Condom Recommendation for a Bottom

[Guest safesane]

There's a chance I may be losing my viginity soon......can you guys give me some recommendations on a condom to purchase for my 'top'....THANKS!!

[Guest MrB]

Make sure you get extra strong condoms for anal sex, such as HOT RUBBER--there are a couple of other brand names but they don't come to mind. They come in different sizes and colours(as do tops). Rubbers with a reservoir at the tip for sperm are safer for anal sex. Also, the lubricant you use needs to be water not oil based to protect the rubber and yourself. If you buy these at a gay sex shop or so, the shop assistant will know what you need. Have fun!

[Bilbo]

Yes, tops come in all shapes and sizes. That's one reason the condoms do, too. While I applaud you for wanting to go in there prepared, I would hope that you wind up using what the top has brought with him, as he knows that it will fit, etc. While there is something to be said for two virgins fumbling around in bed, I think you would have a better first time if you were with a more experienced man. Of course, most of it depends on the particular man, whether he's experience or not, no? Just don't blame either him or yourself if it doesn't work. And might I suggest that if it doesn't you next seek out a superior escort, since you alread know how to find this site?

[Guest Quinte]

A few pointers:

 

Let your partner bring his own. I personally prefer to do so, as I am most comfortable in my brand. What ever he uses, it must be STRONG. Check the wrap.

 

More for his pleasure than yours, put some lube inside it ( the condom that is. That other thing should be greased and ready to go by now! LOL). The lube inside the condom gives a great sensation!

 

Find a position that works well for you both. Play around a little with the various ones (tell me you know what those are!)until you find one that works. As you are new at this, SIT on it. With you partner laying down beneath you. This way, you stay in "control" of how much salami you get at a time. It WILL hurt. I am not going to lie to you, but this soon passes and the pleasure is worth it.

 

If you choose to do the doggie thing (heehe). The dude is behind you and you have no idea if that darn condom is on or not. Some guys could be crafty! Accept no "assurances" CHECK!. Also note that doing it this way, with a not particularly patient or sensitive partner could mean a lot of hurt. For seasoned pros, this is a great position!

 

Gee, sorry. I did not mean to give a f**k lesson. Email me for more privately if you wish. Its just that your post got me all hot and bothered.

 

Oh, congratulations are in order!

 

Quinte DuSoleil

 

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[Guest Quinte]

PS

 

Clean, clean, clean BEFORE your date. Not sure if you are? CLEAN again.

 

Also remember that oils and condoms do not mix.

 

Q

 

Oh, do please let us know how it went!

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

LAST EDITED ON Aug-07-00 AT 09:05PM (EST)[p]Q,

 

Such enthusiasm!!

 

Listening to your description might be more fun than the real thing -- but then I really wouldn't know.

[Guest Quinte]

I am always a willing instructor - especially to virgins! I hit "Post" before I realised I may have sounded a little too keen and perverted.

 

Trust me, the real thing could be fun when done right.

 

Your Quinte

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

LAST EDITED ON Aug-07-00 AT 09:31PM (EST)[p]Q,

Don't apologize for your enthusiasm and minor perversions (he he...) :-)

[Matt_Vancouver]

this all depends on the size of the 'member'

Strong ones are best because anal sex can get rough! woohoo!

I use Magnums, they are by far the superior condom for the 'larger' man.

Also Trojen large, but I find they feel like a glove, very thick and no sensation.

there are also non latex condoms on the market, but they have not been proven to be a secure form of protection against HIV transmision, so beware.

As for lubricant, I like Eros, it is latex safe and feels like baby oil!! really expensive but worth the treat. I find most other lubes get sticky and tacky, another one new on the market is Wet Platinum, also very slick and slippery.

Now that you've done your shopping, go and ride that pony! have fun cowboy.

Matt

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matt_escort@yahoo.com

[Bilbo]

Note it is sometimes difficult for a top whose member is being sat upon to maintain an erection. This may be due to the tightness of your rectum, but do not blame anyone, let alone yourself. After all, tightness back there is highly prized once all is in position. Just kiss a little longer, get both of you ready, and try a different position.