An escort just cheated on me!

[+ DrownedBoy]

There's an escort - I don't know if I can post a link here- with Good Reviews on RentMen who cheated me out of half a session!

 

I hired him for 2 hours, and half an hour in, stopped, laughed at me, made a veiled threat about revealing my fetish, and left!

 

What could and should I do? I'm about to remove my 5 star appraisal of him that he gave for the first meeting!

[marylander1940]

There's an escort - I don't know if I can post a link here- with Good Reviews on RentMen who cheated me out of half a session!

 

I hired him for 2 hours, and half an hour in, stopped, laughed at me, made a veiled threat about revealing my fetish, and left!

 

What could and should I do? I'm about to remove my 5 star appraisal of him that he gave for the first meeting!

 

Review a Daddy's and if he didn't block you already him review him there too. You should also contact RM about it I'm sure this isn't the first time he's done something like this.

 

It would be appropriate to know more details but is up to you to tell us your "fetishes" or not... Don't be ashamed, we've heard it all.

Edited August 23, 2020 by marylander1940

[Smurof]

If he left 30 minutes in, wouldn't that be cheating you out of three fourths of a session? Just in case your fetish is paying for 25% of his donation, he might have done nothing wrong.

[Luv2play]

There's an escort - I don't know if I can post a link here- with Good Reviews on RentMen who cheated me out of half a session!

 

I hired him for 2 hours, and half an hour in, stopped, laughed at me, made a veiled threat about revealing my fetish, and left!

 

What could and should I do? I'm about to remove my 5 star appraisal of him that he gave for the first meeting!

Was this fetish of yours something you had discussed before setting up the date? I always think it’s best to do that so if it elicits a negative response you an avoid an Embarrassing situation or worse as you discovered. Btw did you pay him in advance or are you just upset he didn’t lived up to the 2 hour ommitment?

[rustyrex]

Chalk it up to a hard lesson learned and only pay for services provided. It's interesting how he threatened to out you for your fetish but will disregard the profession of prostitution and extortion as illegal. In fact you can call the police and report him, tell them that he extorted you for money.

 

What's to keep him from coming back and threatening you in the future. You gave him money and he basically took it and ran to keep your fetish secret. Who knows, next time the fee may be higher to keep him quiet...would you pay the price?

[+ DrownedBoy]

Well, doing the math, he in total only stole 102 dollars in time. After I lost my temper, he threw 70 of it back as he left.

 

I left it on the table. He picked it up at the beginning and pocketed it. 3 out of three times, when the escort pocketed my money beforehand, it turned out to be a scam. It's too bad you don't see that until they have your money.

 

Not worried about the police. In the town where the guy (supposedly) lived, I spent 2 years working with the current police chief while we were in high school. But I'd only deal with police if the runt was stupid enough to try to blackmail, though I'm not sure I'd let him know that.

[Pittlookalike]

While I haven’t hired an escort, i have hired lots of masseurs, many of whom were awful and didn’t give anywhere near the agreed upon time. As I don’t want to be blackmailed, i always pay the agreed upon rate. Then i share, anonymously on this site, about the bad experience so that others aren’t taken advantage of.

[maninsoma]

This story doesn't have enough information to provide good feedback. The word "fetish" can mean a lot of things. Is your fetish something that could have harmed the escort? If so, I don't blame the guy for leaving. Writing that you "lost your temper" so he threw $70 back on his way out makes the scene sound dangerous for the escort to me. Maybe I'm having difficulty with math at this early hour, but your suggestion that he only "stole 102 dollars in time" even though he left a half hour into a two hour session makes his rate sound extremely low. Maybe the guy is a scammer and you're right to feel cheated, but I don't know that based on what you wrote so far; for all we know he kept an appropriate amount of money for having traveled to your place and spending a half hour with you.

[+ DrownedBoy]

We actually met before, for the same fetish, and the meeting went fine. This was the second time and it caught me off guard.

 

I yelled at him and called him a thief, which is more than within my rights. I've already reported on his Mintboys and Friendboy sites, but I already blocked him on RentMen, so I'm not sure if I can alter my original good review.

[DaveOrDavid]

We actually met before, for the same fetish, and the meeting went fine. This was the second time and it caught me off guard.

 

I yelled at him and called him a thief, which is more than within my rights. I've already reported on his Mintboys and Friendboy sites, but I already blocked him on RentMen, so I'm not sure if I can alter my original good review.

I had a followup meeting with someone I had previously submitted a five star review and the next meeting was *very^ disappointing. I contacted Rentmen and requested them to remove the previous positive review. I advised them I did not want to submit a negative review which could cause confusion for other clients and affect the validity of both reviews. They removed the initial positive review after my explanation. I have a long time client profile with other reviews and many communications. I am also a Rentmen Sponsor, but not currently a premium member.

[marylander1940]

We actually met before, for the same fetish, and the meeting went fine. This was the second time and it caught me off guard.

 

I yelled at him and called him a thief, which is more than within my rights. I've already reported on his Mintboys and Friendboy sites, but I already blocked him on RentMen, so I'm not sure if I can alter my original good review.

 

Crazy...

 

He got money from you, you hired him again... he could have been hired by you a many more times and yet he decided to grab some money and get out knowing in the long run he lost money.

 

A sad stories with no winners!

 

@DrownedBoy Unblock him, review him, and block him again A.S.A.P.

[Quincy_7]

OP isn't telling us the full picture. The threat to out OP for his fetish only has weight if the escort knows OP's identity. This is why it's foolish to call escorts your "friends" and share personal info with them like some of the more naive members of the forum do.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Crazy...

 

He got money from you, you hired him again... he could have been hired by you a many more times and yet he decided to grab some money and get out knowing in the long run he lost money.

 

A sad stories with no winners!

 

@DrownedBoy Unblock him, review him, and block him again A.S.A.P.

 

Yup. Either he decided to burn bridges and take the money, or he planned to try and hold me up for extra cash by threatening to leave. Either way meant I'd never hire him again, and give him bad reviews.

 

I did just as you suggested on Rentmen as well, and explained the situation. He's blocked everywhere.

 

I don't know if this will get removed, but his links are:

 

@Quincy_7 are you that guy with a different name or something? It's an outcall, so he knows my phone and address, but not necessarily my full name (although I know his...or at least the fake ID he's using). I grew up around here, and my whole high school class knew about my fetish (not that weird - I'm into lifeguards). He didn't so much make a veiled threat as just make fun of me as he walked out.

 

There were a number of warning signs, but they came only after he took my money. First, he tried to get me to let him play a video game the entire time. I vetoed that, but let him pick out a movie while we snuggled. Then he kept taking texts and phone calls, getting up to do it. At the second meeting, he was really lousy. At least I can spend more time with my regulars. Which he could have been, if he had kept doing this.

Edited August 27, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[+ Kman]

Agree with @Quincy_7 the whole story is not being told. You say you hired him before for the same fetish and it was fine and you hire him again and you claim he threatens to out you for the fetish and that is when you get angry and he gives some money back to you and leaves...it sounds like you ended the session??

[marylander1940]

Yup. Either he decided to burn bridges and take the money, or he planned to try and hold me up for extra cash by threatening to leave. Either way meant I'd never hire him again, and give him bad reviews.

 

I did just as you suggested on Rentmen as well, and explained the situation. He's blocked everywhere.

 

I don't know if this will get removed, but his links are:

 

@Quincy_7 are you that guy with a different name or something? It's an outcall, so he knows my phone and address, but not necessarily my full name (although I know his...or at least the fake ID he's using). I grew up around here, and my whole high school class knew about my fetish (not that weird - I'm into lifeguards). He didn't so much make a veiled thread as just make fun of me as he walked out.

 

 

 

That's not unusual. I've been told about guys giving a speedo or suggesting the escort brings one for some role play.

 

Enjoy, and inspire yourself with this other thread:

 

 

https://m4m-forum.org/threads/lifeguard-fantasy.157450/

 

There were a number of warning signs, but they came only after he took my money. First, he tried to get me to let him play a video game the entire time. I vetoed that, but let him pick out a movie while we snuggled. Then he kept taking texts and phone calls, getting up to do it. At the second meeting, he was really lousy. At least I can spend more time with my regulars. Which he could have been, if he had kept doing this.

 

The younger the escort the more likely to act like that and not last in the business.

Edited August 27, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[bendable2019]

Happened to me twice and I am appalled at both instances. Both wanted me to send money for their lyft ride to me... I didn’t know they were looking for a ride from Baltimore to come to DC... those broke ass bitches! Be aware of these kinda requests good people.

[+ DrownedBoy]

Well RM updated my original to one star, and for the first time, I wrote Daddy's Review ad (need to do that for my favorite regular one day soon) in case the Admin erases the above links.

 

More data, I checked the other users on RM who gave him 5 stars. These are the "clients" who did:

 

And yes he's a new escort, started in March. Not for much longer I suspect.

 

I need to add this to my list of lessons learned and people to watch out for. I was always suspicious of people who list themselves as "straight," and this is why - they can't stand being around gay men.

Edited August 27, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[+ keroscenefire]

Well RM updated my original to one star, and for the first time, I wrote Daddy's Review ad (need to do that for my favorite regular one day soon) in case the Admin erases the above links.

 

More data, I checked the other users on RM who gave him 5 stars. These are the "clients" who did:

 

I need to add this to my list of lessons learned and people to watch out for. I was always suspicious of people who list themselves as "straight," and this is why - they can't stand being around gay men.

 

Thanks for writing the reviews on Daddy Reviews and RM. Thank you for doing that so we can avoid those escorts who treat clients poorly.

Edited August 27, 2020 by keroscenefire

[D21howie]

Yup. Either he decided to burn bridges and take the money, or he planned to try and hold me up for extra cash by threatening to leave. Either way meant I'd never hire him again, and give him bad reviews.

 

I did just as you suggested on Rentmen as well, and explained the situation. He's blocked everywhere.

 

I don't know if this will get removed, but his links are:

 

@Quincy_7 are you that guy with a different name or something? It's an outcall, so he knows my phone and address, but not necessarily my full name (although I know his...or at least the fake ID he's using). I grew up around here, and my whole high school class knew about my fetish (not that weird - I'm into lifeguards). He didn't so much make a veiled threat as just make fun of me as he walked out.

 

There were a number of warning signs, but they came only after he took my money. First, he tried to get me to let him play a video game the entire time. I vetoed that, but let him pick out a movie while we snuggled. Then he kept taking texts and phone calls, getting up to do it. At the second meeting, he was really lousy. At least I can spend more time with my regulars. Which he could have been, if he had kept doing this.

I click on the links above and the guy to me looks too skinny and like he is on drugs. I will not hire him because he is definitely not my type.

Edited August 27, 2020 by Guy Fawkes

[Guy Fawkes]

We don't post reviews on the message-forum

 

Thanks for writing the reviews. This is exactly what this forum is for so we can avoid those escorts who treat clients poorly.

[+ keroscenefire]

We don't post reviews on the message-forum

 

Sorry, I was referring to Drowned Boys reviews on RM and Daddy Reviews not the forum. But I reworded it so hopefully it's less objectionable.