Which one do you prefer?

[Mydavid]

I wonder you value the closeness that comes with multiple visits or crave the newness of a different face?

[+ funguy86]

I have yet to have a repeat. There is something about discovering someone new

[marylander1940]

I wonder you value the closeness that comes with multiple visits or crave the newness of a different face?

 

Depends... I have chemistry with someone and among other things I love how he looks in person why trying someone new?

[big-n-tall]

When I first started hiring it was the newness of it that drove me to find new guys to hire. However, as time has worn on I have regulars for whom I see whenever possible. I hire new guys infrequently. I did meet 2 new guys this year. Both I would love to see again... and again... and again.

[+ keroscenefire]

I definitely enjoy having my regulars. Love having that rapport with someone where you kinda understand what turns each other on. Plus in some cases, we have similar interests and I enjoy catching up with them and doing some mutually fun activities outside of the bedroom.

 

But I also enjoy meeting a new guy every once in a while. It's fun to explore a new body and have new sensations as they do things you are maybe not as familiar with.

[hypothetically]

Both have their perks.

I enjoy my regulars that I get to see when our travel schedules align. The familiarity in another setting makes for something special.

 

But there will always exist the allure of a new connection.

[myophile]

I wonder you value the closeness that comes with multiple visits or crave the newness of a different face?

 

Yes!

 

Seriously: both.

 

I have a regular guy, and love the familiar rhythm of sex with him. But I still sample hot new guys when they pop up—just can’t pass up the novelty!

[Tangogent]

It’s a balancing act for me between intimacy and newness. I don’t like it when I sense an escort has begun to view me as a regular” he can take for granted, with whom he doesn’t have to work very hard. But how often does a new lad, even if looks like his sexy photos, turns out to be bad at his job and unable to connect with me?! I also don’t want to develop such feelings for an escort that I have an urge to be extra-generous with him; it s nut wise to be vulnerable to one of these friendly, neighborhood sex-workers IMO.

[+ purplekow]

I am a serial monogamist. Hire a regular more prominently. However, I am never totally monogamous and I have a few guys I see less frequently and even more rarely a new guy. This year. I have hired two new guys and a regular regularly and two or three other guys intermittently.

[Islesguy]

I am a serial monogamist. Hire a regular more prominently. However, I am never totally monogamous and I have a few guys I see less frequently and even more rarely a new guy. This year. I have hired two new guys and a regular regularly and two or three other guys intermittently.

Just want to applaud your excellent use of adverbs.

[+ purplekow]

Just want to applaud your excellent use of adverbs.

Indubitably one of my loveliest qualities.

[beachboy]

It's a balancing act. I prefer to know what's on offer from a provider which only really comes with experience with the guy. The excitement of meeting up with a 'new' hot guy can quickly dissipate into disappointment if the meet doesn't live up to expectations.

 

Recently my go to guy disappeared to pastures new which was a damn shame cos he really was mindblowingly hot & enthusiastic.

 

After a while I tried a newbie with no reviews & had a brilliant time but a second meet was only 'meh.'

I gave him a good review after the first session which he didn't live up to on the 2nd meeting. Taken for granted? Maybe.

 

Last week I booked another guy & to my surprise he was as good as the original go to guy. I sent him a complimentary text the next day but have refrained from reviewing till I've seen him again. If that lives up to the last meet then I'll review.

 

I guess what I want is the excitement of a 'new' guy with the certainty of an amazing time! That's exactly what the best guys provide which makes them so popular & successful.

[TruHart1]

Personally, I usually hire the tried and true guys I have found who never fail to give me the best of themselves over multiple sessions. Sometimes after a repeat session or two where the escort seems a lot less engaged than he was our first few times, I will write him off, but most of my repeat escorts continue to give of themselves in the best ways, as they did in our very first session or even on a deeper level as time goes by!

 

I first hired @AresEscortNYC in 2011---my first hire ever, and I have continued to hire him each and every time I visit New York City! Some of my escort relationships are like Ares, each time we are together, our enjoyment of, and friendship with the escort gets deeper and therefore more pleasurable!

 

I do sometimes hire new guys who pop up on RentMen visiting my city! @VictorPowers is a pretty recent one (January 2019!) Of course, Victor already had a sterling reputation here as a very intelligent escort who is willing to share his views with us on the forum! I never fail to hire Victor every time he visits my city and getting to know this multi-faceted man over this past year has been another of my greatest pleasures, both in and out of bed.

 

For me, a new "face" can be exciting once in a while, but if I click with an escort, I usually want to see him regularly. The great escorts I never fail to enjoy are exciting and fascinating men, with whom I hope to continue to stay in touch even after they retire from escorting!!!

 

TruHart1

[jawjateck]

Variety has been my preference since the early days in the hobby. I haven't scheduled too many guys more than 5 times. When I first started, it often felt like the spark of the first meeting was rarely duplicated, that I was being taken for granted, or that any blah session would be ok with ole jawja, and thus began my exploration to scope out new talent.

[+ Steve yabsley]

Variety has been my preference since the early days in the hobby. I haven't scheduled too many guys more than 5 times. When I first started, it often felt like the spark of the first meeting was rarely duplicated, that I was being taken for granted, or that any blah session would be ok with ole jawja, and thus began my exploration to scope out new talent.

 

+1

 

that said......I’m always optimistic that each session will be as good or better than the pervious and I can find a solid repeat guy.....

[+ purplekow]

I find second and third encounters to be generally more exciting and invigorating than a first encounter. Even though this is a signed sealed and paid for experience, there is still a bit of incsecurity in the first encounter. By the second encounter I know what he does that works for me and what I do that works for him and then we go for the works.

After the third time, it takes more effort to keep the fire burning bright but from prior experiences with him, you know where you can get a spark

[+ WilliamM]

I scheduled many over night for guys I didn't, know, or met casually at bars like Rounds in New York. Early on, I hired men with excellent reviews here (Kristian LA and Tristan Waters).

 

I knew Jonathan from New Jersey for three years and Billy Brandt for a long sixteen fun filled hours.

[+ Pensant]

I’m coming up on the third anniversary with my favorite provider. He lives far away, so we schedule 4 or 5 weekends a year. The sex and camaraderie just keep getting better. Closer to home, I’m seeing two guys and it’s amazing and gratifying how intuitive they both are. They use trigger words that they know will drive me wild.

[mike carey]

Noting the forum this is in, interesting that most of the responses (stand fast @hypothetically and [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER]) have been from clients rather than escorts.

Edited December 1, 2019 by mike carey

[+ oldNbusted]

Noting the forum this is in, interesting that most of the responses (stand aside @hypothetically and [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER]) have been from clients rather than escorts.

 

I would say that is to be expected for any question where any provider that expresses a strong preference runs a risk of turning off potential clients?

 

And then, it's arguable this particular question sets up a false dilemma. Regulars start out as newbies, can't have one without the other, esp. since regulars will fade away, eventually...

[mike carey]

@oldNbusted I don't disagree, and that may well be why fewer escorts than clients answered the question. I agree it's a false dilemma but not one of which an escort should be afraid. If I knew an escort preferred regulars, if I were interested, I would see that as a challenge to become one rather than a disincentive, as a new client, to ask. I have successfully negotiated the 'will schedule more readily with prior clients' hoops on at least one occasion.

[+ oldNbusted]

@oldNbusted I don't disagree, and that may well be why fewer escorts than clients answered the question. I agree it's a false dilemma but not one of which an escort should be afraid. If I knew an escort preferred regulars, if I were interested, I would see that as a challenge to become one rather than a disincentive, as a new client, to ask. I have successfully negotiated the 'will schedule more readily with prior clients' hoops on at least one occasion.

 

I understand. We all know you are not a typical client.

[+ JEC]

As a client, I always seem to be looking for the next great experience. Providers who top the scales I'm def down to repeat, that has been a select few so far however. Where I live there is a limited talent pool, so I an generally relying on traveling providers or when I travel for work which is infrequent. If there was a 10/10 in my area I would be down to have a regular.

[+ Steve yabsley]

As a client, I always seem to be looking for the next great experience. Providers who top the scales I'm def down to repeat, that has been a select few so far however. Where I live there is a limited talent pool, so I an generally relying on traveling providers or when I travel for work which is infrequent. If there was a 10/10 in my area I would be down to have a regular.

 

well said. Me too ?

[Tangogent]

Although it can be particularly nice with a certain escort, I don’t wish to feel dependent on one or for him to see me that way. At present, I’m moving on from someone who came to take me for granted as a ‘regular’ and enjoy the discovery of new marvels of young manhood.