Massage and More...

[Daverwr]

I apologize if this has been asked before. Actually, I’ve never purchased a massage! But, I want to know how to tell if the masseur is willing/interested in turning the appointment into an escortish appointment? Is there something in the ad (preferable)?

Or do you have to say something at the appointment?

[+ sync]

What I notice first is if the masseur lists "erotic" among his available massage styles.

[+ 7829V]

I apologize if this has been asked before. Actually, I’ve never purchased a massage! But, I want to know how to tell if the masseur is willing/interested in turning the appointment into an escortish appointment? Is there something in the ad (preferable)?

Or do you have to say something at the appointment?

If he allows you to be nude. No drape. And he’s wearing underwear and a tank top... 99% of the time means there will be some sensual elements... usually HE or more. I never say anything. I just let the session flows. I enjoy the unexpected. The anticipation of not knowing that’s coming next.

[maninsoma]

1. Don't attempt to "read into" ads unless you are willing to pay a high rate for what you think will be an exceptional experience that ultimately might be disappointing. Some guys knowingly write enticing ads even though they know they are going to fail to deliver. Some of the most expensive and disappointing massages I've had have been by guys with lots of provocative photos and texts who then provided untrained (not therapeutic) massages with nothing erotic beyond having a guy in a tank top touching me.

 

2. Have a specific conversation as to what you are looking for. If you are not comfortable doing that, then at least do your research here and commit to hiring guys who have feedback that indicates you are likely to get what you are looking for. There is still no guarantee as I truly believe (and respect) that just because client A has a certain experience with masseur X that doesn't mean client B will. There still shouldn't be a night-and-day difference in experience (if a guy advertises erotic massage, one should reasonably expect something more than a mediocre rub from a clothed guy), but just because a masseur goes beyond mutual touch and a happy ending with one client doesn't mean he's going to do that with every client. There is still such a thing as chemistry between the masseur and client so that's why I'm accepting of the notion that "your mileage may vary" is reasonable.

 

3. If you really want an escort experience, book an escort from an escort website. If you want to book an erotic massage with the option of negotiating more once you are there, then look for guys who have both masseur and escort ads or, again, have a conversation with the guy before hand about your desires. This can be tricky if you don't have a clear indication that the guy is open to more, though, so I would personally be hesitant to have that conversation with someone I've never met unless I know based on his ads or reputation on this site that he's open to more than massage.

Edited June 24, 2020 by maninsoma