Escorts offering massage?

[MrMattBig]

I know I have addressed this issue somewhat in the past, but want to ask specifically other escorts.

 

How do you handle someone contacting you from an escorting ad and asking for "massage incall rates"?

 

I have wrist injury history so I am not particularly willing to give a whole hour massage, on top of not wanting to accept a lower hourly rate than my escorting rate, especially when traveling and having to cover those costs.

 

Am I in the minority of not accepting these massage inquires as an escort? Just want some insight on others' experiences and practices to see if I should consider changing mine, as it seems in certain cities these requests are increasing.

[MidwestMarc]

In my experience for those that ask it's rarely just a massage. :-)

[MrMattBig]

In my experience for those that ask it's rarely just a massage.

Quite aware and I would definitely do extra because I would get too turned on not to lol....my worry is that they still expect a expert level massage

(I am good but not a pro) and to pay massage hourly rates (~120-160) when my hourly rate is 240

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Two rules I try to follow:

 

a) Don't water down the product and

b) Don't put more wear & tear on my body than I have to.

 

Keep it simple... Stick to being an escort if that's where the skill/enjoyment is.

[MrMattBig]

Two rules I try to follow:

 

a) Don't water down the product and

b) Don't put more wear & tear on my body than I have to.

 

Keep it simple... Stick to being an escort if that's where the skill/enjoyment is.

Would you reply to such inquires?

How would you respond?

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Would you reply to such inquires?

How would you respond?

 

I'd reply as I do with anyone who sends me an email.

 

I'd be professional and direct in that I don't offer RMT services, that I'm an escort and what my current rates-for-time were.

 

That leaves the ball in his court. Easy, clean and concise.

[wearytraveller]

I'd reply as I do with anyone who sends me an email.

 

I'd be professional and direct in that I don't offer RMT services, that I'm an escort and what my current rates-for-time were.

 

That leaves the ball in his court. Easy, clean and concise.

 

As a client I appreciate a response like this; honest and straightforward. I've often been told how skilled a masseur a guy is after asking him for "an excellent massage with some fun after". As enjoyable as the "fun after" may be I always feel a little cheated when their massage skills amount to little more than a rub and tug:confused:

[East]

Would you reply to such inquires?

How would you respond?

I honestly would not mind if you just said what you just said about the injury and stuff. I feel like most people would be sympathetic and would not mind skipping all that (assuming they are not looking for just a massage), there is a whole separate site dedicated to massages anyways... or is a "massage" some sort of innuendo?

[+ HornyRetiree]

I know I have addressed this issue somewhat in the past, but want to ask specifically other escorts.

 

How do you handle someone contacting you from an escorting ad and asking for "massage incall rates"?

 

I have wrist injury history so I am not particularly willing to give a whole hour massage, on top of not wanting to accept a lower hourly rate than my escorting rate, especially when traveling and having to cover those costs.

 

Am I in the minority of not accepting these massage inquires as an escort? Just want some insight on others' experiences and practices to see if I should consider changing mine, as it seems in certain cities these requests are increasing.

As a client, I do NOT think you should be dropping your fee!!!! IF a client wants a "massage", some massage moves can be great foreplay --

 

Sensual, erotic touch and stokes to relax the client and get the blood flowing:) In this scenario, it is still an escort session - Stand firm as you and your client stay hard:)

[Rod Hagen]

How do you handle someone contacting you from an escorting ad and asking for "massage incall rates"?

 

After having been an escort for 7 years by 2006, I responded by becoming a certified masseur.

 

And now, for the last 14 years, I've been both. Many guys I see come for an hour of massage followed by an hour of escorting, The Combo. :-)

[Jarrod_Uncut]

After having been an escort for 7 years by 2006, I responded by becoming a certified masseur.

 

And now, for the last 14 years, I've been both. Many guys I see come for an hour of massage followed by an hour of escorting, The Combo.

 

It’s for that reason I stopped offering a 1 menu option awhile ago.

 

I have a tier level system for my bookings. I personally don’t want to do an all out 300 session every time I meet a client. And sometimes a lower priced introductory session, can turn into a couple longer sessions down the line.

[marylander1940]

In my experience for those that ask it's rarely just a massage.

 

They always want more but for the same price...

 

I know escorts that when someone mentions erotic massage they just know he's a cheap client.

 

I tell them that I’m not a masseur and to look for one on a site that caters to those specific providers. If they still want to book an appointment I still quote them my normal escort rates. That will normally weed out a good number of inquirers but a few still go for it.

 

That's how all escorts should reply.

 

Two rules I try to follow:

 

 

 

a) Don't water down the product and

 

b) Don't put more wear & tear on my body than I have to.

 

 

 

Keep it simple... Stick to being an escort if that's where the skill/enjoyment is.

 

 

 

Exactly! Giving a massage is exhausting and the masseur gets paid less while the "tear down of the body and mind" is not worth the rate he's paid.

 

 

 

Besides in the Spa clients talk about the masseurs in a way that sometimes borders their dehumanization. A frequent poster even bragged he didn't even ask if he could cum in the escort's mouth because 95% of the time the answer was no.

Edited April 6, 2020 by marylander1940

[Rod Hagen]

I find it interesting that a massage at a Resort spa these days is nearly $300, sometimes more, yet "our" massage is on average $100 (mine's $85). I'm at least as trained as anyone at say, Montage in Laguna Beach or the awful Peninsula hotel in New York.

[Saucyromanian]

I would say that for me personally I treat each occurrence based on the situation. If someone specifically reaches out asking for a massage instead of an actual escort experience then I would be comfortable charging a different rate than my typical escorting rate. I just try to communicate and make sure that we both understand that the rate is for massage only. I don't want to leave a client with expectations unmet so I try to communicate that before I meet someone.

[+ Funguy]

I find it interesting that a massage at a Resort spa these days is nearly $300, sometimes more, yet "our" massage is on average $100 (mine's $85). I'm at least as trained as anyone at say, Montage in Laguna Beach or the awful Peninsula hotel in New York.

 

I'll vouch for that - an hour of play, a nice massage and back to bed - the body knows / shows what it likes - Rod knows what to do for his combo.

[Rod Hagen]

Thank you Fun Guy. Fun Guy is the perfect companion for sharing what our bodies know :-)

 

FG and I exchanged emails recently, and I also talked to an anesthesiologist friend and an infectious disease friend ,about my specific concern going forward: there's every indication that response to the coronoavirus is dose dependent, so what is that going to mean for us that take in HUGE doses. All three of them basically said we just don't know enough right now about the role dosage plays amongst the myriad of competing risk factors, comorbidities. etc. I'm slightly reassured, but it's a real concern I think, going forward after things "normalize".

[Shawn Monroe]

I would say that for me personally I treat each occurrence based on the situation. If someone specifically reaches out asking for a massage instead of an actual escort experience then I would be comfortable charging a different rate than my typical escorting rate. I just try to communicate and make sure that we both understand that the rate is for massage only. I don't want to leave a client with expectations unmet so I try to communicate that before I meet someone.

This is exactly what I do. When I quote my rates I say this is for massage only and what it includes. If they’re looking for more then I must charge a different rate.

 

This either peaks their curiosity, or gets them to behave, or they realize why it’s more expensive than going to a place like massage envy.

[whatahoot8]

Nothing like a combination session but there are extremely few providers. If you look for a masseur who would give a massage then escort, they say look at escort ads. If you look for an escort for a massage and escort session, he says look for a masseur. This isn't about trying to get an escort session at a reduced price; it's about finding a provider willing to offer both.

[Rod Hagen]

Nothing like a combination session

 

Massage and escort do go together very well, don't they?

Edited April 12, 2020 by Rod Hagen

[MrMattBig]

Nothing like a combination session but there are extremely few providers. If you look for a masseur who would give a massage then escort, they say look at escort ads. If you look for an escort for a massage and escort session, he says look for a masseur. This isn't about trying to get an escort session at a reduced price; it's about finding a provider willing to offer both.

You would probably be in the minority for the last part....I have had others say they want a erotic massage mutual touch mutual oral and rimming. Then balk when I tell them my rate of 240 for an hour, then when I ask what they were expecting they say 160. If you want more than mutual touch and a handjob better to get someone who will do the more (escort). Some escorts will say look for a masseur for two reasons most likely. One the client opens with asking what are you rates for massage. That implies they are expecting to pay those associated rates. This is how I view that question. If they were to say what are your rates for an hour or 90 minutes? Looking for erotic massage etc. I personally would be less skeptical. Second reason would be they don't want a bad review and disappointment based on their amateur massage skills even though everything else was steamy.

I personally love starting with a massage first and teasing their hole and balls while stroking my cock...but don't expect an hour massage and don't expect therapist level skills.

 

Since starting this thread another poster above helped inspire a response I will use now on to try and get expectations clear across the board so we can move on to that steamy fun.

Edited April 12, 2020 by MrMattBig