What should I do? I need your advice...

[Hercules_lover]

I need your advice on something.

 

There is this escort, stunning guy very muscular (just my type) who used to advertise on both RM and on women only gigolo site. Soon after the RM ad was gone and he is now only on the straight gigolo site.

 

A few days ago I met him at my workplace (I'm a sales associate in a boutique) while he was shopping. I was not 100% sure that it was actually him and I wanted to keep the experience professional so of course I didn't say anything. He was absolutely handsome, so muscular... once I got home I immediately reached out to him, and to be sure that he was the person I saw earlier that day, I made a vague reference about me seeing him near the boutique at the time that he was there.

He obviously saw through me because he asked me if I was indeed one of the sales associates who helped him (which I denied) and he quickly dismissed me saying that he only "works for women".

 

Now here is my question: I am only interested in a muscle worship session, no sex whatsoever. So should I try to contact him again to explain my proposition? Should I tell him the truth, that I actually work in that particular boutique, like he suggested?

 

Thanks in advance

[cany10011]

I would offer an outrageous amount, explain what you are seeking, and see what he says:)

[+ FrankR]

I need your advice on something.

 

There is this escort, stunning guy very muscular (just my type) who used to advertise on both RM and on women only gigolo site. Soon after the RM ad was gone and he is now only on the straight gigolo site.

 

A few days ago I met him at my workplace (I'm a sales associate in a boutique) while he was shopping. I was not 100% sure that it was actually him and I wanted to keep the experience professional so of course I didn't say anything. He was absolutely handsome, so muscular... once I got home I immediately reached out to him, and to be sure that he was the person I saw earlier that day, I made a vague reference about me seeing him near the boutique at the time that he was there.

He obviously saw through me because he asked me if I was indeed one of the sales associates who helped him (which I denied) and he quickly dismissed me saying that he only "works for women".

 

Now here is my question: I am only interested in a muscle worship session, no sex whatsoever. So should I try to contact him again to explain my proposition? Should I tell him the truth, that I actually work in that particular boutique, like he suggested?

 

Thanks in advance

I would not expose myself like that to somebody I don’t know.

 

If he leaped at the opportunity and told you he would be willing to see you - even with restrictions - sure, proceed with caution as always. But he was clear that he only works with women so you struck out. Walk away good sir. ?

[GTMike]

I need your advice on something.

 

There is this escort, stunning guy very muscular (just my type) who used to advertise on both RM and on women only gigolo site. Soon after the RM ad was gone and he is now only on the straight gigolo site.

 

A few days ago I met him at my workplace (I'm a sales associate in a boutique) while he was shopping. I was not 100% sure that it was actually him and I wanted to keep the experience professional so of course I didn't say anything. He was absolutely handsome, so muscular... once I got home I immediately reached out to him, and to be sure that he was the person I saw earlier that day, I made a vague reference about me seeing him near the boutique at the time that he was there.

He obviously saw through me because he asked me if I was indeed one of the sales associates who helped him (which I denied) and he quickly dismissed me saying that he only "works for women".

 

Now here is my question: I am only interested in a muscle worship session, no sex whatsoever. So should I try to contact him again to explain my proposition? Should I tell him the truth, that I actually work in that particular boutique, like he suggested?

 

Thanks in advance

Tough one. Though wait. In his RM profile do you recall if he specifically was only available for muscle worship sessions or was it listing available for more than that?

[Hercules_lover]

Tough one. Though wait. In his RM profile do you recall if he specifically was only available for muscle worship sessions or was it listing available for more than that?

 

Yes, back then he was actually open to anything

[marylander1940]

Yes, back then he was actually open to anything

 

Would you be ok with only muscle worship as you say on your first post?

 

If you really like him, go ahead talk to him.

[Hercules_lover]

MW is honestly the only reason why I'm reaching out to him

[+ WilliamM]

I would not expose myself like that to somebody I don’t know.

 

If he leaped at the opportunity and told you he would be willing to see you - even with restrictions - sure, proceed with caution as always. But he was clear that he only works with women so you struck out. Walk away good sir. ?

 

I agree. He has identified you as a likely sales representative. Move on.

[BaronArtz]

You don't want him to come back to the boutique and complain to your boss that you made indecent proposals. You could get fired. No 'session' is worth that, certainly not in this economy.

[KrisParr]

File and forget; getting fired ain’t worth a few minutes of hoopla. It could happen. There are other MW dudes out there.

[GTMike]

Yes, back then he was actually open to anything

Well for the most part i agree with the others who are saying that you could run the risk of if he didn't respond well to the outreach and took it so far as to make it an issue regarding your place of employment since he asked you. The only reason why i said it was tough and asked if he listed that he was open to more back on RM but now only has Women clients is if in the chance he personally made big distinctions between muscle worship and other services for men. But then just decided it was easier to only have to filter through women. For me it would come down to my gut in terms of his reaction to asking if you were indeed the salesman and followed it up with, he only services women or if he said he only services women and then said, "oh were you the salesman?". But that is a really fine line and as others say the potential downside risk probably far outweighs the potential upside.

[+ Gar1eth]

I say he's already stated his preference by

 

1. Removing his Rentmen ad.

2. Advertising on a male for female site

3. Answering in the NEGATIVE a direct question you put to him about whether he still meets with males.

 

This would be very comparable to me persistently trying to hire a top only escort who had made it very clear to me that he wouldn't ever consider bottoming.

 

I know how tempting it is. But in cases like this it's usually best to let the big head overrule the little one.

 

Gman

[The Dude]

This is a non-starter. Move on.

[+ Balthazar]

Per your post, he stated that he only "works for women." I would recommend not contacting him again. Even if he started advertising on RM again, I would be concerned that his ambivalence about working with men might negatively impact your session.

[orville]

He can definitely work with men but probably with limitations. Otherwise, he would've never had an ad on RM, but he probably removed it because most guys are looking for more than just worship or oral. Same as the guys who advertise on Mintboys and other sites with a number of "straight" providers, their orientation magically changes for the right amount, so in a way it's a "scam". He's likely heteroflexible or bi and his rejection doesn't necessarily mean he could never work with men (he already did for a season on RM). It's likely a tease to see if you come back with a higher offer, which is not worthy because of all the advice you have already received. And on top of that if the session happens it can be poor quality because of course he will always have "limitations". There's Plenty in the sea, with one fish better than the other, get over it.

Edited August 1, 2020 by orville

[+ sync]

It will be interesting to see if he returns one day to your workplace and makes eye contact. Unless you were quite obvious, it seems odd he would have noticed your attention (intention).

[+ 7829V]

I need your advice on something.

 

There is this escort, stunning guy very muscular (just my type) who used to advertise on both RM and on women only gigolo site. Soon after the RM ad was gone and he is now only on the straight gigolo site.

 

A few days ago I met him at my workplace (I'm a sales associate in a boutique) while he was shopping. I was not 100% sure that it was actually him and I wanted to keep the experience professional so of course I didn't say anything. He was absolutely handsome, so muscular... once I got home I immediately reached out to him, and to be sure that he was the person I saw earlier that day, I made a vague reference about me seeing him near the boutique at the time that he was there.

He obviously saw through me because he asked me if I was indeed one of the sales associates who helped him (which I denied) and he quickly dismissed me saying that he only "works for women".

 

Now here is my question: I am only interested in a muscle worship session, no sex whatsoever. So should I try to contact him again to explain my proposition? Should I tell him the truth, that I actually work in that particular boutique, like he suggested?

 

Thanks in advance

You open a restaurant selling pancakes. You closed it down.

 

You open a new one selling tacos. Customer asks for pancakes because he remembers you used to sell pancakes..... But you don't have a menu for pancakes, you don't have the tools or desire to make them. Why would you sell him pancakes?

[cmennow]

Set your sights on something attainable and move on to the next. You're only going to embarrass yourself more.

[Gymowner]

You don't want him to come back to the boutique and complain to your boss that you made indecent proposals. You could get fired. No 'session' is worth that, certainly not in this economy.

I agree 100% with Baron. If he has any interest whatsoever in the future, he will contact you back. If he doesnt then you got your answer to his availability. Push him and it could get ugly real quick

[+ Gar1eth]

You open a restaurant selling pancakes. You closed it down.

 

You open a new one selling tacos. Customer asks for pancakes because he remembers you used to sell pancakes..... But you don't have a menu for pancakes, you don't have the tools or desire to make them. Why would you sell him pancakes?

 

Now I'm hungry.

 

Gman

[Lazarus]

I would feel like a fool if I made an appointment with him & then you show up & he sees that you were the guy from the boutique. Wouldn’t that be kind of awkward?

[Hercules_lover]

I would feel like a fool if I made an appointment with him & then you show up & he sees that you were the guy from the boutique. Wouldn’t that be kind of awkward?

To be honest I don't think he would recognize me, cause I was not the one who was directly helping him, besides we are currently wearing face masks at work so I don't think he could single me out.

Anyway I get your point ? It would definitely be awkward

[rvwnsd]

He stated that he does not meet men. Take him at his word and move on. You don't want to fall into the "stalker" category.

[Hercules_lover]

He stated that he does not meet men. Take him at his word and move on. You don't want to fall into the "stalker" category.

I agree

[caliguy]

I agree

We've all been there... ?