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A friend that is a therapeutic masseur moved out of state and left his massage table with me. Now I’ve a massage table, and I started offering free massages on Grindr. Having the experience of hiring many masseurs and watching some videos on YouTube I’ve a good idea on how to give a good basic amateur massage. I’ve realized that giving massages is something I enjoy and find relaxing too. I can feel the good energy flowing.

 

This way I’ve met some really handsome guys that enjoy a massage with sensual, erotic elements. The same type of massage we all look for.

 

I’ve had good success. And of course I filter out the guys. I only see guys I find attractive. My massages are free after all. They last 60-90 min. I use biotone. Relaxing music. Candles. Etc. Here are some of the characters I’ve met.

 

1. The bouncer guy - he is bi... works as a bouncer at a local straight bar. He has a really nice body. Thick and meaty. He’s tall. Very masculine. Thick hairy legs and good sized dick. He’s very vocal and let’s me know what feels good when I’m massaging him. I’ve seen him several times. He enjoys oral. 69. Kissing, rimming and I’ve fucked him a few times. The first time I was in heaven. Never thought I would be able to fuck this guy. Sometimes he’s so horny that he says “let’s skip the massage” and starts kissing me.

 

2. The gym rat guy. I’ll say this guys is on the top 5 best bodies I’ve seen. He has a military background too. I never thought I would be able to meet him, let alone massage him. He first time I massages him, I was pre-cumming so much, he thought it was lube or lotion. He has the most perfect ass I’ve seen. He is very masculine and correct. A gentleman. As I’m more familiar with him we get to do more stuff. Last time I fucked him after rimming him for like 30 minutes. I never thought he would be a bottom!!! But it just went right in. Wow. Amazing. He kisses too! So enjoyable to be with him.

 

3. The young guy — this guy is like 23 or so. enjoys receiving massages. Body is nice. He loves sucking me while I massage him. And always asks me if I can cum in his mouth. He wants to see me often, but is not possible sometimes.

 

4. The young Hispanic. This guy is young. I did my best to give him a good sensual massage. I was not attracted to him in real life. He wanted me to fuck him. He was very insistent. It was a turn off. I declined. But still gave him a HE.

 

5. The senior student. Met him once. Regular session. HE. Oral. Good kid. He texts me often. He wants to meet again. He has a large dick. And might meet him again soon.

 

Also there are some flakes. that they say they want to meet and then ghost me or flake.

 

Has anyone else offered free massages? Do you have any stories to share?

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Sounds hot! I love that your bouncer guy is now a FWB.

 

I used to do that too back in the days of CL. I'd actually met a few escorts who I then hooked up with (for free) several times as a result.

Yeah. The bouncer guy is a fwb. Also the gym rat guy. He comes over. We drink a few beers and then massage time!

 

Do you have any memorable stories to share?

 

A guy asked me if I had toys. I have never used toys during a massage. I think he meant dildos and fleshlight. But I have my mouth and dick. Better than plastic toys. Hehe. I think he didn’t want to be too direct. ??‍♂️

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A friend that is a therapeutic masseur moved out of state and left his massage table with me. Now I’ve a massage table, and I started offering free massages on Grindr. Having the experience of hiring many masseurs and watching some videos on YouTube I’ve a good idea on how to give a good basic amateur massage. I’ve realized that giving massages is something I enjoy and find relaxing too. I can feel the good energy flowing.

 

This way I’ve met some really handsome guys that enjoy a massage with sensual, erotic elements. The same type of massage we all look for.

 

I’ve had good success. And of course I filter out the guys. I only see guys I find attractive. My massages are free after all. They last 60-90 min. I use biotone. Relaxing music. Candles. Etc. Here are some of the characters I’ve met.

 

1. The bouncer guy - he is bi... works as a bouncer at a local straight bar. He has a really nice body. Thick and meaty. He’s tall. Very masculine. Thick hairy legs and good sized dick. He’s very vocal and let’s me know what feels good when I’m massaging him. I’ve seen him several times. He enjoys oral. 69. Kissing, rimming and I’ve fucked him a few times. The first time I was in heaven. Never thought I would be able to fuck this guy. Sometimes he’s so horny that he says “let’s skip the massage” and starts kissing me.

 

2. The gym rat guy. I’ll say this guys is on the top 5 best bodies I’ve seen. He has a military background too. I never thought I would be able to meet him, let alone massage him. He first time I massages him, I was pre-cumming so much, he thought it was lube or lotion. He has the most perfect ass I’ve seen. He is very masculine and correct. A gentleman. As I’m more familiar with him we get to do more stuff. Last time I fucked him after rimming him for like 30 minutes. I never thought he would be a bottom!!! But it just went right in. Wow. Amazing. He kisses too! So enjoyable to be with him.

 

3. The young guy — this guy is like 23 or so. enjoys receiving massages. Body is nice. He loves sucking me while I massage him. And always asks me if I can cum in his mouth. He wants to see me often, but is not possible sometimes.

 

4. The young Hispanic. This guy is young. I did my best to give him a good sensual massage. I was not attracted to him in real life. He wanted me to fuck him. He was very insistent. It was a turn off. I declined. But still gave him a HE.

 

5. The senior student. Met him once. Regular session. HE. Oral. Good kid. He texts me often. He wants to meet again. He has a large dick. And might meet him again soon.

 

Also there are some flakes. that they say they want to meet and then ghost me or flake.

 

Has anyone else offered free massages? Do you have any stories to share?

I’ve offered (and still do) free massage on Grindr, etc. some very innocent mention in my profile, but in private chatting I mention it early. similar stories as yours, maybe not quite as much quality success as you. But a couple of great ones! Most are surprised how good my basic massage is, before I get it to the fun parts.

 

I’m always (pleasantly) amused how many of these guys start moaning when I’m working their thighs/glutes/butts....lots of them don’t seem inclined to bottom when they arrive, but later into massage seem to indicate they do!

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Has anyone else offered free massages? Do you have any stories to share?

 

Yes. I noted the same in my post back in May 2019: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/my-transition-to-and-experiences-giving-massages.149047/

 

I posted links in that thread to some of my encounters. Here are some more [recent] encounters. Since you labeled your guys, I decided to do the same:

 

Toys?: https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-133#post-12915331

 

Caribbean Treat: https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-147#post-19289541

 

The Role Play Guy: https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-154#post-22622171

 

Second Chance Guy: https://www.lpsg.com/threads/any-new-massage-stories.204554/page-154#post-22673861

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I'm lucky enough to have a guy that does this for me. He absolutely loves just massaging me for almost 2 hours and then will give me a wonderful HE. He wants no reciprocation, no matter how many hints I've dropped. It's a nice setup, but I do feel guilty at times, but realize he enjoys giving the massage as much as I like getting them.

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@7829V have you yet met a "client" who really wanted to stay strictly therapeutic and got angry when you started to get a little bit frisky??.....or do you wait until they give obvious clues before you do anything sensual/erotic at all??.....thanks for the great post!

 

I never mention anything sexual before we meet. Several ask if it’s a sexual massage and I don’t say no. I just reply is a full body relaxing massage. This has worked in my favor... if i’m not into the guy that much I just give a massage with a basic Happy ending. That’s it. It has only happened once. Usually I find them attractive.

 

— I don’t get nude from the get go

— All of them kept their underwear at the beginning

— I start massaging their backs, arms, hands, head.

— then when is time to massage the glutes I remove their underwear. All of them cooperate. So far no one has said no.

— as I massage their glutes and inner thighs I casually brush their anus and balls and that’s a fail proof sign of what’s coming. They usually try to brush my dick with their hands.

— then I remove my shorts and stay in underwear. I position myself so they can acceses my dick

— then they openly grab my cock.

—- I do the same and massage the anus.

—- I lightly finger them

—- as the masseur you can tell how they open their legs and push up the ass, like offering it to you.

— there’s some sexual play.

— but then I resume the massage... legs... calves... feet.

—- i ask them to turn around ... continue the massage

—- by this time we are both nude.

—- sometimes I lay on top of them pressing them with my body. Several enjoy this. Feeling all my body on top of them.

—- sometimes is just he, sometimes oral, or 69, ror anal... it all depends.

 

But so far no one has refused my advances. I let it all unfold naturally and usually they are the ones that make the first move in an open way. I just go with the flow.

 

If someone wants to keep their underwear that’s would be ok with me too. I find giving massages enjoyable and relaxing. I would never pressure someone into more if they don’t give any clues. But I advertise in Grindr. So i really don’t think they want just therapeutic ? we all want a little bit more. ?

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I never mention anything sexual before we meet. Several ask if it’s a sexual massage and I don’t say no. I just reply is a full body relaxing massage. This has worked in my favor... if i’m not into the guy that much I just give a massage with a basic Happy ending. That’s it. I has only happened once. Usually I find them attractive.

 

— I don’t get nude from the get go

— All of them kept their underwear at the beginning

— I start massaging their backs, arms, hands, head.

— then when is time to massage the glutes I remove their underwear. All of them cooperate. So far no one has said no.

— as I massage their glutes and inner thighs I casually brush their anus and balls and that’s a fail proof sign of what’s coming. They usually try to brush my dick with their hands.

— then I remove my shorts and stay in underwear. I position myself so they can acceses my dick

— then they openly grab my cock.

—- I do the same and massage the anus.

—- I lightly finger them

—- as the masseur you can tell how they open their legs and push up the ass, like offering it to you.

— there’s some sexual play.

— but then I resume the massage... legs... calves... feet.

—- i ask them to turn around ... continue the massage

—- by this time we are both nude.

—- sometimes I lay on top of them pressing them with my body. Several enjoy this. Feeling all my body on top of them.

—- sometimes is just he, sometimes oral, or 69, ror anal... it all depends.

 

But so far no one has refused my advances. I let it all unfold naturally and usually they are the ones that make the first move in an open way. I just go with the flow.

 

If someone wants to keep their underwear that’s would be ok with me too. I find giving massages enjoyable and relaxing. I would never pressure someone into more if they don’t give any clues. But I advertise in Grindr. So i really don’t think they want just therapeutic ? we all want a little bit more. ?

 

Our methods are similar, but there are some differences:

  • All of my guys get nude from the start. I have had only a couple get on the table in their underwear..and took them off about 5-10mins in.
  • I wear a thin pair of shorts with no underwear. That way I am showing a dick print and they can easily feel my arousal
  • I typically don't get nude unless they request it...however sometimes it just naturally goes there

 

 

Haha. I don’t talk about dick size at all.

I don’t send nudes. No sex talk at all.

i send a shirtless pic.

if they ask dick size I only say avg. that’s it.

 

Very similar here as well.

  • If they're very sexually aggressive, I tend to pass them by
  • I don't send a shirtless pic. I send a face pic and a pics of my massage setup (table, candles, oils, ...). I require a face pic, so I send one as well. I also require them to text me for my address. The number of flakes cut down considerably once I started requiring them to text

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Haha. I don’t talk about dick size at all.

I don’t send nudes. No sex talk at all.

i send a shirtless pic.

if they ask dick size I only say avg. that’s it.

But can you complete one final piece, for me at least, of this plan’s possible success: you seem to have a 9” dick <coughnice!> that they don’t know about, and you show your torso first that peaks their interest, and then you show your face. Are you good looking, in great shape, etc? And what is your approx age? Just trying to figure out what “type” of guy you are getting all this response.

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But can you complete one final piece, for me at least, of this plan’s possible success: you seem to have a 9” dick <coughnice!> that they don’t know about, and you show your torso first that peaks their interest, and then you show your face. Are you good looking, in great shape, etc? And what is your approx age? Just trying to figure out what “type” of guy you are getting all this response.

Ah, well. I always show my face. I send a pic showing it. Also I sent a pic shirtless. (I don't have a pic posted in my profile, and I have no info -just basic stats-, no age). I'd say I'm what the gay community calls an 'otter'. Lean, hairy. I'm not muscular or athletic. I don't have extra pounds either. Just regular build, I'd say. I'm in my early 40s, but usually they say I look younger (30s). I've facial hair. I haven't lost my head hair. I'm not like an "alpha" male, I'm just a regular "masculine" guy. I'm Hispanic (with an accent, been in the USA a few years). I never discuss sexual stuff in grindr or send nudes. not sure if that gives you a better idea. and that answers your question ;)

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Ah, well. I always show my face. I send a pic showing it. Also I sent a pic shirtless. (I don't have a pic posted in my profile, and I have no info -just basic stats-, no age). I'd say I'm what the gay community calls an 'otter'. Lean, hairy. I'm not muscular or athletic. I don't have extra pounds either. Just regular build, I'd say. I'm in my early 40s, but usually they say I look younger (30s). I've facial hair. I haven't lost my head hair. I'm not like an "alpha" male, I'm just a regular "masculine" guy. I'm Hispanic (with an accent, been in the USA a few years). I never discuss sexual stuff in grindr or send nudes. not sure if that gives you a better idea. and that answers your question ;)

It absolutely did. You painted the entire picture. I appreciate it!

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