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Clients who do not like cum, please do not reply to this thread. Also, do not hijack. Thanks.

  • Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  • Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  • Is there any common practice or industry standard about this when hiring?
  • Do they have the right not to cum since they might see other client next in the same day?
  • What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?

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Clients who do not like cum, please do not reply to this thread. Also, do not hijack. Thanks.

  • Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  • Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  • Is there any common practice or industry standard about this when hiring?
  • Do they have the right not to cum since they might see other client next in the same day?
  • What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?

I do not get annoyed, but I find it far more satisfying when we both have a release. Call me old fashioned if you must!

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I don't think there really is a "standard" so communicate your expectations ahead of time.

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Clients who do not like cum, please do not reply to this thread. Also, do not hijack. Thanks.

  • Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  • Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  • Is there any common practice or industry standard about this when hiring?
  • Do they have the right not to cum since they might see other client next in the same day?
  • What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?

just state your preferences/what you are looking for when first contacting, but keep in general terms for legality.

Example: Im looking to bottom and cum while swallowing a nice thick load...

Post orgasm blues may come into play so if a client cums before me, I let their body language usually speak for itself whether they still want me to cum afterwards....as a side note this is why I stress booking in advance...sometimes I feel I annoy clients actually for wanting to cum multiple times myself before I leave lol!

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just state your preferences/what you are looking for when first contacting, but keep in general terms for legality.

Example: Im looking to bottom and cum while swallowing a nice thick load...

Post orgasm blues may come into play so if a client cums before me, I let their body language usually speak for itself whether they still want me to cum afterwards....as a side note this is why I stress booking in advance...sometimes I feel I annoy clients actually for wanting to cum multiple times myself before I leave lol!

Kid, are you a cum machine? (jks) But, anyways, do you cum by default like @GregM or it depends?

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Kid, are you a cum machine? (jks) But, anyways, do you cum by default like @GregM or it depends?

IF I can get away with saving it and still leaving my partner satisfied I will, that way it builds up for the next person, if you happen to be that next person I am cumming twice probably:p

For me at least it boils down to not if I can (I never schedule appointments if I wouldnt be able to) or want to (I always want to btw) but how much fluid I have in the tank or need in the tank for later.

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IF I can get away with saving it and still leaving my partner satisfied I will, that way it builds up for the next person, if you happen to be that next person I am cumming twice probably:p

For me at least it boils down to not if I can (I never schedule appointments if I wouldnt be able to) or want to (I always want to btw) but how much fluid I have in the tank or need in the tank for later.

Thanks for that honesty and transparency. It teaches me that now I have to keep that in mind. I had a bad experience last week. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't cum easily, or at least not from oral stimulation, and insinuated it might require additional charge. By the time he disclosed this we had almost spent the entire hour we scheduled.

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Clients who do not like cum, please do not reply to this thread. Also, do not hijack. Thanks.

  • Do you get annoyed when the provider doesn't cum in the session?
  • Do you think it's a given, or it has to be discussed / agreed beforehand, always?
  • Is there any common practice or industry standard about this when hiring?
  • Do they have the right not to cum since they might see other client next in the same day?
  • What's the best way to handle this issue if you do want (his) cum in the end?

I’ve been using “selective companionship” for at least 30 years. Some have cum, some have not. I was disappointed but it was my fault not requesting in advance. For that point on, I request it in our negotiations. Sometimes I’m specific - if it’s BB, I request breeding, sometimes it’s swallowing. If we are spending the night, I might ask for both. Sometimes I’m less specific - can you come? Sometimes he’ll ask “do you want me to cum?” You simply have to start the conversation.

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Thanks for that honesty and transparency. It teaches me that now I have to keep that in mind. I had a bad experience last week. The guy blatantly told me he doesn't cum easily, or at least not from oral stimulation, and insinuated it might require additional charge. By the time he disclosed this we had almost spent the entire hour we scheduled.

I think it was someone else as well who talked about oral stimulation of as escort to make them cum...keep in mind everyones sensitivity levels are different...I rarely cum from oral...even if its very good I am more likely to thrash around for eternity before cumming, but if i can control the sensations by intercourse or jacking off I can definitely bring myself to the edge and let a mouth finish the job:)

As far as charging extra...thats a semi complicated discussion and psychology to marketing...because yes, if an escort cums, that lessens our abilty to perform adequately with someone else or take another appointment in general, so compensation may be asked for in essense by upcharging...."service" oriented providers are more likely to upcharge..."experience" oriented providers will be less likely to upcharge

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Most comments here talk about discussing expectations with the provider. How do you deal with those who don’t want to discuss details before the meeting?

At least try to talk about it during the session. If not that than it’s the luck of the draw.

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Most comments here talk about discussing expectations with the provider. How do you deal with those who don’t want to discuss details before the meeting?

I myself prefer to not discuss details beforehand...especially if specific such as "will YOU be able to top ME and feed ME YOUR cum?"

Describing yourself/your interests will go a long way at the initial contact " Hi, total bottom here looking for a top that will go gently/hard and feed me their cum towards the end. If you think we would be a good match to meet, let me know your availability, etc"...

 

The first part I am responding with "I am sure you will leave our time completely satisfied" as to not be overly incriminating

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Describing yourself/your interests will go a long way at the initial contact " Hi, total bottom here looking for a top that will go gently/hard and feed me their cum towards the end. If you think we would be a good match to meet, let me know your availability, etc"...

 

 

My script is even less incriminating. “Hi, I’m a total bottom who likes kissing and cum in my mouth. What do you think about that?”

 

Sometimes I’d say, “I’ve seen the ‘Into’ portion of your ad and I’m interested in the first three items. Is the info updated on your ad?”

 

I get a lot of, “I don’t discuss over text (or the phone)”

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My script is even less incriminating. “Hi, I’m a total bottom who likes kissing and cum in my mouth. What do you think about that?”

 

Sometimes I’d say, “I’ve seen the ‘Into’ portion of your ad and I’m interested in the first three items. Is the info updated on your ad?”

 

I get a lot of, “I don’t discuss over text (or the phone)”

Sorry about those instances then :(

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I don’t get annoyed if my partner doesn’t cum. Disappointed though. I prefer to feel like I am making love rather than being serviced. I don’t bring it up beforehand because it is not a deal breaker. No kissing is a deal breaker

 

There are things that happen with a provider that makes me lose my already very low self-esteem. Him not being able to cum is one of them along with him not being able to get it up or keep it up. I do appreciate those who really put in the effort.

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There are things that happen with a provider that makes me lose my already very low self-esteem. Not being able to cum is one of them along with him not being able to get it up or keep it up. I do appreciate those who really put in the effort.

Let's pray and thank God for chemlove, also known as Viagra ?

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My script is even less incriminating. “Hi, I’m a total bottom who likes kissing and cum in my mouth. What do you think about that?”

 

Sometimes I’d say, “I’ve seen the ‘Into’ portion of your ad and I’m interested in the first three items. Is the info updated on your ad?”

 

I get a lot of, “I don’t discuss over text (or the phone)”

 

I guess you deal with smart guys!

 

There are things that happen with a provider that makes me lose my already very low self-esteem. Not being able to cum is one of them along with him not being able to get it up or keep it up. I do appreciate those who really put in the effort.

 

it's understandable and thank you for sharing. Unfortunately Viagra delays the orgasm, besides you don't know if the guy has someone else scheduled for later or he just came. Busy days do happen to escorts.

 

In your place I would offer a generous tip to make him save it for you.

 

I'm not a "minute man", I always say that if I was straight I would be successful because even when I was young I would take my time to cum. Maybe that's why I understand why for some escorts ejaculating with a client might be difficult.

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just state your preferences/what you are looking for when first contacting, but keep in general terms for legality.

Example: Im looking to bottom and cum while swallowing a nice thick load...

Post orgasm blues may come into play so if a client cums before me, I let their body language usually speak for itself whether they still want me to cum afterwards....as a side note this is why I stress booking in advance...sometimes I feel I annoy clients actually for wanting to cum multiple times myself before I leave lol!

Where’s the LOVE button? Still in my ass?

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This thread just makes me want a cum filled session with multiple cummer @MrMattBig lol. As for this thread overall I’m in the category of please drench my face and mouth with your cum. Multiple cummers yes please. I do know what MrMatt is referring to with the post orgasm blues but I’m usually not affected by that if the escort is visually enjoying my cum before I get his. And if the escort is down to cum swap, even better although I have found not many are down for that. Understandable I guess

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I started seeing a bodybuilder for massage/muscle worship a couple months ago. I have my own agenda in these sessions, and I don’t expect or require a lot of interaction from “straight” muscle guys, at least at first. But as he gets more comfortable with me it’s been fun to see how far I can push his boundaries. He now lets me blow him—which he seems to enjoy!—but so far hasn’t cum; but after this last session he said he owed me a “protein shake”! So persistence pays off.

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