Do escorts prefer regular clients?

[Guest SFJEFF]

Before I met Derek in San Francisco, I had been seeing Federico regularly from Miami. While he was OK, if I hadn't tried something new, I would never have met Derek, who is absolutely awesome and I thought that Federico was great. But sometimes trying something new gets something better. Although I find it hard to believe that I can find anything better than Derek :-)

[Guest SFJEFF]

Before I met Derek in San Francisco, I had been seeing Federico regularly from Miami. While he was OK, if I hadn't tried something new, I would never have met Derek, who is absolutely awesome and I thought that Federico was great. But sometimes trying something new gets something better. Although I find it hard to believe that I can find anything better than Derek :-)

[Bilbo]

Since you are not married to the guy, and are only sampling one or two facets of his personality/persona, I would predict that you will find someone who hits you as even better than Derrek in about two years or less. ;-)

[Bilbo]

Since you are not married to the guy, and are only sampling one or two facets of his personality/persona, I would predict that you will find someone who hits you as even better than Derrek in about two years or less. ;-)

[Guest allansmith63]

Bilbo - question for you.

 

You're suggesting a man who engages an escort only gets to know a small part or two of that person's personality, and that someone even better will come along in a while. Do you not think that you know a person better than just on the surface if you see him regularly?

 

I wanted a regular escort for the simple fact that I wanted more than the furtive, anonymous sex that I was finding wherever and whenever I could. I chose Matt, because he was willing to invest the time in our getting to know each other before we met for the first time. Now, I feel that everytime I am with Matt, I get to know him better - I'm starting to know what makes him tick, what his worries are, what pisses him off, what pleases him, what displeases him. I guess I disagree with you when you say that (and I'm freewheeling here with your words) there's always someone better down the road.

 

A.

[Guest allansmith63]

Bilbo - question for you.

 

You're suggesting a man who engages an escort only gets to know a small part or two of that person's personality, and that someone even better will come along in a while. Do you not think that you know a person better than just on the surface if you see him regularly?

 

I wanted a regular escort for the simple fact that I wanted more than the furtive, anonymous sex that I was finding wherever and whenever I could. I chose Matt, because he was willing to invest the time in our getting to know each other before we met for the first time. Now, I feel that everytime I am with Matt, I get to know him better - I'm starting to know what makes him tick, what his worries are, what pisses him off, what pleases him, what displeases him. I guess I disagree with you when you say that (and I'm freewheeling here with your words) there's always someone better down the road.

 

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[Bilbo]

I didn't really mean that there's someone better down the road, but that down the road someone will seem better. One hires an escort when one doesn't really want a relationship, it seems to me. True, it took around 3 or 4 years for me to get so tired of one of my clients I told him to take a vacation from me. But "they" always say that if anything, relationships included, don't grow, they stagnate and then wither. You say that you know some of what ticks him off. Do you know what ticks him off about you? Have you had your first real good argument yet? Do you intend for this relationship to go beyond the courting or honeymoon phase? I wouldn't, if I was paying for it. But if there is a limit on the relationship, when you reach that limit, then you will be ready for a new relationship to begin, and you will find that the pubic grass is greener (ugh - but you know what I mean) in someone else's lap.

[Bilbo]

I didn't really mean that there's someone better down the road, but that down the road someone will seem better. One hires an escort when one doesn't really want a relationship, it seems to me. True, it took around 3 or 4 years for me to get so tired of one of my clients I told him to take a vacation from me. But "they" always say that if anything, relationships included, don't grow, they stagnate and then wither. You say that you know some of what ticks him off. Do you know what ticks him off about you? Have you had your first real good argument yet? Do you intend for this relationship to go beyond the courting or honeymoon phase? I wouldn't, if I was paying for it. But if there is a limit on the relationship, when you reach that limit, then you will be ready for a new relationship to begin, and you will find that the pubic grass is greener (ugh - but you know what I mean) in someone else's lap.

[Guest allansmith63]

LAST EDITED ON Aug-29-00 AT 07:40PM (EST)[p]Bilbo, thank you for raising those questions for me. You're bang on - the questions beg answers.

 

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[Guest allansmith63]

LAST EDITED ON Aug-29-00 AT 07:40PM (EST)[p]Bilbo, thank you for raising those questions for me. You're bang on - the questions beg answers.

 

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[Matt_Vancouver]

so where are your answers then?

Allan don't you go start looking in someone elses lap for a replacement for Dickzilla, I've got everything you need and more: )

who's yo daddy??

Matt

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Matt_Vancouver]

so where are your answers then?

Allan don't you go start looking in someone elses lap for a replacement for Dickzilla, I've got everything you need and more: )

who's yo daddy??

Matt

http://go.to/mattsplace

matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Guest Nice Guy]

I don't need a Daddy, I have one! Each gentleman I see on a regular basis gives me something. Something more than dickzilla. (speaking in generalities, the word was used above and works I guess) I have one regular who IS my Daddy. I have one who is and was my BOY. I have one now who is my equal, Mister. No roll playing here. Knowing someone from head to toe in the Biblical sense is fine. But knowing someone from heart to soul to mind is better! It's the total package. SO if we need regulars, and we do, I don't think one will always do the trick. I love my boy, and he loves me. Mind you I said loves, not IN Love. My Daddy loves me as well. He guides, teaches, nertures. My equal, well that is ment to be seen. He is the balancing force. The realistic one. Understated, suttle, secure in himself, yet very volnerable. He needs you as much as you need him. That is the beauty of seeing someone on a regular basis. Both parties start to serve the other. Both parties learn from each other. And both parties are secure in each other. And if your really lucky, you like each other. What a deal!!!! You get all the tea in china, and you don't have to pick up after them, or share the closet or wash their clothes. WOW, now that's a great way to live!.....for some.

[Guest Nice Guy]

I don't need a Daddy, I have one! Each gentleman I see on a regular basis gives me something. Something more than dickzilla. (speaking in generalities, the word was used above and works I guess) I have one regular who IS my Daddy. I have one who is and was my BOY. I have one now who is my equal, Mister. No roll playing here. Knowing someone from head to toe in the Biblical sense is fine. But knowing someone from heart to soul to mind is better! It's the total package. SO if we need regulars, and we do, I don't think one will always do the trick. I love my boy, and he loves me. Mind you I said loves, not IN Love. My Daddy loves me as well. He guides, teaches, nertures. My equal, well that is ment to be seen. He is the balancing force. The realistic one. Understated, suttle, secure in himself, yet very volnerable. He needs you as much as you need him. That is the beauty of seeing someone on a regular basis. Both parties start to serve the other. Both parties learn from each other. And both parties are secure in each other. And if your really lucky, you like each other. What a deal!!!! You get all the tea in china, and you don't have to pick up after them, or share the closet or wash their clothes. WOW, now that's a great way to live!.....for some.

[Guest Jake]

Wow ... and I thought it was all about a blow job!

[Guest Jake]

Wow ... and I thought it was all about a blow job!

[Guest Quinte]

When done right, it often is a lot more than a BJ

 

Quinte DuSoleil

nubiandreams@hotmail.com

[Guest Quinte]

When done right, it often is a lot more than a BJ

 

Quinte DuSoleil

nubiandreams@hotmail.com

[Guest allansmith63]

Matt, I was hoping no one would notice I hadn't answered any of the questions :o

 

Like Nice Guy below, I need a guy to be my daddy, my boy and most especially, my equal. I am lucky enough to have found those all rolled into one incredible package. Matt, I may look in other guys laps, but it will just be window-shopping! :-)

 

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[Guest allansmith63]

Matt, I was hoping no one would notice I hadn't answered any of the questions :o

 

Like Nice Guy below, I need a guy to be my daddy, my boy and most especially, my equal. I am lucky enough to have found those all rolled into one incredible package. Matt, I may look in other guys laps, but it will just be window-shopping! :-)

 

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[Guest Nice Guy]

Thank you Q !! Your right !! See you in Sept. Lets decorate something

... OH, and A, not always wise to put all your eggs in one basket... tried that once, leaves very little room for growth.

NG

[Guest Nice Guy]

Thank you Q !! Your right !! See you in Sept. Lets decorate something

... OH, and A, not always wise to put all your eggs in one basket... tried that once, leaves very little room for growth.

NG

[Guest allansmith63]

Hi, Nice Guy

 

I guess I'm perfectly content to leave all of my eggs in Matt's basket (so to speak). Yes, I may be taking a risk, but I like risk, and seeing only Matt as an escort is a risk I'm prepared to live with. Thank you, though for the advice. Judging from a few of your posts, you're well acquainted with Matt, as well. We'll have to compare notes or something one day.

 

Cheers, NG.

[Guest allansmith63]

Hi, Nice Guy

 

I guess I'm perfectly content to leave all of my eggs in Matt's basket (so to speak). Yes, I may be taking a risk, but I like risk, and seeing only Matt as an escort is a risk I'm prepared to live with. Thank you, though for the advice. Judging from a few of your posts, you're well acquainted with Matt, as well. We'll have to compare notes or something one day.

 

Cheers, NG.

[Guest Nice Guy]

Allan

Your welcome for the advise. However I would never kiss and tell! You should be pleased that Matt doesn't either! How lucky you are to have him inhouse (Vancouver) so to speak. Sorry I have been keeping him out of town so much, so to speak. Should we clone him? You know he is loving this attention, LOL, and both of us will never hear the end of it.... So Matt, see you in a week or so. Oh and yes, Allan... get a pool! He has turned into a little Ester Williams!!