What percentage of masseurs have sex with their clients?

[LoveAGoodMassage]

My experience tells me about 30 percent. I actually had to tell one I wasn’t there for that.

[KrisParr]

Interesting question. I’ve received probably hundreds of massages over the years - everything from a hug to full-blown penetration. So, what defines “sex”? Deep kissing, BJ, anal massage, happy ending, nipple play, toe sucking, anal licking, etc. or is it defined as simply achieving orgasm? Just saying there’s a long list of activities that accompany a “massage” that can be defined as “sex”. I had a dude one time who was so adept at kissing that I climaxed just from that alone before the massage even started. Yes, I was much younger and was coming off a dry spell.

[+ sniper]

I think that answer is highly variable with where your are hiring them. From rentmasseur or masseurfinder I'd expect it's very high. At some spas it's very high. At other spas it's zero. You can usually get an idea from their marketing which type of establishment is. Probability is inversely proportional to the sticker price of the massage. The cheaper the spa massage, the more likely something is to happen(and you are expected to make up for that with the tip).

Also, frankly, the attractiveness of the client is probably a factor...I would think there are likely some masseurs who intend to do nothing but "legit" massage but if they get a Brad Pitt(or whatever their "type" is) on their table their resolve might weaken.

[LoveAGoodMassage]

Sex as in penetration.

[+ sniper]

That I'd expect pretty low unless they also advertise as escorts.

[PaulM]

From my experience very low with masseurs.....now bj's are a different story:)

[KrisParr]

Sex as in penetration.

 

ah, then the percentage I’d say is quite low

[+ sam.fitzpatrick]

Sex as in penetration.

 

My personal experience is 4%.

[orville]

Sex as in penetration.

I think what you really mean is "anything that makes you cum by direct stimulation of penis/ass" and in that case I would say (from my approaches) 80%. I would not see any of those prudes who have responded to me "I'm not a prostitute!", or those inadequate "straight" masseurs that barely apply some good pressure / stimulation where it counts. Especially, a masseur that advertises on rentmasseur and tells me he can't help me release, or he can but will charge me extra for that, is immediately discarded. If I wanted ONLY massage I would rather go to any classifieds website and look up for a masseur that will charge me a lot less for a purely therapeutic session.

[Madman]

Other than one masseur who no longer advertises on masseurfinder, I think I've cum with every single masseur I've hired off MF or RM. In terms of anal, as a guy who is actually not super into anal (I'm definitely more of a side ) I haven't actually had penetrative sex with any of them but I suspect I could have. Of the guys I've hired off MF or RM, I'd say I've engaged in some sort of reciprical activity with 2/3 of them and I'd say about 1/3 of them have cum themselves.

[jrbjcr]

yes, it is an interesting question!

For masseurs, I only expect a sensual massage, just make me feel good Most provide a handy, which is 90% of the time. Other than that usually not much more. Except late last year, there was one new guy I tried who started to massage my prostate with his dick lol

 

to flip it around, what percentage of clients have sex with their masseurs?

[maninsoma]

If you mean hiring someone for a massage, receiving an actual massage, and then the session includes penetration? In my experience, that has happened with a very small number of men. Far more men, particularly in my days of hiring from Craigslist, advertised "erotic massages" where the massage was perfunctory and the rest of the experience is really what they were marketing. A much higher percentage of those sessions ended in penetration.

[Guest JakeAsherXXX]

Only FOUR occasions out of the seven massages I've had led to full blown sex.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

From my experience, it’s more like 75%. I am a cocksucker so sex to me is getting teased with his bulge and cock and then able to fully drain him toward the end. My favs are those guys who figure me out and know they’ll have a repeat customer if everyone gets what they want. I love a legit massage with teasing. I had a guy in San Diego for 2-3 years. He got me right away. Great legit massage, teased me mercilessly during it, then told me to get off the table and on my knees. He’d take a hit of poppers, stick it under my nose and I’d drain him swallowing every drop. Perfect session that got better each time. Love those guys.

[Redwine56]

Only FOUR occasions out of the seven massages I've had led to full blown sex.

You are definitely batting above average. You must be doing something right or are just irresistible.

[Monarchy79]

Only about 3% of the massages I’ve ever received were totally therapeutic/non-sexual.

 

full blown intercourse has happened about a hand full of times. Full blown intercourse would have happened for half of the messages I’ve received.

 

I’m usually the one to stop it.

[Redwine56]

From my experience, it’s more like 75%. I am a cocksucker so sex to me is getting teased with his bulge and cock and then able to fully drain him toward the end. My favs are those guys who figure me out and know they’ll have a repeat customer if everyone gets what they want. I love a legit massage with teasing. I had a guy in San Diego for 2-3 years. He got me right away. Great legit massage, teased me mercilessly during it, then told me to get off the table and on my knees. He’d take a hit of poppers, stick it under my nose and I’d drain him swallowing every drop. Perfect session that got better each time. Love those guys.

Wow! That is remarkable. I can see that you live up to your name. Do you plan on placing any limitations on your MO during the pandemic?

[Dirks]

I go into a massage session not expecting to have full sex - if I wanted that to happen each time them I hire an escort. The pleasure for me is not knowing how things will turn out and if the mutual chemistry gets us both up for more than a very sensual massage. When it happens it usually some of the best sex I have had as it is unexpected and we are both pretty wound up by that point and really go for it.

[orville]

From my experience very low with masseurs.....now bj's are a different story:)

ah, then the percentage I’d say is quite low

Coincidentally, I posted a question about this topic in "The Lounge" forum but could hardly get direct responses as in "Yes" or "No". Do you think you could provide some feedback to it? I'm frankly shocked and what you are saying here kind of confirms what I concluded after several lockdown chat conversations with some of my favorite providers. Link here: Is this true?

[Onamission]

I am an older guy (59) and would not classify myself as someone that anyone would consider "hot". Also, I have only been getting massages for about 2 years. Nonetheless, my limited experience has provided about 2/3 of the time I either have had intercourse or been offered it. I am not really an anal guy, so I've often passed. Those same two-thirds have provided an oral happy ending. And I would also say my package isn't smoething overly exciting. I surprisingly think it's more based on petsonality and chemistry. What I lack in phyicality I make up for in personality. I think that's why my personal percentage is so high. I think everyone's percentage will be different based on that. Jm2c

[Guest JakeAsherXXX]

You are definitely batting above average. You must be doing something right or are just irresistible.

 

I got a small, tight hole and I smell good. No magic to it hahhaha.

[+ Letmeworshipit]

Wow! That is remarkable. I can see that you live up to your name. Do you plan on placing any limitations on your MO during the pandemic?

Of course. I have not had sex during this shutdown but not adverse to it completely. I mean, I guess it's conceivable that I could service someone in a controlled environment and maintain a semblance of safety. But, as I said, I have not indulged and don't plan to until things open up again.

[+ Nakedchi]

From my experience, it’s more like 75%. I am a cocksucker so sex to me is getting teased with his bulge and cock and then able to fully drain him toward the end. My favs are those guys who figure me out and know they’ll have a repeat customer if everyone gets what they want. I love a legit massage with teasing. I had a guy in San Diego for 2-3 years. He got me right away. Great legit massage, teased me mercilessly during it, then told me to get off the table and on my knees. He’d take a hit of poppers, stick it under my nose and I’d drain him swallowing every drop. Perfect session that got better each time. Love those guys.

 

I've had similar experiences, including in legit spas. I'm fairly open in my flirting and most guys picked up on it after a session or two. If they were open to play, things happened, if not, no worries. I'm one of those guys who believes a great massage should end with a happy ending for one or both of us, preferably more than just a hand job.

[jharrison10343]

Of the 12-13 I've seen only one has offered full sex (I passed). Have gotten surprise BJs from a third though. So anyway, the numbers breakdown:

 

HE: 85%

Oral: 38%

Anal: 7%

Edited May 9, 2020 by jharrison10343

[Chad Constantine]

My experience tells me about 30 percent. I actually had to tell one I wasn’t there for that.

 

Why cant good things happen to me too lol.