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I’ve found that those you have a relationship with offer you a lower rate than if you’re suggesting traveling together as you’re first time together. I’ve also found some guys will expect the ON rate multiplied over the trip while others give a lesser rate. I think it’s all over the board...

 

Sounds about right.

 

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I think that if you search the threads @DrownedBoy you'll find this topic has been discussed several times. 4 key points before I answer your question.

 

1. IME of many trips with various companions (paid and unpaid), communication beforehand is critical - you must spell out what you expect to do, what your plans are, what frequency of sex you expect etc.

 

2. You MUST have at least one overnight date with a guy before you go on a week‘s trip together. Otherwise, the risks are too great that you’ll be arguing and incompatible and spoil an expensive trip. And at least, you’ll know whether he snores.

 

3. I have a fondness for muscleboys so I always chose a hotel with a good gym or got day-passes to a great gym nearby. And be sure to allow the guy to have a couple of hours on his own each day.

 

4. It‘s easier to do this when you’ve already had an overnight date with the guy, but I’d spell out what I expected sexually. For me as a top, I’d say I enjoy having full sex for an hour or more late afternoon, then shower and change for dinner; I’d like to have a quick bout of sex before sleeping; and I like to get sucked off in the morning before breakfast.

 

Now as to rate, I’d always ask the guy to say what he felt was fair. I never had someone say 7xOvernight Rate. Generally I paid 2-3xOvernight Rate. Sometimes I paid nothing more than spending money locally. This had little to do with me but rather that I enjoy trips to glamorous places and longhaul destinations so the guy was often very keen to go with me. Examples include:

a superbly athletic guy who was keen on winter sports so he asked for nothing when I took him to the best Swiss resort one Winter;

several muscleboys (including a BelAmi guy) who wanted Winter Sun and travelled to Cape Town with me for $700 a week;

a muscleboy who was desperate to visit Australia with me for a month and asked for only $200 a week but suggested we have full sex only 3 nights a week (It worked quite well, and he used to surprise me with morning blowjobs to completion)

 

Of course, the good guys who were very obliging and keen to please me in bed always received gifts and extra benefits (eg surprise early morning surf trip for the keen surfer, private off-piste guide for 2 whole days for the expert skier, surprise short safari etc)

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Hey, for anyone who has any experience here:

 

I'm thinking on going on a vacation and inviting a professional to accompany me and see the sites during the day, and have fun at nights. What would I expect to pay for a week?

 

Assume I'm covering all hotel, travel, and food options, and it's a decent hotel.

 

Considering you contacted folks who asked for your stats and didn't reply I would suggest you meet him first for 1 or 2 hours, take him out to dinner and if you get along with him ask him how much he wants for a week with you in X place during X dates.

 

Having an overnight as suggested by @MscleLovr would be ideal but if you're saving your pennies for a week and wondering about budget a 1,200/1,500 overnight just for testing might be too much. Your call!

 

Again overnights are ideal but I would stick to the guys you already met. What if you make things less complicated and simply talk to them about a week together?

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Something I had problems with is that provider was overly providing on his off times. What I mean is he did business in our room when he had a break. I was shocked but didn’t say anything since he was technically on a break. Not sure if others had problems with this but it was rather annoying. Fortunately, our room was a suite so there was another room for me to sit and wait!

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I believe there's an echo in this room ;)

 

There is no standard rate for escort appointments: This is something you need to discuss directly with the guys you're considering and only them, as it's their prerogative and your ultimate choice.

 

What I can suggest is that, for top-tier guys, a nice hotel or exotic location isn't usually something factored into a rate.

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I think that if you search the threads @DrownedBoy you'll find this topic has been discussed several times. 4 key points before I answer your question.

 

1. IME of many trips with various companions (paid and unpaid), communication beforehand is critical - you must spell out what you expect to do, what your plans are, what frequency of sex you expect etc.

 

2. You MUST have at least one overnight date with a guy before you go on a week‘s trip together. Otherwise, the risks are too great that you’ll be arguing and incompatible and spoil an expensive trip. And at least, you’ll know whether he snores.

 

3. I have a fondness for muscleboys so I always chose a hotel with a good gym or got day-passes to a great gym nearby. And be sure to allow the guy to have a couple of hours on his own each day.

 

4. It‘s easier to do this when you’ve already had an overnight date with the guy, but I’d spell out what I expected sexually. For me as a top, I’d say I enjoy having full sex for an hour or more late afternoon, then shower and change for dinner; I’d like to have a quick bout of sex before sleeping; and I like to get sucked off in the morning before breakfast.

 

Now as to rate, I’d always ask the guy to say what he felt was fair. I never had someone say 7xOvernight Rate. Generally I paid 2-3xOvernight Rate. Sometimes I paid nothing more than spending money locally. This had little to do with me but rather that I enjoy trips to glamorous places and longhaul destinations so the guy was often very keen to go with me. Examples include:

a superbly athletic guy who was keen on winter sports so he asked for nothing when I took him to the best Swiss resort one Winter;

several muscleboys (including a BelAmi guy) who wanted Winter Sun and travelled to Cape Town with me for $700 a week;

a muscleboy who was desperate to visit Australia with me for a month and asked for only $200 a week but suggested we have full sex only 3 nights a week (It worked quite well, and he used to surprise me with morning blowjobs to completion)

 

Of course, the good guys who were very obliging and keen to please me in bed always received gifts and extra benefits (eg surprise early morning surf trip for the keen surfer, private off-piste guide for 2 whole days for the expert skier, surprise short safari etc)

This is definitely some solid advice. I’m gonna use this as a guide for myself if I decide to do an extended trip with a guy

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Very good advice. Working with regulars you're familiar with provides not only better data on whether you'll get along, but often a more decent rate. It took very little time to work something agreeable out.

 

Thank you!

 

Just talk to your favorite regulars: "Would you like to go X with me for a weekend for $ X? You're more likely to get a better price from someone who wants to keep you as repeated business while a new guy you contact out of the blue might even block you on RM.

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Very good advice. Working with regulars you're familiar with provides not only better data on whether you'll get along, but often a more decent rate. It took very little time to work something agreeable out.

 

Thank you!

 

Just talk to your favorite regulars: "Would you like to go X with me for a weekend for $ X? You're more likely to get a better price from someone who wants to keep you as repeated business while a new guy you contact out of the blue might even block you on RM.

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Great thread. I do some cruising and also go to spots like Provincetown and Fort Lauderdale. When I cruise the person I see and travels with me I don't expect to provide a daily rate as I pay for everything and that includes suite cruise rooms but give usually a flat rate. Others, who just want to have fun I give spending money and enjoy the free vacation.

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I was going to travel to cdmx with a guy that wanted to go there. I go there several times a year. All he wanted was his travel expenses paid and meals. Nothing more. Unfortunately due to Covid we had to cancel the trip. :(

 

Just as an FYi, this is not the norm arrangement for most escorts

 

PS: ... But damned awesome if you can make it happen :)

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Hey, for anyone who has any experience here:

 

I'm thinking on going on a vacation and inviting a professional to accompany me and see the sites during the day, and have fun at nights. What would I expect to pay for a week?

 

Assume I'm covering all hotel, travel, and food options, and it's a decent hotel.

I would say, communication is key when it comes to setting expectations. Also, I would advise you to do your research and make sure that the person you are going to hire for an extended time has actual experience in catering to clientele who prefers extended appointments. Also a good sign if he has reviews from extended appointments where you can read his feedback left by clients like you.

 

It is preferable to test the waters with a shorter appointment first to see if there is a chemistry however I understand if that cannot be done sometimes. Also, remember that spending a week with someone vs. 1 hour can make a huge difference. It is a big expense and you want to make sure that your hard-earned money is spent on someone who can reciprocate it with delivering you fond memories that you can recall even years later.

 

Enjoy your time!

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I would say, communication is key when it comes to setting expectations. Also, I would advise you to do your research and make sure that the person you are going to hire for an extended time has actual experience in catering to clientele who prefers extended appointments. Also a good sign if he has reviews from extended appointments where you can read his feedback left by clients like you.

 

It is preferable to test the waters with a shorter appointment first to see if there is a chemistry however I understand if that cannot be done sometimes. Also, remember that spending a week with someone vs. 1 hour can make a huge difference. It is a big expense and you want to make sure that your hard-earned money is spent on someone who can reciprocate it with delivering you fond memories that you can recall even years later.

 

Enjoy your time!

I agree with Peter. The only thing I will add is maybe do a few evenings out with the guy you are interested in going on a long trip with. A lot times by these evenings out you can get a feeling of who the person is. Also by doing an overnight you can find out if this is the person I will trust. I am glad I have found guys who I trust with me overnight or for an extended period of time.

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I just thought of something else. Ask the person questions about the place you are going on your trip but do not give the hint you are going there and hear the answers they give you. A lot of times you find people have a vast knowledge about these places and at times they do not.

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From both a provider and client's position, a few factors can come into play.

 

If both client and escort have an existing relationship and one looks at it strictly through the lens of a business, would this trip at a reasonable cost keep the client happy and returning? Would an inflated $ value create resentment and fracture an already steady arrangement of payment for time? Or is cost not an issue for the client? Factors such as booking frequency, mutually keeping appointments, and other factors based solely on the nitty gritty of a service provider's business may come into play. However, if this is a regular it would be assumed that both client and provider are comfortable with their appointment dynamics.

 

If this is an established client/provider pair and overnights (as a test) have been booked prior to any extended travel, one would assume that discussions of travel locations, vacations, hot spots, etc have been had and both client and provider know the likes and dislikes, places they'd both love to go, etc. This is small talk and any regular client/provider would already know this (hopefully) prior to serious talk of extended time together and discussions would likely grow organically.

 

Now comes Communication. With an overnight being a smashing success and both parties open to considering some extended time together, this is where communication comes in. What do both parties expect? Inexperienced providers (imo) have no place going on trips without having a clear idea of what the CLIENT is expecting and if those expectations can or cannot be fulfilled, and inversely so.

 

Everything ranging from:

 

  • Increased or decreased discretion threshold (been there, its amazing how some people really open up in a safe foreign environment other than their home base).
  • What the client needs behind closed doors.
  • Allocation of time for both parties to do other activities; gym, doing laps in the resort pool, meditating, etc and boundaries mutually agreed upon.
  • Cost (if applicable). Will the client cover travel, hotel, food? Assuming the provider has access to native currency as discretionary, it is still a conversation worth having to eliminate any surprises and perhaps to even surprise a client with a little gesture.

There are definitely more points to cover if we're digging deep into the dynamics of extended time, but the one thing I would NEVER do is hire blind without having some experience with the provider. Skype calls, snaps, etc do not count. Time spent with the provider counts. Likewise with a provider knowing his client. ?

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