Bottom to Bottom

[Trick]

If an escort advertises as a bottom but a bottom client is interested in meeting, how does that play out?

 

I originally wanted to post this in “Ask an Escort” but I wanted both escorts’ and clients’ perspectives on it.

[+ Pensant]

Sometimes you can flip a bottom into a top, but depends on the chemistry.

[Trick]

Sorry, mods. I was gonna post this in The Lounge

[Trick]

Sometimes you can flip a bottom into a top, but depends on the chemistry.

 

The provider I am eyeing has made it clear that flipping is not a possibility.

[+ Pensant]

You might consider a role play and use toys.

[Trick]

You might consider a role play and use toys.

 

Toys are not my favorite.

 

I’m okay with skipping the penetration part but all of my hiring sessions so far involved it, some with toys. I have no idea what could happen in a session without it.

[+ StLouisOct]

If an escort advertises as a bottom but a bottom client is interested in meeting, how does that play out?

 

I originally wanted to post this in “Ask an Escort” but I wanted both escorts’ and clients’ perspectives on it.

Then TheLounge is the best place to raise the question.

[+ poolboy48220]

I've avoided escorts who only list bottom in their profile because I'm usually looking to be topped when I hire, and I can't imagine how that would play out. If I'm being stupid, I'd love to hear how others handled this.

[Trick]

Then TheLounge is the best place to raise the question.

 

I made a mistake posting it here. I could move it to The Lounge.

[+ ButchAtl]

I come across this from time when an escort in whom I have interest is listed as "vers/bottom." I usually simply ask the escort if he ever enjoys topping. So far, its seems the response is about 80% yes. I don't ever bother asking if they are listed only as bottom.

[Trick]

I come across this from time when an escort in whom I have interest is listed as "vers/bottom." I usually simply ask the escort if he ever enjoys topping. So far, its seems the response is about 80% yes. I don't ever bother asking if they are listed only as bottom.

 

In my case, I already know that the escort I’m interested in does not top. Despite that, I’m still drawn to him. I posted this question to get ideas on how to answer the inevitable question, “What are you looking to experience during our time together?”

 

I don’t think a rock-paper-scissors match counts.

[MikeBiDude]

If an escort advertises as a bottom but a bottom client is interested in meeting, how does that play out?

 

I originally wanted to post this in “Ask an Escort” but I wanted both escorts’ and clients’ perspectives on it.

Do you HAVE to bottom to have a pleasurable experience during an encounter? I hope not...so many, many things to do ? that are fun.

[big-n-tall]

I'm mainly a top and have sometimes hired tops where neither of us bottomed. There was a lot of oral, kissing, rimming, mutual masturbation, frotting/body contact/dry humping and occasionally fingering. I've had great times without anal penetration.

 

I would say a bottom to bottom situation can do the same things I listed. Unless you absolutely need to bottom, there are a lot of other things to do to get off.

Edited March 1, 2020 by big-n-tall

[+ purplekow]

I have rarely tried to bottom and with little success when I do. So I consider myself a non-bottom, yet many of the escorts I hire list their preference as Top. I still hire them and find plenty of things to do. If you are having trouble finding something to do with a young, good lucking sexy man who wants to have an intimate time with you, you are not using your imagination.

My best advice to you would to be to forget traditional roles and roll with the situation,

Since you state that sex does not need to include penetration, you clearly have other sexual interests. Pursue those. You may be surprised that in the heat of the night, one of you may decide: "I need to fuck that ass. " and even if that does not happen, you can still walk away with a hitch in your giddyap and a smile on your face.

[BeHappy]

I am so glad that someone gets it!

Imagination and exploration are so much fun!

Thank goodness the world is not flat!

[+ VictorPowers]

I don’t think a rock-paper-scissors match counts.

Sounds like the plot of a Porn. “Loser Tops the fellow Bottom”

[+ Gar1eth]

I on the other hand admit to not being that venturesome. I like kissing (my two best dates ever involved mainly kissing with some stroking (mostly) thru clothes-my hand might have slipped below the waistband a time or two) , body contact, stroking, oral but really prefer receiving over giving ( although I reciprocate occasionally but #1 my mouth gets tired easily and #2 I've never been that fond of it). I don't rim. And while I like being rimmed-#1 I don't like kissing a guy after they've rimmed me. 2. I prefer kissing to being rimmed. 3 If they are rimming me, they are probably rimming other guys. 4. I don't like thinking about what they might have picked up orally from rimming other guys. 5. I don't really think it's fair for me to be rimmed if I won't rim him.

 

With that in mind-while I've occasionally had play sessions with other tops,I would not under almost any circumstances hire a strict top. While I might not have always been able to top ( or the escort when it came down to it might not have always been able to bottom for technical reasons), I always wanted the option for me to top to be there. I decided in my early days of hiring that the hobby was too expensive for me to hire someone who was incompatible with what I liked to do.

 

But this didn't only include escorts who wouldn't bottom, it also included escorts that didn't like to kiss. I passed up meeting some incredibly handsome guys who were otherwise compatible with me all because they wouldn't kiss.

 

But that was my value scale, @Trick. I guess you'd have to decide whether the guy's other attributes would satisfy you enough that you wouldn't miss being topped.

 

Gman