Would you patronize an escort who has a wife?

[Guest gardener]

As a married guy, my experience hiring escorts has been limited to 3 occasions, all of which are not in the "recent" past. I had enjoyable experiencs each time, and as a result, enjoy this site immensely and read each and every review and message posted here. Yesterday, a very highly-regarded escort posted a message and listed his website which I had not visited in awhile. I went there and found new pictures and remarks which I proceeded to read. I was astonished that he mentioned his wife, who has no qualms about his occupation, and the availability of his services for women. I found those remarks to be a huge TURN-OFF and was tempted to email him and suggest he delete those references before they hurt his business. But before doing it, I thought I would ask you people first. Your thoughts? Would you hire a married escort or one who is available to both sexes? Am I just being paranoid?

[Guest Tampa Yankee]

Paranoid about what??

[Guest MattAdams]

Well...perhaps I felt differently before I got married, but not that I am and if I were still in the business I would certainly hope that clients would not be deterred by the fact I am married. From experience, my wife doesnt mind, but my boyfriends have always been a cause for trouble...maybe if I moved to Utah I wouldnt have any problems.

 

Matt Adams

http://www.whatshotnews.com

[CT Dick]

Sure. The idea of a straight/bi guy getting it up for me and letting me have my way with him is a turn on.

[Casteran]

I wouldn't say I would be paranoid, but it is also a TURN OFF for me. I know the site and escort you refer to as I just visited his site the other day to find all this new information. There are lots of "fish" in the sea and those that do "fish" are not for me. Just my personal preference, I'm sure others don't mind, to each his own. I recently met someone Amsterdam for an overnight and he kept bringing up his girlfriend at the most inopportune times, it spoiled the evening, it did not turn me on.

[Guest JustANametoPlay]

I think that a married escort is OK if his wife is OK with it, but personally I don't want to know<shrug>

[NY Observer]

I would patronize a married man if I felt he was the type of escort I'm interested in. I haven't given it much thought but I think I'd prefer a married man who escorts only for men to a "gay" escort who escorts for both men and women. In my limited experience with Non-Gaiety escorts, I find that the three best qualifications for an escort are (1) gay (2) part timer or limits to one client a day and (3) hasn't been doing it too long.

[Bilbo]

Basically, I agree with JustAN. I used to have a regular client (or should I say two) who were a married couple and it was a turnon to me. But I also got very turned off and turned away any married man whose wife didn't know what he was doing. I am not anti-woman, though I have been with so few that my friends giggle when I claim to be bi. So I don't see why we should say "Dicks that touch women shall never touch me." Sounds too much like "Lips that touch liquor shall never touch mine." But unless I had the lady's personal word that it didn't upset her, I would have that little nagging doubt in the back of my mind. So I would rather not know.

[alankay]

Many escorts are straight or bi. I have seen an escort over the past five years who married about two years ago. I have always seen him as bi and when he told me about his marriage I found it a turn on. Not much is shared or sought regarding his private life and that is fine. My fantasy life tends to be far more creative when I have little concrete information. Communication is more limited now but he still calls on a regular basis and we hook up about as often as before.

[Guest DJPerez]

LAST EDITED ON Aug-18-00 AT 12:36PM (EST)[p]My two Cents:

 

For me, the decision to hire a particular escort would come down to one issue: Can the escort provide his service to me with the discretion and respect I deserve for the $$$'s I'm paying him for the time? On that basis alone, it wouldn't matter to me about his orientation "off the clock".

 

Arrogance and attitude towards the client could just as easily flow from the "All-Gay" escort as from the "Bi" or "Straight" escort. (The labels are restricting anyway, don't you think?)

 

IMHO, if the escort can provide you service to your satisfaction, hire him again; if not, hire someone else. It's your $$$; get the satisfaction you want; save the labels for canned produce. ;-)

 

CIAO! D. J.

[Guest paulnyc]

I know this escort, too, and I saw his new website the other day. It was a complete turn off for me to read that he had gotten married as he had told me he was gay. I was also turned off by the fact that he escorts with women too. I was surprised at my reaction to this new information. I guess it stems from the fact that the guy misrepresented himself earlier. I will not see him again, but that of course is just my own personal hang up.

[Guest MrB]

I don't know the guy at all... but is it possible he just changed? People can be straight and become gay or bi, and gays can turn straight. For a true bisexual, it all depends on the person. He could have lived a gay life so far then fallen in love with a girl... why not? Who are we to judge?

[Rick Munroe]

If I were to hire an escort, I've always thought that it would have to be a straight guy who has no sexual interest in men...someone who would let you blow him for the cash. If I saw a wedding ring on his finger, that would make it even hotter for me.

 

I also have a buddy who hires straight guys as a rule, but he prefers to go with ones who have bad reviews on this website...he gets off on being abused & taken advantage of by one of the straight ripoff artists. That's just his "thing."

 

So much of this is about realization of fantasies, and for some guys, hiring a "straight" or married man fits the bill.

[Guest stef4vegas]

Hi everyone, I am glad to see that people are talking about me. It tells me that I have preformed a job worth discussion. I have read each and every one of your postings regarding “would you hire an escort that is married.” I know that to some of you it seems to be a source of great concern. For me to post that on my web site was something I was very concerned about, I did not want to offend any clients or future clients. After great deal of thought, I felt it was important to share some personal information about myself to anyone who wanted to know. So many of my clients share very personal information about themselves. I only felt it was important that I share with them. I have always tried not to hide anything from any of my clients….yes Paulnyc I did tell you that I am gay….that is in part true….I am bi sexual (prefer men 95% of the time) I have never thought about discriminating with what life hands me.

 

I agree with DJPerez, when he said, “If the escort can provide you services to your satisfaction, hire him again; if not, hire someone else. It’s your $$$; get the satisfaction you want; save the labels for canned produce.” I am an escort; my job is to provide the client with a fantasy. To allow the client the chance try something that they would not normally do. I have always taken pride in my job and my services. Each client is very special to me; I did not get in this business just to make the all might dollar. I wanted to provide something special to each of my clients a fantasy or maybe a dream….is that not what we all want. I always try and give 110% to each of my clients and I feel that the reviews on this page reflect that. So when I posted this private piece of information about myself….it was not an attempt at turning someone off…but an attempt at sharing.

 

I really hope that this posting is an answer to the question “would you hire an married escort” If you feel I did not address your concern….please email me stef4vegas@lvcm.com so I have a chance to address it in a more personal setting.

 

Stephan Lacoste

1-888-650-2859

http://www.lasvegasfun4you.com

[Guest MrB]

Stef,

 

 

I couldn't agree with you more

[Guest MattAdams]

I didnt even realize the discussion was about stefan. I really chalk up the info on his webpage to youth and inexperience. Quite about half the escorts in vegas are married now...I think they figured if Alec Powers could pretend to be str8 anyone could.

 

Quite frankly I get more interest in general from both men and women now that I am married than before I was married. Beside, having a wife, boyfriend, mistress and fuck buddies as well as the occassional whore keeps your sex life diversified.

 

Matt Adams

[Guest Jake]

LAST EDITED ON Aug-27-00 AT 02:11PM (EST)[p]>...I think they

>figured if Alec Powers could

>pretend to be str8 anyone

>could.

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>What's so great about being straight? I'm trying to forget those days!

[Guest Daddy-In-Training]

You know guys, when I'm with a HOT guy, I really could care less whether they have a husband, wife, lover, or pet.

 

I have been with both Stef and with Alex, in each case I have VERY fond memories.

 

The one of Alex that comes to mind, is him coming out of the shower dressed in nothing but a towel and ear to ear smile.

 

The one for Stef, is him laying on my bed looking over his shoulder with that impish smile, and the very sexy wiggle that raised my blood pressure.

 

My only regrets are that I never got a good picture of either of them. A nice picture of them (signed of course) would be something that I'd treasure forever. (Hummm....Note to self...Book trip to Las Vegas soon!)

 

When I go to visit them....I will invite them out...Be it dinner, shows or even some quality time beside the pool. Rest assured that their special person will be welcome too. I'd love to meet them because I don't have a single jealous bone in my body!

 

-- Daddy