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In a rentmen ad that I find interesting, is a statement from the escort as follows:

 

"I will make you feel loved, wanted and cared for.

 

Here to provide a good time, so please be nice to me as i will be nice to you. This is hard for the both of us so don't make it even more complicated. Be an honest and caring person as this is what you are looking for. Fairness on every way is a requirement, we are just human beings looking for something meaningful in life, so we should be able to live a happy life.

 

You can contact me via WhatsApp or text."

 

 

In my opinion, the statement is strange and makes me think the escort might have some personality issues. The photos in his ad are nice but the wording asking us to be nice to him concerns me.

 

Any opinions?

 

https://rentmen.eu/DiegoPerezBrazil

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Interesting...I would say if he is Brazillian, English is probably not his first language. Definitely could be some things lost in translation. But yeah seems like maybe he is a bit new at this and may be not totally into being an escort. I wouldn't go as far as to say he might have personality issues. Maybe he is just having a challenge in expressing himself. That said, I probably wouldn't hire him...more based on his inexperience than anything else.

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I don't get the sense that there is any language problem here, but rather that he doesn't understand the situation. It sounds like he is looking for a romantic relationship (a genuine BFE) rather than selling sexual favors on an escort site (look at the only things he says he is "available for"). He may be on the wrong website.

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I’d say he’s just trying very hard to be earnest.

 

Although I’m sure he seems hopelessly naive to the more jaded of us.

 

Nonetheless, I prefer to see his openness as a breath of fresh air, and were

I in LA, I’d be willing to take a chance on this beautiful man.

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Not pretending to be an expert at latinos, even though I’m close ? There is probably more than 1 issue that I list in order of importance:

 

- Inexperience (with international markets)

- Culture

- Language

 

Inexperience: With those tatoues and the pool picture it’s clear that it’s not his first rodeo but he is probably more used to deal with the stereotype of the typical gay in Latin America who likes to be enamorated when dealt with as a client. In North America we are more transactional, nsa, and upfront.

 

Culture: Latin America is a region of the world with a strong macho culture. As per my previous points, if you read again the he text of his ad as if a straight man would say it to his girlfriend, it could probably make more sense. So the guy probably is a romantic who wants to make money on the bed. In the case of Brazil this is more prevalent in smaller cities. Sao Paulo and Rio being more cosmopolitan, have more escorts that fit better the International Standards, both in Looks and Price.

 

Language: OMG it’s all interlinked! I’m not sure if you guys have heard of Linguistic Determinism but there is something real to it. Latin languages such as Spanish, French and Portuguese are indeed more romantic. I believe some call them « Romance Languages »? so when you are born in them they do mold your mindset. I can confirm that many Brazilian born and raised escorts can be VERY ROMANTIC and actually make you feel like you are living a love story. You couldn’t be more wrong! They still want your money ?

 

If I was close and not so busy I would message him and invite him for coffee at a public place to test the waters and take it from there. At the 1st red flag leave, otherwise take it to the bedroom and enjoy his 8 inches ?

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Romance languages are NOT named that because they are "romantic"!!!

Sorry! Literature has never been my forte ? Anyways, I’ve been with French, Portuguese and Spanish speaking escorts and all of them have been romantic to me. Even the sounds of their words, despite I understand less than a third of what they are saying, just makes me melt in the pillow ?

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It is only his one statement "this is hard for the both of us so don't make it even more complicated" that is off-putting for me. For me, it comes off as suggesting that, if things don't go well, it will definitely be the fault of the client. It would/will be nice to get some positive feedback from those who partake.

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My interest and curiosity got the best of me so I decided I would send the escort an e-mail message through his rentmen advertisement. I mainly wanted to know if he is available as an escort or if he is only looking for a long-term association, as his advertisement implies.

 

However, he has disabled his rentmen e-mail option. He chose to reject messages sent through the rentmen message system.

 

That is a red flag against the escort for a number of reasons.

 

If you e-mail an escort through rentmen, you retain a little privacy in the event there is no compatibility between you and the escort. You can simply stop communicating.

 

Rentmen retains a record of your message contact with the escort. Rentmen does not have a record of whatsapp or text messages.

 

His ad says to contact him through whatsapp or text.

 

When you contact a rentmen escort via whatsapp or text, the escort has your phone number and anything you have posted on whatsapp, including your photo.

 

Unless you contact the escort through rentmen's message service, rentmen generally (not always) rejects any review submitted by a client. This protects the escort from bad reviews if the escort's behavior is not consistent with what he promises as a condition to meet. The escort simply blocks you which prevents you from submitting a review.

 

If you do not get blocked and you elect to write a review, rentmen likely would reject your review because they have no record of messaging between you and the escort.

 

This guy might be the best escort around. However, considering that he chose to disable his rentmen messaging which causes a client to forfeit privacy in order to contact him for general information, he lost me as a potential client.

 

Alternatively, if a client has a bogus phone (throw away phone), the escort will not have a client's accurate private information through contacting this escort via whatsapp or text.

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My interest and curiosity got the best of me so I decided I would send the escort an e-mail message through his rentmen advertisement. I mainly wanted to know if he is available as an escort or if he is only looking for a long-term association, as his advertisement implies.

 

However, he has disabled his rentmen e-mail option. He chose to reject messages sent through the rentmen message system.

 

That is a red flag against the escort for a number of reasons.

 

If you e-mail an escort through rentmen, you retain a little privacy in the event there is no compatibility between you and the escort. You can simply stop communicating.

 

Rentmen retains a record of your message contact with the escort. Rentmen does not have a record of whatsapp or text messages.

 

His ad says to contact him through whatsapp or text.

 

When you contact a rentmen escort via whatsapp or text, the escort has your phone number and anything you have posted on whatsapp, including your photo.

 

Unless you contact the escort through rentmen's message service, rentmen generally (not always) rejects any review submitted by a client. This protects the escort from bad reviews if the escort's behavior is not consistent with what he promises as a condition to meet. The escort simply blocks you which prevents you from submitting a review.

 

If you do not get blocked and you elect to write a review, rentmen likely would reject your review because they have no record of messaging between you and the escort.

 

This guy might be the best escort around. However, considering that he chose to disable his rentmen messaging which causes a client to forfeit privacy in order to contact him for general information, he lost me as a potential client.

 

Alternatively, if a client has a bogus phone (throw away phone), the escort will not have a client's accurate private information through contacting this escort via whatsapp or text.

Which could mean that the guy is a calculating scammer, or it could mean that he is clueless (and there are other possibilities).

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My interest and curiosity got the best of me so I decided I would send the escort an e-mail message through his rentmen advertisement. I mainly wanted to know if he is available as an escort or if he is only looking for a long-term association, as his advertisement implies.

 

However, he has disabled his rentmen e-mail option. He chose to reject messages sent through the rentmen message system.

 

That is a red flag against the escort for a number of reasons.

 

Yeah if I am feeling a bit unsure about an escort I do like to e-mail first. So the fact that he doesn't have that as an option certainly raises red flags for me too.

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Which could mean that the guy is a calculating scammer, or it could mean that he is clueless (and there are other possibilities).

I was about to say that not being English his first language he might be embarrassed by his broken written English but I can see how the points outlined by @coriolis888 can be concerning to some and considered red flags.

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I was about to say that not being English his first language he might be embarrassed by his broken written English but I can see how the points outlined by @coriolis888 can be concerning to some and considered red flags.

 

 

If he is "embarrassed by his broken written English" why would he want you to call him on his phone?

 

If you call him and if his English is not good, what kind of conversation could you have?

 

If he has poor English, the rentmen messaging system would allow him to spend time translating and understanding what is being communicated to him.

 

He is incredibly naive or a scammer (or both).

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If he is "embarrassed by his broken written English" why would he want you to call him on his phone?

 

If you call him and if his English is not good, what kind of conversation could you have?

 

If he has poor English, the rentmen messaging system would allow him to spend time translating and understanding what is being communicated to him.

 

He is incredibly naive or a scammer (or both).

You mention very good points and you are mostly right. My love for latin men sometimes makes me blind ? Thanks for calling it out, everyone including me can be scammed.

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I don't get the sense that there is any language problem here, but rather that he doesn't understand the situation. It sounds like he is looking for a romantic relationship (a genuine BFE) rather than selling sexual favors on an escort site (look at the only things he says he is "available for"). He may be on the wrong website.

 

agreed

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I was about to say that not being English his first language he might be embarrassed by his broken written English but I can see how the points outlined by @coriolis888 can be concerning to some and considered red flags.

But his written English is not "broken:" it is actually as good as the text of most of the ads on rent.men by native English speakers; in fact, I would guess from it that he is a fairly fluent speaker (I have a lot of experience evaluating the English proficiency of non-native speakers). Of course, it is possible that it was written for him by someone else, or the ad was not placed by the kid in the photos, or....well, let's just say that I have a lot of questions about what is going on here.

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