Have you ever told a client you loved him

[Chuckball]

I was shocked that my favorite escort told me that he loved me during an overnighter. I have always maintained a professional relationship even though I have expressed my love for this guy in the past. Although it will not impact on our professional relationship, does the group feel this was a marketing tool?

[+ Pensant]

As part of a role-play, yes.

[TruHart1]

I was shocked that my favorite escort told me that he loved me during an overnighter. I have always maintained a professional relationship even though I have expressed my love for this guy in the past. Although it will not impact on our professional relationship, does the group feel this was a marketing tool?

In my experience, you need to understand the man (escort) who declares that he "loves you!"

 

One of my very favorite regular escorts (now retired but he still sees me) and I have a relationship that has grown very close in the eight or nine years I have been hiring him. I always travel to his city in February and hire him on or around Valentine's Day. I almost always hire him 3 or 4 more times each year, flying to his city and hiring him a couple of times during my visits.

 

Before he retired, he was always an escort (he had many, many stunning reviews on Daddy's Reviews!) who never booked more than one client per day so he could be at his best, in bed and out, with each client! He always brings me roses --- a dozen, and sometimes two dozen, on Valentine's Day (the first V-Day we got together, he surprised me with the flowers & made me feel so special!) I now always buy him a personalized gift when we meat.

 

Additionally, we almost always spend time off the clock after playing: going out to dinner and/or to the strip clubs in his city, at times taking in a good movie. The first meeting I had with him in 2011, we had so much in common and felt so comfortable with each other, that our very first two-hour session was nearly over just talking and getting to know each other. When I pointed out our set time was nearly finished, he took my hand and led me to the bedroom, where we spent two glorious hours getting to know each other in the most exciting and intimate ways!

 

Slowly, as our trust and (non-sexual) intimacy built over the years, we both began sharing such personal things that a very, very close friendship just naturally continued building between us. During our 2014 Valentine's Day session, after he had cum all over my chest, he said, "TruHart, I love you!" Was it PR? I felt it was completely sincere and honestly, I was a bit shocked since he is one of the most professional (in the best way) escorts I've ever met!

 

Fast forward and now he continues to say he loves me and I have become very comfortable saying I love him! Will we move in together and get married? No, because he truly IS a professional. We shall always remain intimate (in all ways!) friends, the spoken love between us always continuing to build our unique friendship!

 

I hired an escort in 2011 and one of my best lifelong friends walked into my life, greeting me with a deep, sensual kiss that STILL has the power to turn me on instantly!

 

TruHart1

[big-n-tall]

Not an escort...

 

I have become quite close to a small number of working guys. I have said I love you (platonically) to them and vice versa. Some have said it to me first and some I've said it first.

 

I don't think any of them are using it as a "marketing tool". Save for one, I don't see most of them often enough that saying, "I love you" is an effective sales ploy. I believe when they say it, it's sincere.

[Guest europeanman]

told me that he loved me

 

I would ask him to define it . Seriously, I heard it so many times that I wouldn't even think of it.

[MscleLovr]

It’s been said to me by 4 different working guys. I only believed 1man to be sincere.

 

I think it may be a “marketing tool” as the OP suggested. It may also speak to the difficulty working guys face in establishing a meaningful relationship outside of work.

[+ Topseed]

I’ve heard it several times...almost always when we’re horizontal....less so when we’re vertical....

[+ Keith30309]

I don’t believe I’ve ever heard it.

Hm

[Guest europeanman]

I would ask him to define it Seriously, I heard it so many times that I wouldn't even think of it.

Just to clarify, I never heard it from an escort, but from the young actors and fashion models, I often generously wine, dine and support. Sometimes I hear it after the first bottle(s). Other times, instead of hearing it, I receive it in a txt the day after

[Aaron_Bauder]

No, but asked a massage client to hang out as a friend, no strings attached. He wasn't interested, probably because he knows I'm attracted to him and doesn't want to go down that path, even though the feeling is somewhat mutual (physical only on his end).

[Aaron_Bauder]

the young actors and fashion models, I often wine, dine and generously support

 

Where is the sign-up sheet? lol

[Guest europeanman]

Where is the sign-up sheet? lol

Ha ha... It required years of hard work, dedication and commitment.

[+ WilliamM]

In my experience, you need to understand the man (escort) who declares that he "loves you!"

 

One of my very favorite regular escorts (now retired but he still sees me) and I have a relationship that has grown very close in the eight or nine years I have been hiring him. I always travel to his city in February and hire him on or around Valentine's Day. I almost always hire him 3 or 4 more times each year, flying to his city and hiring him a couple of times during my visits.

 

Before he retired, he was always an escort (he had many, many stunning reviews on Daddy's Reviews!) who never booked more than one client per day so he could be at his best, in bed and out, with each client! He always brings me roses --- a dozen, and sometimes two dozen, on Valentine's Day (the first V-Day we got together, he surprised me with the flowers & made me feel so special!) I now always buy him a personalized gift when we meat.

 

Additionally, we almost always spend time off the clock after playing: going out to dinner and/or to the strip clubs in his city, at times taking in a good movie. The first meeting I had with him in 2011, we had so much in common and felt so comfortable with each other, that our very first two-hour session was nearly over just talking and getting to know each other. When I pointed out our set time was nearly finished, he took my hand and led me to the bedroom, where we spent two glorious hours getting to know each other in the most exciting and intimate ways!

 

Slowly, as our trust and (non-sexual) intimacy built over the years, we both began sharing such personal things that a very, very close friendship just naturally continued building between us. During our 2014 Valentine's Day session, after he had cum all over my chest, he said, "TruHart, I love you!" Was it PR? I felt it was completely sincere and honestly, I was a bit shocked since he is one of the most professional (in the best way) escorts I've ever met!

 

Fast forward and now he continues to say he loves me and I have become very comfortable saying I love him! Will we move in together and get married? No, because he truly IS a professional. We shall always remain intimate (in all ways!) friends, the spoken love between us always continuing to build our unique friendship!

 

I hired an escort in 2011 and one of my best lifelong friends walked into my life, greeting me with a deep, sensual kiss that STILL has the power to turn me on instantly!

 

TruHart1

 

Perfect. He is a very lucky man.

[MscleLovr]

Sometimes I hear it after the first bottle(s). Other times, instead of hearing it, I receive it in a txt

 

You'll know it’s truly love [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] when one of those young men pays for dinner ;-)

[+ Steve yabsley]

I stick with the “I love how you make me feel.” perspective.

[+ sf westcoaster]

Don't confuse "I love you" with "I am in love with you"!

[myophile]

In my experience, you need to understand the man (escort) who declares that he "loves you!"

 

One of my very favorite regular escorts (now retired but he still sees me) and I have a relationship that has grown very close in the eight or nine years I have been hiring him. I always travel to his city in February and hire him on or around Valentine's Day. I almost always hire him 3 or 4 more times each year, flying to his city and hiring him a couple of times during my visits.

 

Before he retired, he was always an escort (he had many, many stunning reviews on Daddy's Reviews!) who never booked more than one client per day so he could be at his best, in bed and out, with each client! He always brings me roses --- a dozen, and sometimes two dozen, on Valentine's Day (the first V-Day we got together, he surprised me with the flowers & made me feel so special!) I now always buy him a personalized gift when we meat.

 

Additionally, we almost always spend time off the clock after playing: going out to dinner and/or to the strip clubs in his city, at times taking in a good movie. The first meeting I had with him in 2011, we had so much in common and felt so comfortable with each other, that our very first two-hour session was nearly over just talking and getting to know each other. When I pointed out our set time was nearly finished, he took my hand and led me to the bedroom, where we spent two glorious hours getting to know each other in the most exciting and intimate ways!

 

Slowly, as our trust and (non-sexual) intimacy built over the years, we both began sharing such personal things that a very, very close friendship just naturally continued building between us. During our 2014 Valentine's Day session, after he had cum all over my chest, he said, "TruHart, I love you!" Was it PR? I felt it was completely sincere and honestly, I was a bit shocked since he is one of the most professional (in the best way) escorts I've ever met!

 

Fast forward and now he continues to say he loves me and I have become very comfortable saying I love him! Will we move in together and get married? No, because he truly IS a professional. We shall always remain intimate (in all ways!) friends, the spoken love between us always continuing to build our unique friendship!

 

I hired an escort in 2011 and one of my best lifelong friends walked into my life, greeting me with a deep, sensual kiss that STILL has the power to turn me on instantly!

 

TruHart1

 

My regular guy, who I see every couple of weeks, started saying “I love you” recently. I talked with him about what that meant to me (and didn’t mean), and I now feel comfortable saying “I love you” back. Even if this were not a business transaction, I don’t want to marry him; we have a raucus, hot AF good time whenever we meet, I know a fair amount about his personal life, and he about mine; and I do care about him; but our lives and interests don’t intersect enough for a full-on romantic relationship, even if we were both inclined—which we honestly are not. In this case, “I love you” on both sides—mine, anyway—is not so much romance, as bromance. Sex with him is awesome, and I LOVE him for what he does for me, and to me; but I also admire him, and I respect what he does and the thorough professionalism and generosity he brings to escorting and his other side hustles. I hope he feels the same way about me—he certainly treats me as if he does!

Edited December 17, 2019 by myophile

[Guest europeanman]

Don't confuse "I love you" with "I am in love with you"!

Absolutely. I have this special person in my life (not an escort) that I met 10 years ago and it was love at the first sight. I was madly in love for say a year and gradually this turned to love. I am still a little in love with him, but it is mostly deep quite love instead of the whouaou feeling of the first months. The other day I was waiting for him at a bar and the moment I saw him enter and waving his way in the crowded space like a swan I remembered why I fall in love with him.

[+ purplekow]

I have had an escort tell me he loved me but he was not in love with me. I am not the kind of guy who says I love you to anyone, so I was taken aback but I knew that he meant I love you in the I love spending time with you and love you as a friend way.

[+ Gar1eth]

There were one or two I wished would say that. But I never thought they really would. And there was one guy, I really wished would think of me as an actual friend rather than a client. He didn't, so I had to stop seeing him for my emotional health ( and yes, I was the one who made the decision to stop hiring I never did anything crazy to try to make him see me as a friend.

 

If an escort had ever told me he loved me, well I'm thinking I could express my feelings best in a song.

 

 

Gman

[Guest europeanman]

You'll know it’s truly love [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] when one of those young men pays for dinner ;-)

Them to pay for dinner? This is unthinkable, I would never allow it. There are some rules in this game.

[MscleLovr]

Break away from the stereotype [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] because after the role-reversal, it can be rather exciting.

 

I let a young man pay for dinner a couple of times. Once we came home, he started undressing me and I let him take charge in bed. As I’m normally dominant, it was quite arousing to be lazy and let him dictate how he used me to fuck him.

[Guest europeanman]

Break away from the stereotype [uSER=19303]@europeanman[/uSER] because after the role-reversal, it can be rather exciting.

 

I let a young man pay for dinner a couple of times. Once we came home, he started undressing me and I let him take charge in bed. As I’m normally dominant, it was quite arousing to be lazy and let him dictate how he used me to fuck him.

I enjoy this market, no need to disrupt it

[hypothetically]

I was shocked that my favorite escort told me that he loved me during an overnighter. I have always maintained a professional relationship even though I have expressed my love for this guy in the past. Although it will not impact on our professional relationship, does the group feel this was a marketing tool?

 

Shitty marketing, but shitty marketing always grabs your attention, doesn’t it?

 

Ive noticed young men using it more frequently as a way to verbalize their appreciation. Context/tone are important. I would pray that’s not the best he can do, per marketing tool, and he just wanted to tell you how much he appreciates you. I wouldn’t start shopping tuxedos just yet.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

The title of this thread should really be changed to Have you ever told a client you loved him and meant it

 

That's the crux of this conversation.