about the place where you live. What city are you in Daddy?

[orville]

I have the opposite problem, seems to be mainly bottoms and not enough tops

You and I are in the same universe.

[Kevin Slater]

I know its a persons right to to be who they are sexually. But, my concern is, there seems to be a glut of tops on RM most recently. You can go through pages upon pages and you will see the rare verse top. I have even seen guys who were previously verse now exclusively Tops.

 

Yes, I am a top only, but I just can’t picture myself giving away Benjamins just to get on all fours. A dildo and some free porn would be more cost effective. Why I say this too, those who are saying they are top only, come across as potentially the the bare minimum type: no actual interaction with the client, probably texting his next bottom client while screwing you.

 

Let me be the first to invoke Willie Sutton in this thread: because that's where the money is.

 

Kevin Slater

[Danny-Darko]

I personally find the complete opposite! It seems like everyone I consider seems to be versatile/bottom, versatile/top or just plan versatile. The few true tops don't seem to have the Daddy's Reviews seal of approval by other members! ? I realize my tastes are a particular niche group but I suspect geography might have something to do with it. Back in my younger days people on both coasts used to claim that "All the tops live in NY and all the bottoms live in SF!" In my general region all seem to be some variation of versatile. I always seem to live in the wrong place at the wrong time. ?

[dutchal]

When I do a search in NYC for escorts & top, I get 7 pages. When I do a search for escorts & bottom, I get one page. The tops have it.

[big-n-tall]

I find plenty of bottoms on rm. What find is that the guys I stumble across who I want to fuck the most on the site are tops. ?

 

I will say I have had some success with professed tops willing to bottom but that’s after cultivating relationship of trust. However, I don’t chase after the ones listed as tops anymore. If they list as top, I don’t inquire if they are willing to bottom. Now if they change there position listing I’d go for.

[big-n-tall]

When I do a search in NYC for escorts & top, I get 7 pages. When I do a search for escorts & bottom, I get one page. The tops have it.

 

Including versatile and versatile/bottom in that search brings it to 5 pages.

 

I know some people think otherwise but if someone puts versatile in part of their position they are willing to whatever degree to bottom. With that said I do realize some people won’t see a versatile guy because they want an absolute bottom guy.

Edited August 24, 2020 by big-n-tall

[Gymowner]

Not sure if you're being sarcastic or making a joke over a fact about the place where you live. What city are you in Daddy?

just my observations over the last say 20 years or so.

[Monarchy79]

Easy solution to this:

 

Just get a bottom, that’s not an escort.... for free....

 

You save some money

You get the ass that you want

Some lucky bottom gets some action (In the non-escort world, many bottoms complain about the overall lack of tops) ....

 

Everyone gets what they want ☺️

[jeezifonly]

The preparation time for a top is the time it takes to swallow a pill.

The preparation time for a bottom (especially the Helden-Bottom...) is longer, so

Bottom line...billable hours etc.

His milage may vary...HMMV

[orville]

When I do a search in NYC for escorts & top, I get 7 pages. When I do a search for escorts & bottom, I get one page. The tops have it.

Curious. I was under the impression that there are more versatile and that the Total Tops are few.

[Luv2play]

Is it because there tends to be more wear and tear on a bottom?

[orville]

just my observations over the last say 20 years or so.

Interesting. In my area it's 4 pages of Versatile (and its variations), 1 Page of Bottoms, 1 Page of Ask Me, and 2 Pages of Tops - 26 profiles in Total - from which only 2 are straight.

[orville]

Easy solution to this:

 

Just get a bottom, that’s not an escort.... for free....

 

You save some money

You get the ass that you want

Some lucky bottom gets some action (In the non-escort world, many bottoms complain about the overall lack of tops) ....

 

Everyone gets what they want ☺

So true. There is so much abundance of us bottoms that for a Top it's just a matter of disclosing the word Top in your online profile anywhere and the requests and messages should start raining on you almost as soon as you get online.

[orville]

The preparation time for a top is the time it takes to swallow a pill.

Not every top needs viagra but whatever makes that prick hard floats my boat, yum!

The preparation time for a bottom (especially the Helden-Bottom...) is longer, so

Don't even say it sister! Ugh.

[big-n-tall]

Curious. I was under the impression that there are more versatile and that the Total Tops are few.

 

Well I just checked rm for NYC...

 

If you put top as the only position you only get 3 pages of escorts, with the view set in grid view as opposed to list view.

 

With versatile as the only listing you get 4 pages in grid view...

 

With bottom it’s only one page... However, if you assume versatile means they are at least willing to attempt to botttom and you add the other catorgores (top/versatile, versatile, and versatile/bottom) you get 7 pages. So I think there are more willing bottoms in NYC than “strict” tops.

[jeezifonly]

Self reporting is cloudy...

It’s akin to “” I’ve been absolutely faithful in our marriage “

Which lead to the notion that VD could spread via toilet seat...

 

“I’m strictly a top” may be something never followed up through on when the client has thick 8””

[cany10011]

Well I just checked rm for NYC...

 

If you put top as the only position you only get 3 pages of escorts, with the view set in grid view as opposed to list view.

 

With versatile as the only listing you get 4 pages in grid view...

 

With bottom it’s only one page... However, if you assume versatile means they are at least willing to attempt to botttom and you add the other catorgores (top/versatile, versatile, and versatile/bottom) you get 7 pages. So I think there are more willing bottoms in NYC than “strict” tops.

 

 

That has been my experience too.

[orville]

Self reporting is cloudy...

It’s akin to “” I’ve been absolutely faithful in our marriage “

Which lead to the notion that VD could spread via toilet seat...

“I’m strictly a top” may be something never followed up through on when the client has thick 8””

Nah, I don't think so. In my experience Tops are Tops, Top/Vers are Versatiles, and Versatiles are Bottoms.

A different thing is when I meet a guy and he tells me he's Top but he's feminine. That's a no-no.

[Gymowner]

Interesting. In my area it's 4 pages of Versatile (and its variations), 1 Page of Bottoms, 1 Page of Ask Me, and 2 Pages of Tops - 26 profiles in Total - from which only 2 are straight.

its also my observation that most breeders avoid saying they are straight like the plague either as hookers or as strippers. go figure. they dont know that many of us prefer to see straight men when hiring. i think its the same thing for most of them then as saying they are tops. tops are usually more in control. its hard to imagine a real straight dude giving up his poonanny not knowing how hard or brutal he may get fucked knowing how hard he thrashes and tries on purpose to destroy a pussy to get his dick off.

[marylander1940]

When I do a search in NYC for escorts & top, I get 7 pages. When I do a search for escorts & bottom, I get one page. The tops have it.

 

Exactly, at least for you in NYC.

 

It would be nice for all posters to search and provide accurate on the subject like you did. Sometimes perception is not reality.