Feedback on current situation

[Ord733]

Would appreciate feedback on my current situation. Met a guy on RM and had 2 incall sessions with him. We hit it off and he said he was happy we made the connection. The escort even told me where he worked. We agreed to an overnight on March 2nd. It was booked 3 weeks out so he could get the time off from work. I made a hotel reservation and a dinner reservation at a restaurant he wanted to try.

 

2 weeks before the overnight he sends me a text stating he was counting the days and was excited about getting together.

 

1 week before the overnight, I noticed his profile was missing from RM. I sent a text to him asking if everything is OK and are we still on for Mar 2nd. No response. In the past he always responded within an hour. I waited 24 hours and did a follow up..... no response. I am confused on what is going on. Has anyone had a similar experience and would share the final outcome. He told me he does not travel. So responding to my text should not be a problem.

 

confused and disappointed!!!!!

[Ord733]

Thanks!

[hypothetically]

There’s no feedback to provide. I’m sorry that happened. I would be disappointed also, but I wouldn’t linger on it. Everything is speculation unless it comes from the provider himself.

[+ GregM]

Might just have to check it up as a loss. Unfortunately this happens on both sides. I hope you can find a replacement or get your money back on the hotel.

 

Hugs,

Greg

[down_to_business]

Have been on the receiving end of this twice over the years (2 different escorts). First experience, escort no called, no showed. The other time, the escort showed up as planned.

Sorry you are going through this, it sucks!

[ncc1701d]

Been hiring for many years and in recent 1-2 years this has happened far more than I care for. Maybe it's because i'm hiring more now than when I first started, so higher "exposure", but I think it's also part of the times and the millennial crowd. Many of them will confirm the night before, only to no show or claim they have 'an infection", and later shown to be "online now" on RM. Disappointing as I move my schedule to make sure I'm there, but now I just remember that I save my $ from a likely bad encounter and more for the good ones that I have

[lonely_john]

So sorry to hear this is happening to you. I’ve never had this experience but I was thinking that maybe sending a message to Rentmen Support asking about the possible reasons an ad could disappear unless the escort closed his account himself. On the other hand, just go on with your plans with a positive mind. Reach out a couple other escorts that could work as a backup if he never appears. I hope she shows up! And I hope you have a wonderful experience!

[+ tassojunior]

It can be any number of reasons. One being he could possibly be dead. But unless he responds or makes known why his ad has been removed and has stopped being a provider, you may never know.

 

If he were dead his RM ad would stay up but go "inactive" when not paid. I have friends who have been "inactive" for a long time. RM hopes someone will pay to make it active. To disappear so quickly he withdrew it.

[lonely_john]

If he were dead his RM ad would stay up but go "inactive" when not paid. I have friends who have been "inactive" for a long time. RM hopes someone will pay to make it active. To disappear so quickly he withdrew it.

 

You are so right. It looks to me as if Rentmen would never shut down a profile even if it seems an escort is breaking the law. The other day I was impressed by this profile at first by the pictures but then by the reviews, and the ad is still up and running.

 

https://rent.men/Clau_XXL

[+ keroscenefire]

My guess is the escort himself pulled down the ad....maybe because of a family emergency or something. If he was professional, he should have explained the situation, but since we don't really know what happened, we can't really say. For what it's worth, the same thing happened to me, but I was able to find a replacement who was also really awesome and he is still one of my semi-regulars now.

[thonglovertx]

Maybe he's sitting in jail and can't respond........lots of could be's ......