Hiring as a couple

[sared85]

I’m new to the hobby and very much enjoyed my first two experiences meeting escorts. My boyfriend’s curiosity has been piqued and he is interested in trying it out as well, but he is much more shy than me and unlikely to meet up with someone on his own. So, we are talking about finding someone to play with both of us together.

 

Any words of advice on what/how to communicate with a potential provider about meeting us as a couple, differences in rate versus a regular one-on-one, or any other considerations?

[+ keroscenefire]

I don't think it's significantly different seeing an escort as a couple than by oneself. I think it's more on the couple really than the escort. You and your boyfriend have to make sure you are comfortable with boundaries of a threesome and the feelings of inadequacy and jealously that can sometimes come up.

 

I think couple requests are not unusual and most escorts are fine doing them. Definitely communicate what you want to do. I don't really think the rate should be any different just because you have a couple instead of one person. I might recommend having a bit longer of a session just so you can have a bit more time to build chemistry and do the various things you might want to do in a threesome environment. Keep in mind that the escort is still just one person and with the expectation that they are pleasing two people comes perhaps an increase in pressure and expectation. Having a bit more time with a session allows everyone to relax and take a break if they need it. Maybe have some time being a voyeur instead of a constantly active participant.

 

But really I think a lot of escorts would be fine with it. Hope you can have fun with it too.

[former lurker]

I don't think it's significantly different seeing an escort as a couple than by oneself. I think it's more on the couple really than the escort. You and your boyfriend have to make sure you are comfortable with boundaries of a threesome and the feelings of inadequacy and jealously that can sometimes come up.

 

I think couple requests are not unusual and most escorts are fine doing them. Definitely communicate what you want to do. I don't really think the rate should be any different just because you have a couple instead of one person. I might recommend having a bit longer of a session just so you can have a bit more time to build chemistry and do the various things you might want to do in a threesome environment. Keep in mind that the escort is still just one person and with the expectation that they are pleasing two people comes perhaps an increase in pressure and expectation. Having a bit more time with a session allows everyone to relax and take a break if they need it. Maybe have some time being a voyeur instead of a constantly active participant.

 

But really I think a lot of escorts would be fine with it. Hope you can have fun with it too.

 

All good advice except the bit about what you should reasonably expect to pay. Pleasing two people rather than one is a more heavy lift, involves less down time/chill time, introduces added dynamics, etc. Some escorts advertise that they will see couples/groups but adjust their fees accordingly.

[+ keroscenefire]

All good advice except the bit about what you should reasonably expect to pay. Pleasing two people rather than one is a more heavy lift, involves less down time/chill time, introduces added dynamics, etc. Some escorts advertise that they will see couples/groups but adjust their fees accordingly.

 

Fair enough..I actually did the reverse once..saw two escorts who were a couple. They didn't charge me any more than their usual donation for just one of them, but I did hire them for three hours so it still ended up being higher than a normal one-hour appointment. Definitely I would recommend a longer session and expect to pay for that longer session as well.