Poor pitiful me!

[Rick M]

I suppose it's the "covidity" at work, but come on! I see there are gentlemen out there making a living, or pretending to. I had reserved a substantial budget for "entertainment" this month, but I can't land a date. Either travel plans get screwed, or texts go unanswered. Yes, I am picky, but in more normal times I could find relief here and there. (Sometimes, too much in too short a time for me to handle.) I'm sick of so-called sheltering... It's a prison term!

[Rick M]

I suppose it's the "covidity" at work, but come on! I see there are gentlemen out there making a living, or pretending to. I had reserved a substantial budget for "entertainment" this month, but I can't land a date. Either travel plans get screwed, or texts go unanswered. Yes, I am picky, but in more normal times I could find relief here and there. (Sometimes, too much in too short a time for me to handle.) I'm sick of so-called sheltering... It's a prison term!

[Smurof]

You're not alone. Depending on whether or not you have income still coming in, you can fulfill a fantasy of seeing multiple men in a shorter time frame, or perhaps trying two at once - my libido wasn't at the level of my cockiness when I tried that experience.

[Rick M]

Yes, but if I can't finagle one provider, how will I accomplish two? (Doubling up doesn't appeal to me, either.)

[cany10011]

Rick, in nyc, there are so many available providers and several of my regulars have been texting me since last week to make appointments... my building still does not allow for guests... so not sure when that will happen. Where are you located??

[Rick M]

The sexual desert otherwise known as Washington, DC.

[Eggman]

The sexual desert otherwise known as Washington, DC.

 

Another frustrated District resident here

[Eggman]

DC here also... I know of at least one masseur who is doing massages and tantric is a good description https://rentmasseur.com/TantricWilliam

There are some other DC masseurs listed on rentmasseur I've been to before. Ask away..

 

Thanks Penn7. just got back from Larry's Lounge.

[Rick M]

Thanks Penn7. just got back from Larry's Lounge.

Ah! Is Larry's back open? Must check it out later this week....

[Eggman]

Ah! Is Larry's back open? Must check it out later this week....

 

Larry's outdoor patio is open; no inside service. It's so good to start feeling normal again.

[+ Axiom2001]

I suppose it's the "covidity" at work, but come on! I see there are gentlemen out there making a living, or pretending to. I had reserved a substantial budget for "entertainment" this month, but I can't land a date. Either travel plans get screwed, or texts go unanswered. Yes, I am picky, but in more normal times I could find relief here and there. (Sometimes, too much in too short a time for me to handle.) I'm sick of so-called sheltering... It's a prison term!

 

Rick, I don't want to put a damper on what you are experiencing or sounding judgmental, but everyone worldwide is affected by the COVID-19 virus/pandemic, which means that it is a time for "all of us" to adapt and attempt to make better on what's happening. Some escorts worldwide are not engaging in their usual fun activities in order to protect themselves as well as their clients and others. They're doing the responsible thing.

 

All of my previous activities (traveling, concerts, basketball tournaments, plays, getting with friends, sexual play, etc.) have been put on hold, too.

Because of this I, along with everyone else, have to "READJUST" to the best of my ability. In terms of sexual play-- I'm doing some viewing of good porn at both https://www.videos.com (gay porn) and https://pornhub.com. I know this is NOT the same as being with an actual man/men and enjoying his/their company, but it is a valid substitute.

 

When some modicum of normalcy comes about-- I will contact those escorts whom I've "scoped" during the past 3+ months along with my hot, go-to guy in San Francisco and allow them to fuck me into oblivion and....

 

Try to keep your chin up and focus on the positive in spite of feeling like a "prisoner," something that you definitely are not, for prison is one hell of a bitch. ...have only visited, but was unnecessarily arrested many years back for having a traffic ticket which had lingered unpaid. ...was arrested and handcuffed and jailed for two hours. That horrendous and unnecessary and unjust situation still vividly resonates with me to date, and by the way the arresting officer placed the handcuffs on me, I developed a pinched nerve that led to surgery and my being out of commission for some 6+ weeks.

 

*Glad that you found Larry's open, in part, and that that gave you the feeling of "normal." Unfortunately, for all of this world, there is NO MORE "normalcy" for any of us. It's going to be hard, but consciously we can make the adjustments. Take care!

Edited June 22, 2020 by Axiom2001

[marylander1940]

I suppose it's the "covidity" at work, but come on! I see there are gentlemen out there making a living, or pretending to. I had reserved a substantial budget for "entertainment" this month, but I can't land a date. Either travel plans get screwed, or texts go unanswered. Yes, I am picky, but in more normal times I could find relief here and there. (Sometimes, too much in too short a time for me to handle.) I'm sick of so-called sheltering... It's a prison term!

 

You have over 150 guys on R M in DC. The largest number of things all of this started. Many providers haven’t given a fuck and they have advertised no matter what. Even have been reviewed.