First Time Surprise - Extreme Grower !

[orville]

How is this even possible?! I'm amazed! Has anyone had a similar experience?

 

Before meeting this married straight guy, he sent a picture of what seemed a 6-to-7" cock.

When we met he took off his pants and underwear and laid down on the bed.

I tried to hide my disappointment at a flaccid worm that wasn't bigger than my thumb: 2.5" max.

The only big thing there were his balls but it's not like I was there to "suck balls" only.

I pretended to check around so if I found anything suspicious "in there", I could call it off.

The guy started showing sorrow asking with a shy voice if everything was ok.

We planned this for too long. I felt pity for him and started blowing ( something I will never regret ),

expecting to finish him off quickly or call it off earlier myself ( I couldn't be more wrong )

In less than 10 minutes the worm grew very slowly and reached past my tonsils, probably 6.5-to-7"

It never got super thick but thick enough to give me a nice mouthful.

We kept playing for about 30 minutes and I even had to jerk him off because wife was calling.

I was not prepared for this geyser of 10-to-12 cum-ropes hidden in his balls. Total Mess.

 

I've always avoided growers thinking they never grow much. Maybe, all this time I've been wrong?

 

The cock in this [ VIDEO ▶ ] is cut, but his grew longer. He also has those thick hairy legs, maybe a pattern?

Edited April 23, 2020 by orville

[+ Gar1eth]

If he knew he was a grower, I wonder why he sounded so shy. I hope he 'perked up' when you showed him how much you enjoyed his cock.

 

Gman

[Monarchy79]

I’ve never judged a dick by what it looks like soft ??

[+ sniper]

A lot of the "showers" just get hard not any bigger.

[orville]

If he knew he was a grower, I wonder why he sounded so shy. I hope he 'perked up' when you showed him how much you enjoyed his cock.

 

Gman

I'm under the impression most guys, especially the straight, are in general insecure of their manhood and I can see how he could have been turned off by some women bitching at his flaccid state. Maybe a reason to turn to gay guys who could be more appreciative and caring about his needs.

[orville]

I’ve never judged a dick by what it looks like soft ??

I was disappointed because in more than one occasion I've been tricked by guys sending me pictures very different from the reality. The famous internet inches. I typically get angry and send them off.

Edited April 23, 2020 by orville

[orville]

A lot of the "showers" just get hard not any bigger.

Thanks for the comment. I just realized that I originally meant grower. I just fixed the title of my post. This guy is definitely a grower. One of the biggest sexual surprises I've had in my life.

[orville]

A lot of the "showers" just get hard not any bigger.

I would agree. So far I've enjoyed more of a cock that remains big for my hands to play with after ejaculation. But now I'm not so sure ?

[jjkrkwood]

How is this even possible?! I'm amazed! Has anyone had a similar experience?

 

Before meeting this married straight guy, he sent a picture of what seemed a 6-to-7" cock.

When we met he took off his pants and underwear and laid down on the bed.

I tried to hide my disappointment at a flaccid worm that wasn't bigger than my thumb: 2.5" max.

The only big thing there were his balls but it's not like I was there to "suck balls" only.

I pretended to check around so if I found anything suspicious "in there", I could call it off.

The guy started showing sorrow asking with a shy voice if everything was ok.

We planned this for too long. I felt pity for him and started blowing ( something I will never regret ),

expecting to finish him off quickly or call it off earlier myself ( I couldn't be more wrong )

In less than 10 minutes the worm grew very slowly and reached past my tonsils, probably 6.5-to-7"

It never got super thick but thick enough to give me a nice mouthful.

We kept playing for about 30 minutes and I even had to jerk him off because wife was calling.

I was not prepared for this geyser of 10-to-12 cum-ropes hidden in his balls. Total Mess.

 

I've always avoided growers thinking they never grow much. Maybe, all this time I've been wrong?

 

The cock in this [ VIDEO ▶ ] is cut, but his grew longer. He also has those thick hairy legs, maybe a pattern?

 

All cocks GROW, just some more than others....

 

[+ Gar1eth]

If he knew he was a grower, I wonder why he sounded so shy. I hope he 'perked up' when you showed him how much you enjoyed his cock.

 

Gman

I'm under the impression most guys, especially the straight, are in general insecure of their manhood and I can see how he could have been turned off by some women bitching at his flaccid state. Maybe a reason to turn to gay guys who could be more appreciative and caring about his needs.

 

You think especially the straight? From personal experience, I can tell you that it's no fun being only 5". I've had multiple guys block me when they saw I was undersized.

 

Gman

[big-n-tall]

I'm under the impression most guys, especially the straight, are in general insecure of their manhood and I can see how he could have been turned off by some women bitching at his flaccid state. Maybe a reason to turn to gay guys who could be more appreciative and caring about his needs.

 

I don't know if most guys are insecure about their penis size, but for sure there is a percentage who compared themselves to porn actors and who are berated by their significant others to the point it makes them insecure.

 

A few months ago a bi/straightish porn actor (I communicate with on a regular basis) flat out asked me if he thought he had a small dick. (I haven't met him in person but I've seen him nude and of course seen his porn.) His penis is average, but it's pretty and a nicely shaped one for sure.

 

He didn't go into deep detail as to why he asked. However, he did mention something about his girlfriend making a comment about it. Which lead me to believe he thinks his dick size is affecting his relationship. Now, this guy is handsome as all get out and has an incredible body head to toe. I told him if his girl is complaining about him physically she was just being petty. I then told him I'd more than welcome the chance to make him feel appreciated in every way. He laughed at that.

 

He and I planned to meet this summer, but that was before the pandemic. So it may not happen. Sigh.

[orville]

All cocks GROW, just some more than others....

 

From 2.5" to 7" ? To me that was a big surprise.

[jjkrkwood]

From 2.5" to 7" ? To me that was a big surprise.

 

Anythings possible, if theres enough skin to stretch. The 2.5" must have been very retracted. If it was a tight 2.5" with no expandable skin, that cock wouldn't have gone anywhere, just stiffened up.

[orville]

You think especially the straight? From personal experience, I can tell you that it's no fun being only 5". I've had multiple guys block me when they saw I was undersized.

 

Gman

I don't think 5" is small, I would say average according to statistical studies. I say most straight are insecure cause when you ask, for most of them their size is "I don't know / I've never measured it", which we all know it's a lie, while most gay guys will more or less tell you upfront their approximate size. And with most straight guys I've been to, they often say "It grows more/bigger" in the middle of the action, I would assume fearing that "for some reason" the job would stop. I do know from my female friends that when it comes to relationships the only size they care about is the wallet, but if it's a nsa/ons they could be judgmental but for sure not as much as the size queen gays around. For sure those guys want an 8" cock (no matter gay or straight) but how often can they find that?

Edited April 23, 2020 by orville

[orville]

I don't know if most guys are insecure about their penis size, but for sure there is a percentage who compared themselves to porn actors and who are berated by their significant others to the point it makes them insecure.

 

A few months ago a bi/straightish porn actor (I communicate with on a regular basis) flat out asked me if he thought he had a small dick. (I haven't met him in person but I've seen him nude and of course seen his porn.) His penis is average, but it's pretty and a nicely shaped one for sure.

 

He didn't go into deep detail as to why he asked. However, he did mention something about his girlfriend making a comment about it. Which lead me to believe he thinks his dick size is affecting his relationship. Now, this guy is handsome as all get out and has an incredible body head to toe. I told him if his girl is complaining about him physically she was just being petty. I then told him I'd more than welcome the chance to make him feel appreciated in every way. He laughed at that.

 

He and I planned to meet this summer, but that was before the pandemic. So it may not happen. Sigh.

Tell me about it. This guy resourced to me basically because his wife is not into sucking him off. Not sure if the flaccid size has anything to do with it. Also most vajays are never the same after giving birth, maybe the feeling is no longer the same for both. I was frontal and told him: "she doesn't know what she's missing out". We are neighbours and even though it was just a 1-timer I hope I can get to see him again.

Edited April 23, 2020 by orville

[orville]

Anythings possible, if theres enough skin to stretch. The 2.5" must have been very retracted. If it was a tight 2.5" with no expandable skin, that cock wouldn't have gone anywhere, just stiffened up.

Well, this was my first time with this kind of experience. I lost my "big grower virginity"!

[LivingnLA]

The whole "grower vs shower" thing varies because of genetics, nutrition, and overall health. It's close to 25% being growers and 75% being showers in the nature paper below.

 

https://www.bustle.com/articles/115957-the-ideal-penis-in-history-by-each-obsessed-culture-nsfw

https://www.nature.com/articles/s41443-018-0053-3

https://www.thrillist.com/sex-dating/nation/actual-doctors-explain-the-science-behind-growers-vs-showers

 

And yes, some men are self conscious. They tend to be in environments where comparison is easy and often. Internet porn has created quite a few cases of anxiety that lead to ED, performance, and other issues.

 

https://jezebel.com/dear-penises-youre-great-really-dont-be-so-self-co-513815282

 

Regarding the size question, based on the best data we have, the average size of a human male's penis hasn't changed much over the decades it's been studied. It's a question of genetics, nutrition, and health during developmental years.

 

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-genital-size-men-idUSKBN0LZ1KK20150303

The average flaccid penis was 3.58 inches long (about 9 cm) and 3.66 inches in girth, while the average erect penis was 5.16 inches long (about 13 cm) and 4.59 inches in circumference (about 11.7 cm), according to results online March 2 in BJU International. Stretched flaccid length was often very similar to erect length, the authors found, which may be good news for men and their doctors since clinical measurements of the erect penis may not be necessary.

 

Comparing these measures to other physical qualities, like age, body mass index or foot size, the authors found little or no association. Erect penis length and overall height did seem to be related at least somewhat, however – taller men had longer penises.

Edited April 24, 2020 by LivingnLA

[+ LIguy]

Did we meet the same guy??? About 8 months ago met this hot 30 something Italian man and when he stripped down and laid on bed there was this uncut thimble jutting out from his nutsack. Now I admit I like small but this was SMALL but after some tender licking he grew very nicely. Told me his wife refuses to put him in her mouth. He stayed for 2 hours and got off 3 times. Damn this virus cause he wants more.

[Monarchy79]

Although I’ve been told I have a big dick (personally, I consider mine to be average),

 

I think it’s just pure cruelty to shame, laugh at, poke fun at, or be facetious to someone because they may have a smaller sized dick.

 

I’ve seen may comments in various forums, especially where self-proclaimed “size queens”, profess their loathing to guys with smaller appendages.

 

The real reason why I think it’s just purely cruel is that one can’t help what he was born with, and having witnessed the level of shame, low-self-esteem and confidence issues it gives guys, it’s extremely disturbing.

 

And witnessing how petty and immature guys are with “growers” should teach many guys a lesson in their shallow behavior.... that small flaccid dick you may see flopping around in a locker room that you may laugh or roll your eyes at, may grow into nice girthy inches of pleasure, which you may have missed out on.

 

The nitpicking over ones’ body parts with men gets extremely exhausting. From dick size, butt size, body weight, BMI, hair length, hair color, degree of overall hairiness, skin color, skin elasticity, race, muscularity, eye color, etc, no wonder so many gay men have issues with self image, and so many gay men who are actually pretty good looking don’t even realize it.

[jjkrkwood]

Although I’ve been told I have a big dick (personally, I consider mine to be average),

 

I think it’s just pure cruelty to shame, laugh at, poke fun at, or be facetious to someone because they may have a smaller sized dick.

 

I’ve seen may comments in various forums, especially where self-proclaimed “size queens”, profess their loathing to guys with smaller appendages.

 

The real reason why I think it’s just purely cruel is that one can’t help what he was born with, and having witnessed the level of shame, low-self-esteem and confidence issues it gives guys, it’s extremely disturbing.

 

And witnessing how petty and immature guys are with “growers” should teach many guys a lesson in their shallow behavior.... that small flaccid dick you may see flopping around in a locker room that you may laugh or roll your eyes at, may grow into nice girthy inches of pleasure, which you may have missed out on.

 

The nitpicking over ones’ body parts with men gets extremely exhausting. From dick size, butt size, body weight, BMI, hair length, hair color, degree of overall hairiness, skin color, skin elasticity, race, muscularity, eye color, etc, no wonder so many gay men have issues with self image, and so many gay men who are actually pretty good looking don’t even realize it.

 

I have been rejected many, many times for my size in sex clubs and hookups, and initially felt bad about it, but then I realized I actually do the same thing. Although I will never verbally "size shame" someone, but if they approach me at a sex club or baths and are less than "lenghty & girthy", I will turn em away. I know what I want and I like what I like.... So when it happen to ME, I just have to remember that other people like what they like and want what they want as well.....God Bless everyone !

[LivingnLA]

Although I’ve been told I have a big dick (personally, I consider mine to be average),

 

I think it’s just pure cruelty to shame, laugh at, poke fun at, or be facetious to someone because they may have a smaller sized dick.

 

I’ve seen may comments in various forums, especially where self-proclaimed “size queens”, profess their loathing to guys with smaller appendages.

 

The real reason why I think it’s just purely cruel is that one can’t help what he was born with, and having witnessed the level of shame, low-self-esteem and confidence issues it gives guys, it’s extremely disturbing.

 

And witnessing how petty and immature guys are with “growers” should teach many guys a lesson in their shallow behavior.... that small flaccid dick you may see flopping around in a locker room that you may laugh or roll your eyes at, may grow into nice girthy inches of pleasure, which you may have missed out on.

 

The nitpicking over ones’ body parts with men gets extremely exhausting. From dick size, butt size, body weight, BMI, hair length, hair color, degree of overall hairiness, skin color, skin elasticity, race, muscularity, eye color, etc, no wonder so many gay men have issues with self image, and so many gay men who are actually pretty good looking don’t even realize it.

 

Body shaming has been with us probably as long as we've existed. It's slowly getting better in some ways and worse in others. The research into how materialism amplifies it is interesting and unsurprising.

 

Body Dysmorphobia causes a great deal of suffering in people, who as you say, cannot change their genetics. They are born with what they have and learning how to accept and love themselves is good for them and everyone in their lives.

 

Research seems to be finding that human males are similar to females around how they respond to body image threats, assuming they have equivalent support and skills. That's why it's so important for men to have strong social networks and safe spaces where they feel accepted and heard.

[Monarchy79]

I have been rejected many, many times for my size in sex clubs and hookups, and initially felt bad about it, but then I realized I actually do the same thing. Although I will never verbally "size shame" someone, but if they approach me at a sex club or baths and are less than "lenghty & girthy", I will turn em away. I know what I want and I like what I like.... So when it happen to ME, I just have to remember that other people like what they like and want what they want as well.....God Bless everyone !

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[orville]

this uncut thimble jutting out from his nutsack.

That's exactly what it looked like but I think our guys were different. Mine was 26 Portuguese. I'm glad to know I'm not the only one comforting desperate straight men.

Edited April 23, 2020 by orville

[orville]

Although I’ve been told I have a big dick (personally, I consider mine to be average),

 

I think it’s just pure cruelty to shame, laugh at, poke fun at, or be facetious to someone because they may have a smaller sized dick.

 

I’ve seen may comments in various forums, especially where self-proclaimed “size queens”, profess their loathing to guys with smaller appendages.

 

The real reason why I think it’s just purely cruel is that one can’t help what he was born with, and having witnessed the level of shame, low-self-esteem and confidence issues it gives guys, it’s extremely disturbing.

 

And witnessing how petty and immature guys are with “growers” should teach many guys a lesson in their shallow behavior.... that small flaccid dick you may see flopping around in a locker room that you may laugh or roll your eyes at, may grow into nice girthy inches of pleasure, which you may have missed out on.

 

The nitpicking over ones’ body parts with men gets extremely exhausting. From dick size, butt size, body weight, BMI, hair length, hair color, degree of overall hairiness, skin color, skin elasticity, race, muscularity, eye color, etc, no wonder so many gay men have issues with self image, and so many gay men who are actually pretty good looking don’t even realize it.

I definitely learned a lesson that day and since then I have looked at bulky hairy men with small bulges in a completely different way

Edited April 23, 2020 by orville