DallasClient Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 I kept track and in the last 90 days I have seen 33. Figure that is too much and am going to cut back. In the past few years I think I have put two through college and paid the child support of an another (the escort's child, not the escort. I like'm young but c'mon). Is there an average number? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Tarte Gogo Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 It is hard to say these days, what counts as hiring? A Spa masseur who goes very far, for a tip, counts as an escort hire? A Grindr guys who wants a bit of gas money counts? But in any case, your are meeting more than 1 guy every 3 days. I much closer to 1 guy every 5 days even if I count the above gray areas. Impressed with your wallet size! + kov78 and MuscleChaser 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DallasClient Posted September 30, 2019 Author Share Posted September 30, 2019 I don't do masseurs, but I am counting Grindr guys in the mix but always pay them about the same as RM guys. I need to cut back though. marylander1940 and + kov78 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ tassojunior Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 I think once a week is a common spread, especially with a regular. Of course that's the client who has the regular provider once a week. The provider often has several weekly clients. And even those who don't have a regular provider often seem to schedule once a week dates. Twice a week can be affordable too. Trice weekly is the top of most guys' budgets. liubit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ BenjaminNicholas Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 This is the equivalent of asking a group of frequent fliers about their yearly mileage + FrankR, sbguy, + glutes and 5 others 8 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rvwnsd Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 ...Is there an average number? 1.625 per week is the national average. The 0.625 does not kiss. Of course, I am being facetious. There is no average number. It varies by individual. liubit 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ carlos45 Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 When I was carrying debt and a student loan, some years back, I hired quite a bit. Sometimes, four or fives times a year. I hired last, about a year ago. Now that I'm debt-free, I don't hire much, anymore. + sync and + kov78 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
big-n-tall Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 I don't think there is an average because people do different things depending on their horniness and how much money they have. If you feel you're seeing too many, then cut back. It's going to be hard to pinpoint a frame of reference comparing your situation to others. I've only hired 4 guys this entire year. One, in particular, I've just seen many many times. liubit and GTMike 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Studsearcher Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 Once or twice a month for me, depending on the talent where I’m traveling. I used to hire more often but realized that, in my case, it had become more about the thrill of the hire than the actual session. I also realized there are much cheaper ways to get my thrills, so I made myself cut back. Walker1, GeminiCA and + Pensant 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Quincy_7 Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 I've seen two guys since August. My hiring tends to be very slow for the most part but shoots up exponentially when I'm on vacation. I saw close to 10 guys when I was in London on holiday back in April. massageformuscle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Keith30309 Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 A couple of times a week when there is some financial element (I.e., that includes guys I know from SA or A4A non-Pro’s) but that’s heavily weighted towards travel times. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MidwestCoastal Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy. What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'. One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile. Nebost and + Tarte Gogo 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jawjateck Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 Much less in the future. + sam.fitzpatrick 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harryinny Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 I used to hire more often but realized that, in my case, it had become more about the thrill of the hire than the actual session. So true!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Islesguy Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 If I had the money and my two favorite guys lived near me, I would probably keep them on-call. LOL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ Tarte Gogo Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy. What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'. One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile. Some young guys definitely like daddies, and may not need the money. You could try for a bit and see if they like your daddy-looks. You have to be psychologically ready to be rejected, ignored and blocked, though. Walker1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ 7829V Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 If I had the money and my two favorite guys lived near me, I would probably keep them on-call. LOL They’d want a retainer fee Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marylander1940 Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 I don't do masseurs, but I am counting Grindr guys in the mix but always pay them about the same as RM guys. I need to cut back though. Exactly! If you're paying they're escorts. I'm glad you unlike others don't brag on here about saving a $50 bill. I hire 3 times per month. massageformuscle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Milo Farnsworth Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 Not as often as i'd like. DMICS 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ 7829V Posted September 30, 2019 Share Posted September 30, 2019 One weekend with the same guy, once a month. Occasionally add a two hour session or two with a different guy. What I'm more curious about, what income people have in relation to how often they hire. I'm definitely torn sometimes... saving for retirement vs enjoying my current financial situation while I'm still relatively 'young'. One more tangent... I have not had a 'non-hire' hook-up in years. My somewhat pessimistic outlook lately has me wondering - Would anyone fuck me if I didn't pay them? Its definitely putting a negative outlook on me finding a LTR. I'm thinking I should quit hiring for awhile. I have a side job/gig and I use that money to hire, dinning out, theater, all the fun stuff. I don't touch my primary income for that. I usually hire 1/wk but I do mostly masseurs. Escorts not that often. Regarding... your second concern, for me is more about convenience, to schedule when I need/want than wasting time on grindr. I have a guy that lives a mile away from me! But is a pain to schedule our calendars or actually meet. He's really hot, but our schedules don't match. Same with others that when I set up a hookup with them, they cancel last minute due to family/friends/etc. With escorts/masseurs is different/easier, specially when they are regulars. In my mind is more convenience that thinking if I can have sex without paying, but I have to admit that when I have sex off grindr, it feels strange not paying, haha. Regaring a LTR, I'm not actively looking. I could say I have 2 guys that are like my boyfriends (but they are not) we spend a lot of time together, one of them sleeps with me 4 nights a week (we rarely have sex nowadays, is more the closeness/affection we have for each other), and the other one sometimes spends the night too. So I have a lot in my plate at the moment I'd say. I'm grateful for all these, I think I'm living the best time of my life (I'm in my early 40s) + Just Sayin, massageformuscle and + BlueSky 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 There is no average number. How could you let your grade school math teacher down like this? Of course there is an average, it's just that none of us know what it is. :D What the OP probably probably really meant is to ask what is typical and that is where you hit the nail on the head: It varies by individual. + ButchAtl 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KeepItReal Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 How could you let your grade school math teacher down like this? Of course there is an average, it's just that none of us know what it is. :D What the OP probably probably really meant is to ask what is typical and that is where you hit the nail on the head: Average means you are the best of the worst and the worst of the best. You can do better! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ oldNbusted Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 Average means you are the best of the worst and the worst of the best. You can do better! I want to be different, just like everybody else... + FrankR and bigjsd 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
+ keroscenefire Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I'm usually averaging about twice a month. One per paycheck at most is all I can afford. massageformuscle 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
myophile Posted October 1, 2019 Share Posted October 1, 2019 I'm usually averaging about twice a month. One per paycheck at most is all I can afford. Same here—twice a month/once a paycheck. + keroscenefire 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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