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I asked him if he was comfortable woekinf with plus size clients and he initially said yes. We talked more about what I hope our session would entail. Then he asked for my stats (age/weight/race) - then he apologized that he was too small and it probably wouldn’t work out... so for me, not a great experience. Mind you nothing we discussed doing would have had me crush him, so there’s that.

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He's soooo cute!! Anyone have more info https://rent.men/Fundiscreetfun

 

I agree @toocoolforschool. He’s cute and he has a lovely ripped body.

 

 

I’m sorry @britok that you describe talking with him as “not a great experience”. I appreciate that his response to your wishes was not what you wanted to hear.

 

I feel, however, that the honesty of the young man is to be valued. It’s better that he was polite and direct with you, rather than you waste your time and money and not get what you want.

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I agree @toocoolforschool. He’s cute and he has a lovely ripped body.

 

 

I’m sorry @britok that you describe talking with him as “not a great experience”. I appreciate that his response to your wishes was not what you wanted to hear.

 

I feel, however, that the honesty of the young man is to be valued. It’s better that he was polite and direct with you, rather than you waste your time and money and not get what you want.

 

I get what you’re saying - and think you’re right which is why I ALWAYS say upfront I’m plus size and ask if the providers are comfortable with that.

 

He initially said yes when I told him this - and the. we trade all this back and forth. Then, I tell him some expectations - and THEN he ask for my actual weight... it was a little suspect in my opinion, and I wish if it had been a dealbreaker, that question would have come at the beginning of our conversation rather than after making plans and setting expectations to have it end the way it did at the last minute. For someone who is fat (to be blunt), it’s hard not to be triggered or feel a certain type of way when you’re essentially conditioned to ask ahead of time if you’re “worthy” of their time and talents.

 

You’ll have to forgive me. I’m still a little pressed by it because this all happened this morning and momma was looking forward to it. Haha

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I understand what you’re saying @britok.

 

I have a boyfriend now but when I hired, I always described myself and asked if we would be compatible. I’m tall and lean but I’m also old, and many guys don‘t want to get pumped by a man who’s 30+years older than them or don’t want to suck an old man’s cock to completion. I always preferred guys to be direct with me and say ”it won’t work for me” than have a disappointing date.

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I get what you’re saying - and think you’re right which is why I ALWAYS say upfront I’m plus size and ask if the providers are comfortable with that.

 

He initially said yes when I told him this - and the. we trade all this back and forth. Then, I tell him some expectations - and THEN he ask for my actual weight... it was a little suspect in my opinion, and I wish if it had been a dealbreaker, that question would have come at the beginning of our conversation rather than after making plans and setting expectations to have it end the way it did at the last minute. For someone who is fat (to be blunt), it’s hard not to be triggered or feel a certain type of way when you’re essentially conditioned to ask ahead of time if you’re “worthy” of their time and talents.

 

You’ll have to forgive me. I’m still a little pressed by it because this all happened this morning and momma was looking forward to it. Haha

 

I'd suggest a slight change to your approach. Spell out both the stats and the expectations early on, at the same time, and prior to asking or at the time of asking for any commitment to a meeting from the escort. That will avoid getting your hopes up only to have them dashed later, and for those who are comfortable with your stats and your expectations, you'll have a better session in the offing. This isn't a criticism, but an observation -- terms like "plus sized" are amorphous/subjective. The lack of comfort on an escort's part may be due to how plus-sized or what activities, so it's not unlikely that you won't get a reliable answer until all those details are on the table.

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I'd suggest a slight change to your approach. Spell out both the stats and the expectations early on, at the same time, and prior to asking or at the time of asking for any commitment to a meeting from the escort. That will avoid getting your hopes up only to have them dashed later, and for those who are comfortable with your stats and your expectations, you'll have a better session in the offing. This isn't a criticism, but an observation -- terms like "plus sized" are amorphous/subjective. The lack of comfort on an escort's part may be due to how plus-sized or what activities, so it's not unlikely that you won't get a reliable answer until all those details are on the table.

This is practical on paper, but at what point is it that the other person is too picky or apprehensive?

We as escorts even get this, or in non hiring hook ups as well ( people want age, height, weight, waist size, dick size, race, eye color hair color, pictures to confirm, reask stat questions, ask for more pictures, and on and on with the cycle, with curvy/overweight women it can be exponentially worse)

To the @britok I would just disclose a weight range and height in this manor...5'9 250+...or 5'9 300+.... etc.

then just add that you are healthy and hygienic.

If a provider asks for pictures or any other questions on stats or appearance they are already going to be judgemental.

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This is practical on paper, but at what point is it that the other person is too picky or apprehensive?

We as escorts even get this, or in non hiring hook ups as well ( people want age, height, weight, waist size, dick size, race, eye color hair color, pictures to confirm, reask stat questions, ask for more pictures, and on and on with the cycle, with curvy/overweight women it can be exponentially worse)

To the @britok I would just disclose a weight range and height in this manor...5'9 250+...or 5'9 300+.... etc.

then just add that you are healthy and hygienic.

If a provider asks for pictures or any other questions on stats or appearance they are already going to be judgemental.

 

That's about what I'd suggest, except I'd also include what I want to do together.

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I understand what you’re saying @britok.

 

I have a boyfriend now but when I hired, I always described myself and asked if we would be compatible. I’m tall and lean but I’m also old, and many guys don‘t want to get pumped by a man who’s 30+years older than them or don’t want to suck an old man’s cock to completion. I always preferred guys to be direct with me and say ”it won’t work for me” than have a disappointing date.

 

Thank you and thank you for sharing too!

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This is practical on paper, but at what point is it that the other person is too picky or apprehensive?

We as escorts even get this, or in non hiring hook ups as well ( people want age, height, weight, waist size, dick size, race, eye color hair color, pictures to confirm, reask stat questions, ask for more pictures, and on and on with the cycle, with curvy/overweight women it can be exponentially worse)

To the @britok I would just disclose a weight range and height in this manor...5'9 250+...or 5'9 300+.... etc.

then just add that you are healthy and hygienic.

If a provider asks for pictures or any other questions on stats or appearance they are already going to be judgemental.

Thank you for this!

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